He married her on the basis that he would come back to his country after a certain amount of time, then he decided not to go back
Question

                A man came to propose marriage to me, and he was working in another country. He agreed with my father that I would travel with him after marriage and stay there with him for no more than three years, and we would come back together after that time was up. I actually did marry him and I traveled with him, and I have two children. Three years went by, and when I asked him to go back, based on the agreement, he went mad and told me that he will never go back; he has migrated and I have to accept this situation. In addition to that, he is a man who does not help me to obey Allaah. He brought a satellite dish into our home and he leaves me alone all day feeling lonely in this foreign land, and I cannot resist watching it. Also, he does not allocate any time to spend with me and relieve my loneliness. All his time is spent at his work or with his friends. When I realized that I could not stand to put up with this situation for the rest of my life, I decided to go back to Egypt and never come back and delegate my affairs to Allaah with regard to this bad marriage.  But the problem is that he is accusing me of being a wife who does not obey him and of being disobedient, and he tells me that Allaah will punish me on the Day of Resurrection because I went against my husband’s commands.

 Am I really a disobedient wife, or does the fact that he did not adhere to the agreement on the basis of which I married him exonerate me from any blame?.
Praise be to Allah.
    Firstly: 

    The Muslim is obliged to adhere to the conditions that he set 
    and to fulfil his promises. Among the conditions that are most deserving of 
    fulfillment are those by means of which it becomes permissible for a man to 
    enjoy intimacy with his wife, namely the conditions of marriage. 
Al-Bukhaari (2821) and 
    Muslim (1418) narrated that the Messenger of Allaah  (peace and 
    blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The conditions that most deserve to 
    be fulfilled are those by means of which it becomes permissible for you to 
    enjoy intimacy.” 

    Ibn Qudaamah said in al-Mughni (7/448): 

    The conditions of marriage fall into three categories: 

    1 – Those which must be fulfilled, which are those which 
    benefit the wife, such as the condition that he will not make her leave her 
    house or city, or make her travel with him (i.e., take her to another 
    country). 

    These must be fulfilled. If the husband does not do that then 
    the wife has the right to annul the marriage, because the Prophet  
    (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The conditions that most 
    deserve to be fulfilled are those by means of which it becomes permissible 
    for you to enjoy intimacy.” End quote. 

    It is essential to differentiate between that which the 
    husband stated as a condition in the marriage, and a promise that he made 
    after the marriage contract was done. If it was a condition of marriage 
    (i.e., the marriage contract was done on the basis of this condition), then 
    the wife has the choice of waiving that condition or of annulling the 
    marriage, if her husband does not fulfil this condition. In this case she 
    should be given her rights in full. 

    If it was a promise that he made after marriage, then he has 
    to fulfil his promise if he does not have an excuse. But the wife does not 
    have the right to annul the marriage if he does not fulfil it. This is the 
    ruling on this situation. 

    We advise the husband to fulfil the condition and to keep his 
    promise, or to ask for his wife’s consent to waive the condition or to delay 
    fulfillment of the promise until a later, stated time. He has to fear Allaah 
    with regard to his wife and not bring haraam things and haraam entertainment 
    into the house. 

    The sister who asked this question should be more patient and 
    put up with it. She should also try to get wise people from her family and 
    from his to intervene, in order to resolve the differences between them. 

    Secondly:  

    The husband has made a serious mistake by bringing the 
    satellite dish into the home and enabling his wife to see all the sinful 
    content that the dish brings. The one whom Allaah has put in charge of 
    others should be sincere towards them and not be negligent or heedless in 
    his duties towards them. 

    Thirdly: 

    The sister made a mistake, because she is not forced to look 
    at the evil scenes brought by the dish, and her being alone is no excuse. 
    She can occupy herself by worshipping Allaah, keeping company with righteous 
    women, doing permissible things, and reading and listening to things that 
    will benefit her in both her religious and worldly affairs.