<span style="color: blue">"That is tragic, my family is still alive but I've distanced myself from them. Well they're probably alive, I can't really say I'd lose any theoretical sleep over them being dead though. Oh... that, that seems like something fairly important you should tell your husband. With such a short life span you shouldn't waste time trying to figure out how best to tell bad news, you should just do it and get it off your chest."</span><div class="messageTextEndMarker"> </div>