<span style="color: #006600">"i am not saying you failed her... she never told you what was wrong and even i only have a very basic understanding of what happened to her. i just know that she is miserable and goes out of her way to drive people out of her life. i have barely managed to maintain a friendly relationship with her despite my best efforts to be there for her." </span><div class="messageTextEndMarker"> </div>