Kate saw he was too distraught and her heart broke, as his fear forced a whimper and said 'I can't', as she asked him to dunk his head. The mage put her hand over his hand stroked his head. "Jasper,  calm, easy, breath, I will get a pitcher to wash your hair." Kate stood up and got a pitcher under the sink. She filled it with clean warm water. Kate then knelled beside him and gave him a wash cloth. "Please hold your head down.