Are women included in the verse in which Allaah says: “And give not unto the foolish your property”?
Question

                "And give not unto the foolish your property which Allah has made a means of support for you, but feed and clothe them therewith, and speak to them words of kindness and justice." (Surah Nisa, Verse 5) According to Ibn Kathir's tafsir, this verse about not giving money to the "foolish" refers to women and children. I feel that it is saying husbands should not give money to their wives to spend or should not give their income to their wives to spend because they are foolish and unwise. Is this true or have I taken the meaning out of context? Can you please explain the meaning of this verse to me, as it's worrying me a lot.
Praise be to Allah.Some of the commentators 
    say that the word sufaha’ (translated here as “foolish”) refers to women, 
    but this is not correct. Rather what is meant by safeeh (sing. of sufaha’) 
    is one who is not able to dispose of money in a proper way, whether male or 
    female. That includes the insane, young children and adult men or women who 
    not able to dispose of money in a proper way, rather they waste it and spend 
    it on things that do not benefit them. 

    Some of the mufassireen refuted the view that this refers to 
    women, and regarded it is far-fetched both in linguistic and shar’i terms. 

    With regard to the linguistic aspect, they say that (foolish) 
    women are not described as sufaha’, rather the terms used are safaa’ih or 
    safeehaat. 

    With regard to the shar’i aspect, the mutawaatir texts of the 
    Qur’aan and Sunnah clearly show that women may possess wealth and deal with 
    it, buying, selling and renting, whilst husbands are still obliged to give 
    their wives maintenance in order to look after the house. When Abu Sufyaan 
    withheld maintenance from his wife and she complained to the Prophet  
    (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), the Prophet  (peace and 
    blessings of Allaah be upon him) told her: “Take what is sufficient for you 
    and your child on a reasonable basis.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2097; 
    Muslim, 1714. 

    Al-Qurtubi said: 

    The scholars differed concerning who these suhafa’ (the 
    foolish) are. It was narrated that Sa’eed ibn Jubayr said: They are the 
    orphans; do not give them your wealth. Al-Nahhaas said: This is one of the 
    best suggestions concerning this verse. Ismaa’eel ibn Abi Khaalid narrated 
    that Abu Maalik said: They are young children; do not give them your wealth 
    lest they waste it and you are left with nothing. Sufyaan narrated from 
    Humayd al-A’raj that Mujaahid said: They are women. Al-Nahhaas and others 
    said: This view is not valid, rather the Arabs describe (foolish) women as 
    safaa’ih or safeehaat… Abu Moosa al-Ash’ari (may Allaah be pleased with him) 
    said: Sufaha’ here refers to everyone who deserves to be prevented from 
    disposing of his own affairs.  

    Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 5/28 
Ibn Jareer al-Tabari (may 
    Allaah have mercy on him) narrated a number of comments made by the 
    mufassireen (commentators) concerning this verse, including the view that 
    what is meant is women, then he said: 

    The correct view concerning the meaning of this verse in our 
    opinion is that the meaning of this phrase, “And give not unto the 
    foolish your property”, is general, and Allaah did not single out any 
    one kind of foolish person. So it is not permissible for anyone to give a 
    foolish person his wealth, whether he is a young boy or an old man, male or 
    female. The foolish person to whom it is not permissible for his guardian to 
    give him his wealth is the one who deserves to be prevented from disposing 
    of his own affairs because his behaviour of wasting his wealth and not 
    handling it properly. 
As for the view 
    of those who say that sufaha’ (the foolish) refers specifically to women, he 
    is interpreting the language inappropriately. End quote. 

    Tafseer al-Tabari, 3/249 

    Shaykh ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sa’di (may Allaah have mercy on 
    him) said: 

    Sufaha’ is the plural of safeeh, and refers to one who does 
    not deal with money properly, either because he is of unsound mind, like one 
    who is insane or feeble-minded, etc, or because he is immature, like a young 
    child. Allaah has forbidden guardians to give these people their wealth lest 
    they spoil it or waste it, because Allaah has made this wealth a means of 
    looking after their spiritual and worldly interests, and these people cannot 
    take good care of it. End quote. 

    Tafseer al-Sa’di, p. 130, 131 
Thus it is clear that 
    there is nothing wrong with a man giving money to his wife to spend on the 
    house, if she is mature and wise and is able to handle the money properly.

     And Allaah knows best.