His family are criticizing him for staying with them and not getting married; how should he deal with them?
Question

                I treat my family well, but they are not treating me in the same way. Sometimes they shame me because I still am unmarried and staying with them. From my simple salary, 200 LE, I try to help at home. I am a governmental clerk at education ministry. I wanted to study another field, actually I did not want to work for the government, but I listened to them. They were saying a lot of things about the advantages of working for the government; such as stability and pension, etc. I became a clerk. Now I cannot get married. I am 34 years old, I avoid being disobedient to my parents. But I have dignity and I want to protect it when they say such things to me, especially my mother when she says “you still are unmarried staying with us”. How shall I behave with them? I try to repress my anger a lot but until when?!.
Praise be to Allah.Firstly: 
Your parents have great 
    rights over you and are entitled to respect and kind treatment, even if they 
    mistreat you, and even if they try to make you leave Islam and join the 
    caravan of shirk – Allaah forbid. This is a right that is guaranteed to them 
    by Islam. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“And your Lord has 
    decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your 
    parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not 
    to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of 
    honour”
[al-Isra’ 17:23] 
“But if they (both) 
    strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of which you 
    have no knowledge, then obey them not; but behave with them in the world 
    kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in 
    obedience. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you 
    used to do”
[Luqmaan 31:15]
Remember this even though 
    you think that your treating them kindly and honouring them is destroying 
    your “dignity”. Remember this even though you are saying “how long can I 
    suppress my anger?” 
You have to carry on 
    putting up with your family’s mistreatment of you and you have to carry on 
    honouring them and treating them kindly, even if they mistreat you and hurt 
    you. 
Secondly: 
What we advise you to do in 
    practical terms is as follows: 
1 – Be patient and seek 
    reward with Allaah for the things you are suffering from your family. Allaah 
    says (interpretation of the meaning): 
“And seek help in 
    patience and As-Salaah (the prayer) and truly, it is extremely heavy and 
    hard except for Al-Khaashi‘oon [i.e. the true believers in Allaah — those 
    who obey Allaah with full submission, fear much from His punishment, and 
    believe in His Promise (Paradise) and in His Warnings (Hell)]”
[al-Baqarah 2:45]. 
2 – Honour them and treat 
    them kindly, and show kindness to them by giving them gifts, taking care of 
    them, and speaking nicely to them. It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that 
    the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Give one 
    another gifts, so that you will love one another.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari 
    in al-Adab al-Mufrad (594); classed as hasan by al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar 
    in al-Talkhees al-Habeer (3/70) and by al-Albaani in Irwa’ 
    al-Ghaleel (1601). 
3 – Advise them and urge 
    them to adhere to the rulings of sharee’ah and good manners, with wisdom and 
    beautiful preaching. 
Allaah says (interpretation 
    of the meaning): 
“Invite (mankind, O 
    Muhammad صلىالله عليه وسلم) to the way 
    of your Lord (i.e. Islam) with wisdom (i.e. with the Divine Revelation and 
    the Qur’aan) and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is 
    better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His path, and 
    He is the Best Aware of those who are guided”
[al-Nahl 16:125]
4 – Use a variety of da’wah 
    methods, and do not stick to just one method. Audio and video tapes and 
    booklets may have an effect in changing their behaviour. 
5 – Seek the help of 
    knowledgeable people and seeker of knowledge who are held in high esteem by 
    them, and ask them to visit you and speak to them and advise them. 
6 – Strive to seek a halaal 
    income, which will enable you to get married. You can look for another job, 
    or travel to a Muslim country to work there. 
7 – Always pray that they 
    will be guided. 
We ask Allaah to enable you 
    to do that which He loves and which pleases Him, and to make things easy for 
    you, and to guide your family to righteousness and wisdom. 
And Allaah is the source of 
    strength.