"Perhaps then she isn't the one who will stand beside me with my morals. Perhaps she would rather be more free and be able to go with who she likes when she likes to do so. And if she gets bored, she will want to change partners like a woozy. I want one who will wait for me to feel comfortable enough to do such things. perhaps in time, I will change my mind but at the moment, my mind is made up to be me and not some new person. Besides there is no one who is special to me in that way so why argue and ruin the evening? We can just agree to disagree on this subject, can't we? And to enjoy what the evening has to give...."<br/><br/>" Xenophob....it's so beautiful....Yes, I will be your wife but you didn't need to buy such a ring! I love it anyways and thank you for such a lovely gift. Just for your information, here in my time, the female gives the male a dowery and has a hope chest with things that she has either made, had made special for her or has bought for when she gets married. " Meredith smiled at the ring and held out her hand to touch the ring gently in wonder and delight.