Kate placed her hand on his arm. "You doing alright. There are a lot of forks and spoons. This is a 12 course meal and you begin with outside then in toward your plate. By the top of you dinner plate is a small plate for bread and butter knife. I will hold the platter or bowl for you. The best way to get through this and not be sick is to take two spoonful on you plate and you can eat more for dessert. The first course is soup. Do not eat all of it."