He smiled a little and skipped the next few pages before she could see embarrassing baby photos and showed her one of him helping his dad and his brother on a farm on a hot summer day when he was about 18 and he was leaning against a shovel waving at the camera.  It was obviously a hot day because all three men were shirtless and pouring sweat.  You could tell they had been working a while because they were not clean but covered in field dirt rough callused hands grasping the handles of various farm tools.  "This is my favorite one" he said with a smile.