Does he have to obey his mother by making his wife go out to work?
Question

                Is it disobedience to parents to disagree with one's mother? She strongly wants my wife to work, but I want my wife to stay home.
Praise be to Allah.
    Firstly: 

    It is permissible for a woman to work outside the home so 
    long as her work is regulated by Islamic guidelines, although it is better 
    for her to stay at home unless she needs to work, because Allaah says 
    (interpretation of the meaning):

    “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves 
    like that of the times of ignorance, And perform As‑Salaah 
    (Iqaamat‑as-Salaah), and give Zakaah and obey Allaah and His Messenger”

    [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. 

    Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet 
    (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him), the believing women follow them 
    in that. Rather it is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (blessings and 
    peace of Allaah be upon him) because of their honourable status with the 
    Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) and because 
    they are examples for the believing women. Hence the verse contains commands 
    to all women:

    “And perform As‑Salaah (Iqaamat‑as-Salaah), and give 
    Zakaah and obey Allaah and His Messenger”

    [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. 

    This is also indicated by the words of the Prophet (blessings 
    and peace of Allaah be upon him): “Woman is ‘awrah (that which must be 
    concealed), and when she goes out the Shaytaan’s hopes are raised. She is 
    never closer to Allaah than in the inner part of her house.” Narrated by Ibn 
    Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah 
    al-Saheehah, 2688. 

    And the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) 
    said with regard to women praying in the mosque: “… but their houses are 
    better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by 
    al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood. 

    See the answer to question no.
    22397. 

    Secondly: 

    You are not obliged to obey your mother by making your wife 
    go out to work, because obedience is only required in that which is right 
    and proper, and when women go out to work, in most cases it is not free of 
    some negative consequences for her, or causing the rights of her husband and 
    children to be affected. Moreover, it does not seem that there is any 
    benefit for your mother in that either. 

    Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) 
    said in al-Ikhtiyaaraat (p. 144): A man is obliged to obey his 
    parents in anything that does not involve sin, even if they are evildoers … 
    this applies to that in which there is benefit for them and no harm for him. 
    Even if it is difficult for him but does not harm him, it is obligatory, 
    otherwise it is not. End quote. 

    If one or both parents tell their son to do something in 
    which there is no benefit for them, then he is not obliged to obey them. 

    You have to treat your mother kindly and explain to her that 
    you do not need your wife to work, and that her staying home is more proper 
    and more beneficial. 

    May Allaah help us all to do that which He loves and is 
    pleased with. 

    And Allaah knows best.