She loves her husband madly and is looking for a solution
Question

                I love my husband madly and he is perfectly happy with me. When he went away for work and I was waiting to join him, I began to miss him and could not rest until he spoke to me. Although I do my religious duties, I feel something lacking when he is not here. What do you advise me to do so that I can be patient until I see him?.
Praise be to Allah.
    It is wonderful to see Muslim homes that are filled with love 
    and compassion. When we see that love and compassion between the spouses in 
    particular, we are very happy about it, because that love and compassion 
    will have a good effect on the family members. One of the greatest signs of 
    Allah is that He created woman from man and it is a sign of His wisdom that 
    He created woman to be a course of comfort and tranquillity for the man. 
    Allah, may He be exalted, mentioned that with regard to Adam and Hawwa’, and 
    all people in general, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):

    “It is He Who has created you from a single person (Adam), 
    and (then) He has created from him his wife (Hawwa (Eve)), in order that he 
    might enjoy the pleasure of living with her”

    [al-A‘raaf 7:189].

    This has to do with Adam and Eve. With regard to humanity in 
    general, Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):

    “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you 
    wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them”

    [ar-Room 30:21].

    And Allah, may He be exalted, created love and compassion 
    between the spouses, as He says at the end of the verse from Soorat ar-Room 
    quoted above (interpretation of the meaning):

    “…and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, 
    in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect”

    [ar-Room 30:21]. 

    Ash-Shanqeeti (may Allah have mercy on him) said: 

    Allah, may He be exalted, says: “and 
    (then) He has created from him his wife (Hawwa (Eve)), in order that he 
    might enjoy the pleasure of living with her”

    [al-A‘raaf 7:189]. 

    In this verse we see that Allah created Hawwa’ from Adam so 
    that he might enjoy the pleasure of living with her, i.e., find comfort in 
    her. Elsewhere Allah said that He created the spouses of Adam’s offspring 
    likewise. That is the verse in which Allah says (interpretation of the 
    meaning): 

    “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you 
    wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has 
    put between you affection and mercy.”

    [ar-Room 30:21]. 

    Adwa’ al-Bayaan, 2/304, 305 

    Ibn Katheer (may Allah have mercy on him) said: 

    There is no love between any two souls greater than that that 
    exists between the spouses. 

    Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 3/525 

    But we do not mean that the love should be “mad” or “crazy” 
    as people say. Rather it should be moderate and appropriate. Zayd ibn Aslam 
    narrated that his father said: ‘Umar ibn al-Khattab said to me: O Aslam, do 
    not let your love (for anyone) be obsessive and do not let your hatred (of 
    anyone) be destructive. 

    I said: How is that? 

    He said: When you love, do not go to a level of obsession as 
    a child does with the thing he loves, and when you hate, do not hate in such 
    a way that you want your opponent to be destroyed and doomed. 

    Narrated by ‘Abd ar-Razzaaq in al-Musannaf, 20269; its 
    isnaad is saheeh. 

    The Rightly-Guided Caliph (‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab) gave this 
    advice because obsessiveness in love (loving madly) has negative effects on 
    the one who loves and the one who is loved. Its effects on the one who loves 
    are: 

    (a)His thoughts are focused on his 
    beloved, which causes him anxiety and tension, and this distraction causes 
    him to waste time and leads to mental and physical illness

    (b)Another of the effects of 
    loving madly is that it makes the one who loves turn a blind eye to any 
    shortcomings in his beloved’s performance of duties and to his committing 
    any haraam actions. And if his beloved asks him to join him in his actions, 
    then his insane love will lead him to do so.

    (c)Another of the negative effects 
    of this love is that it dominates his heart in such a way that there is no 
    room for love of Allah and His Messenger, which is the means of his 
    salvation, let alone love for anyone else such as family and children

    (d)Another of the negative effects 
    is that the one who is madly in love cannot cope with the absence or illness 
    of his beloved, let alone his death!

    The negative effects of insane love on the one who is loved 
    include the following: 

    (a)He may suffer tension because 
    of the lover’s insistence on seeing him and sitting with him, which may lead 
    to his neglecting his work or falling short in tasks on which he should 
    focus his mind and heart, such as seeking beneficial knowledge and doing 
    righteous deeds.

    (b)Another of the negative effects 
    it may have on him is that he will never find this lover offering him 
    sincere advice; rather he will turn a blind eye to his mistakes and 
    shortcomings. As it is said, your love of a thing makes you blind and deaf!

    (c)Another of its negative effects 
    is that if he responds to the one who loves him, he will waste his time with 
    him, and if he does not, he will cause him anxiety, which may lead him to 
    hate him in the end. 

    Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) 
    said: 

    If a man’s heart is attached to a woman, even if she is 
    permissible for him, he will remain captive to her and she will be able to 
    control him as she wishes. Outwardly he will appear to be her master because 
    he is her husband, but in reality he is her captive and slave, especially if 
    she realises his need for her and his love for her, and that he cannot find 
    any alternative to her. In that case she will have control over him like an 
    unjust, domineering master over his weak slave who cannot free himself from 
    him, or even worse! Because captivity of the heart is worse than physical 
    captivity and enslavement of the heart is worse than enslavement of the 
    body. The one whose body is enslaved will not care if his heart is free and 
    at peace; rather he may be able to find away to freedom. But if the heart 
    that is in control of the body is that is enslaved and infatuated with 
    something other than Allah, then this is true humiliation, the worst kind of 
    captivity and enslavement to that which enslaved the heart. … True freedom 
    is freedom of the heart and true enslavement is enslavement of the heart, 
    just as true richness is richness of the soul. The Prophet (blessings and 
    peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Richness is not having a great deal of 
    accumulated wealth; rather richness is richness of the soul.” This applies 
    if what has captured his heart is something permissible; as for the one 
    whose heart is enslaved by something haraam, such as a woman or boy, this is 
    pain and suffering from which there is no way out, and these are the people 
    whose suffering will be the worst and their reward will be the least, for if 
    a person’s heart is devoted to something and remains attached and enslaved 
    to it, then this will cause him all kinds of evil and corruption that cannot 
    be enumerated except by the Lord of mankind, even if he manages to avoid 
    committing the greater act of immorality.

    End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa, 10/185-186 

    We are very happy to hear of your honouring your husband and 
    of your love for him, but we would be even happier if you made your love for 
    him reasonable. You should understand that bothering your husband, always 
    calling him, or insisting that he stay at home or not undertake a particular 
    trip will all cause him stress and make it difficult for him to get on with 
    different tasks in life.  We want there to be in your house a healthy 
    atmosphere of love that could help the family and future children, in sha 
    Allah, to achieve high goals and to strive to support His religion and be a 
    help to His righteous slaves. 

    What we also advise you to do is: 

    (a)Fulfil the religious duties 
    that are required of you and do naafil acts of worship too.

    (b)Regularly recite the adhkaar of 
    the morning and the evening

    (c)Seek knowledge by reading or 
    listening

    (d)Call women among your 
    neighbours and relatives to Allah

    (e)Try to have shar‘i love in your 
    heart towards Allah and His Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon 
    him) by following the commands, heeding the prohibitions, loving the 
    religion of Allah, defending it and spreading it among people, and having 
    natural love towards your parents and children.

    All of that will give a meaning to your life that is more 
    sublime than devoting your life only to your husband and loving him only. 

    We ask Allah, may He be exalted, to help you to do that which 
    He loves and which pleases Him, and to make the love and compassion between 
    you lasting and to bless you with righteous offspring, 

    And Allah is the source of strength.