A small man goes to the cinema. He buys a ticket  and goes in. But after two or three minutes he comes out. He buys a second ticket and goes in again. After a few minutes he comes out again and buys a third ticket. Two or three minutes after that he comes out a third time and asks for another ticket. But the girl says to him, "Why are you buying all these? Are you meeting friends in the cinema all the time?" "No, I'm not doing that." the small man says, "But a big woman always stops me at the door and tears(  ) my tickets up." From the story we can guess  _  .
the small man is the first time to go to a cinema. the big woman at the door doesn't like him. the small man is afraid of  the big woman. the small man doesn't want the big woman to tear his ticket up.