He wants to get married but his parents want him to delay that
Question

                What do you think a one should do who have high sexual desires who doesnt go out nor does anything to satisfy it. It is very distracting , constant thoughts in the head , I do want to get married but parents have high expectations, to become somebody first then think about settling.
Praise be to Allah.
    It is narrated in al-Bukhaari (5065) and Muslim (3384) that 
    ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood said: The Messenger of Allaah  (peace and 
    blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to us: “O young men, whoever among you 
    can afford to get married, let him do so, for it is more effective in 
    lowering the gaze and preserving chastity. Whoever cannot afford it, let him 
    fast, for that will be a shield for him” – i.e., it will reduce and weaken 
    his desire. 

    Based on this, if a person can afford to get married then he 
    should hasten to do so, because of the many benefits that this brings, as 
    mentioned by the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), 
    namely it helps him to lower his gaze and protect his chastity, increases 
    the numbers of the ummah and offers protection against temptation and 
    mischief. 

    Ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “If I only 
    had ten days left to live and I knew that I was going to die on the last of 
    them, and I could afford to get married, I would get married, for fear of 
    fitnah (temptation).” 

    Imam Ahmad (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Celibacy has 
    nothing to do with Islam at all.” 

    If you fear hardship for yourself and that you may and fall 
    into sin, then in that case it is obligatory for you to get married. 

    In this case parents are advised to arrange their son’s 
    marriage and not to stand in the way of his remaining chaste and protecting 
    himself from temptation. 
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah 
    have mercy on him) said: “With regard to marriage, people fall into three 
    categories. Some of them fear that they may fall into sin if they do not get 
    married, in which case it is obligatory to marry, according to the view of 
    most of the fuqaha’, because this will make a person remain chaste and 
    protect him from committing haraam actions; the only way to do is to get 
    married.” 

    Al-Mughni, 9/341. 

    You have to deal gently and kindly with your parents and try 
    to convince them of your need to get married, and tell them that this will 
    never conflict with what they want for you in the future. You can also seek 
    the help of wise people among your relatives to convince your parents. 

    The questioner is to be commended for not going out to places 
    of fitnah (temptation) and not fulfilling his desires by haraam means. We 
    ask Allaah to make you steadfast and to help you to find a good wife who 
    will be a delight to you and your parents, for He is Ever-near and 
    Responsive.

    And Allaah is the Source of strength.