Michael looked at her his gaze patient. "You say you know it... but I don't think you really grasp the concept. You are still forcing your magic into your wand when you go to do your spells... you need to let your wand take the magic by choice. May I?" He held his hand out for her wand. When she handed it to him he flicked it and pointed at the leaf. "Incendio." Instead of forcing his magic into her wand he let the wand take the magic from him and while not as powerful as with his own wand the spell instantly turned to leaf to ash. "You see? Forcing a relationship will only result in bad results... I know you don't think your wand will ever accept you but that's the problem. BELIEVE that it will accept you and just watch. It won't happen immediately but the wand will come to accept you." He said handing her wand back to her. He looked her in the eyes a mischievious look still in them but other than that they were kind and understanding.