The answer to why was simple, "You need to nourish your body so you don't get sick and remain healthy for longer. Carbs are an important food group but eating nothing but processed sugar isn't going to benefit you outside of a momentary pleasure. Consider this part of your start of delayed gratification and pleasure." This was a vital skill to harness and one that Charles was all too familiar with he was sure that Caden would be as well if the cock cage was anything to go on. He listened and took in all of Caden's reactions as he was directed to the eatery destination.<br/><br/>He did have to pause in thought for a moment to form a proper answer to the question, what changed? Nothing really had... "As I assume you have noticed I have a need to control many aspects of my life and that's not limited to a diet or a timetable. This happened to extend into the bedroom." Even his first experiences with sex often had to be structured and letting go was often a rather scary prospect and something that had rarely occurred. He wasn't really comfortable saying that all of this was part of the job and part of the control he enjoyed so much. If the job never had anything sexual for him he might be fine with that and he could separate the sexual from submission. It was rare they had ever mingled for him, "I suppose I have given up the search for something stable. I provide what people need by giving into what I need. If that makes sense?" He hoped it did anyways as he liked Caden and wanted to give this to him. It was in various forms a gift... and he wouldn't deny that he was going to enjoy the process but it seemed no one had captured his attention long enough to want to stick around.<br/><br/>"This has always been a part of my life and probably always will be." He wondered if that made him abnormal to not be able to function 'proper' or 'vanilla' but maybe he was just hard-wired this way. "There are very few things I have found I dislike but I know I enjoy putting structures in place, making corrections, and having them followed. Though I never expect perfect I expect the best effort and if not... well there are structures in place for that as well." He said with a ghost of a smile. He didn't mind someone bratty to discipline and act out but he couldn't have the struggle be the whole relationship either. "But I can also derive this enjoyment in many places and not all of them require toys or a long contract." He had that feeling before at his last company that fell apart before his eyes and that had gutted him. Maybe it was time to fill his life with something new and now with his focus singularly on Caden he knew his attention might just get a little suffocating. "All I need from you is to your boundaries." Because otherwise, he was fine consuming beyond all reason.