We dragons dont look mating as like you humans do. Mating is a pleasure yes but it is also a form of protection females yes their lustful tastes on males so the male fall under their rule. Many females try to get males so they can take over a kingdom of humans. There is a very rare few mated pair that actually love each other as you describe. Though I admit her and I were one of those rare pairs. But its a long story that I dont want to bore you to tell." He said thinking nothing of it.