<span style="color: #0000ff">"I plan to when i am done with the dishes. i thought about that but what if he feels pressured to keep using the name we gave him but secretly hates it?"</span>she frowned a little and then shook her head.<span style="color: #0000ff"> "i intend to wait at least a year for both... our relationship is much better so i hope i won't need that long but i have to be confident in our bond before i will propose marriage and i was hoping to space the children out at least two years if not three." </span><div class="messageTextEndMarker"> </div>