<span style="color: #006666">"you keep forgetting that i am old and not nearly as prone to overreactions. i have lost so many friends that one more short lived friend is just a grain of sand on a very large pile. now, when my sisters start to die... that is going to really hurt. i wouldn't really be doing the work myself, i have people for that. stop walking on eggshells Ras, i am a tough old girl, i am not that hard to offend or hurt." </span><div class="messageTextEndMarker"> </div>