<span style="color: #ffcc99">"that is not how Harpies do things... if me messes up me still has to silence any arguing and act like me was right all along, then me quietly does things differently when no one is looking. but me is in charge of whole flock, they need me seem like iron or they will be afraid of bad ruling."</span>she nodded a little and returned the squeeze.<span style="color: #ffcc99"> "me thinks you need to forgive yourself, me not understand this 'small part' of you but me does understand making mistakes... if you do not forgive you will not be better, the bad feeling will make you be worse and worse, hurt more people, hurt your family more, which makes you feel more bad which makes you hurt family more... bad building on bad until you really hurt someone and then they either kill you, you kill them or family just breaks up. must forgive yourself instead." </span><div class="messageTextEndMarker"> </div>