Jin sighed, rubbing his forehead with his hand. "I don't think there is a way. It just happens on it's own..." he told her. "If there was a way, I would have warned you about that too, but sadly there is not.." He then turned his head to look down at Lilly, "I don't know if I wanted to do it or not.. My emotions are a bit whacked out right now. I feel that I may be a bad person if I stay here with you... Who knows what could happen to us if this continues.." he said, looking sad. "I'm sorry, Lilly. I didn't mean to almost do it with you.. I should have taken your feelings to heart, but I guess I was dumb enough not to.."