"We did talk about it once before all of this happen and thought that would be in our future. I want her to be my babies mother and spoke to her once tonight. But I am not pressuring her. I gave her a choice as to when she wants to marry me. And if she doesn't then I will simply get a nanny to help me. If she doe but not now then she can adopt the babies at a later time. I only want her to have her say in this because I will be with the babies a lot when they are home or at the hospital. I don't want her to feel left out." Sean spoke as he worked then he looked up at Joyce<br/>"Do I make any sense? "