Maybe thinking about getting the house to how it should be might give her something to think of besides all this crap going on. "Try not to worry about time, we have enough to worry about. Just think of getting the stuff we  can move ourselves without a mover. To make the home more homey will make a difference I am sure. I think most of the things we should leave to the professionals to move, and we just decide where to put the  things. We both need to put the feet up, and just go to ease for a bit. I think that  so much has happened and we need a break. So try not to stress so much OK? I know it is hard, but if we let this stuff get to us we will have a breakdown."<br/>It seemed that you weren't upset about his sexist statement, which was good since he didn't mean it as sexist, he was just trying to put you at ease.<br/>"Don't worry,I can deal with it. I wouldn't of offered if I didn't think I can help you. This is a partnership anyways. I help you, you help me...ugh..why is the theme of Barney in my head now?"<br/>He  smirks, trying to insert some humor in the situation.<br/>He squeezed her and gave her a kiss. "Just we need to believe we can solve this problem."