<span style="color: #660000">"Nalo tried to talk to me about this before. She warned me but I said I could hide my feelings from you. She tried to teach me ways to spend time together, how to brush your hair properly, helping you wash and scrub your back, ways to fold your clothes... Domestic things but things that would still help our relationship. I turned it all down and now I feel like I'm flailing hopelessly."</span><div class="messageTextEndMarker"> </div>