She wants to stay overnight with her family and her husband wants her to stay with his family
Question

                I live abroad with my husband. We have one month holiday every year, we spend it with our families. He asks me to spend this month in his family’s home, while I go to my family just to visit. I want to go to my family’s home daily and sleep there; as it is only one month. What shall I do if I insist on this but my husband refuses?
Praise be to Allah.We advise you to do what 
    your husband is asking, because that is good for several reasons: 

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    By obeying your husband you are 
    obeying the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and 
    there is great reward with Allah for that. The reward for a wife obeying 
    her husband is hardly equalled by the reward for any other deed. 
It was narrated from ‘Abd 
    al-Rahman ibn ‘Awf that the Messenger of Allah  (peace and blessings 
    of Allah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts 
    her month (of Ramadan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will 
    said to her: Enter Paradise through which ever of the gates of Paradise you 
    wish.” 
Narrated by Ahmad (1/191), 
    classed as hasan by al-Sakhawi in al-Buldaniyat (161) and by 
    al-Albani in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1932). 
It was narrated from 
    al-Husayn ibn Mihsan that a 
    paternal aunt of his came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be 
    upon him) to ask about some need. When he had finished talking to her, the 
    Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to her: “Do you 
    have a husband?” She said: “Yes.” He said: “How are you with him?” She said: 
    “I do not fall short in giving him his rights, except that which I am not 
    able to do.” He said: “Look at how you are with him, for he is your paradise 
    and your hell.” 
Narrated by Ahmad (4/341). 
    Al-Mundhiri said in al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb (3/97): Its isnad is 
    jayyid. It was classed as saheeh by al-Albani in Saheeh 
    al-Targheeb (1933). 

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    By obeying your husband in this 
    matter, you will avoid conflicts and arguments that may arise from your 
    disobeying your husband. 

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    We would also remind you that 
    the righteous wife is the one who does not separate from her husband and is 
    keen to serve him and take care of him and strives to make him happy. 

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    Remember that by obeying him in 
    this matter, you will be preserving happiness between you, and strengthening 
    the bond of love, but if you go against him you will be opening the way for 
    the shaytan and stirring up conflict and disputes. Even if its effects are 
    not seen straight away, the effects of going against his wishes will 
    inevitably make themselves felt soon, especially if the conflict and 
    arguments accumulate.  
You can work out this 
    matter with your husband in a calm manner, such as if you stay with his 
    family for half of the time and with your family for the other half, or you 
    go to them for a certain number of days. 
What the husband should do 
    is be kind to his family and not put pressure on them and not be harsh, 
    because the wife is one of the people who are most deserving of kind and 
    gentle treatment. The Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allah be upon 
    him) said: “The best of you is the one who is best to his family, and I am 
    the best of you to my family.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (3895); classed as 
    saheeh by al-Albani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 
We ask Allah to guide you 
    aright. 
And Allah knows best.