She became Muslim
    and was cut off by her non-Muslim mother
Question

                My mother-who is non moslem- has cut off
      ties with me for 13 years If I write she doesn't respond and she disconnected her
      telephone. Although I know her present adress I fear that if I go there she 'll change her
      residence as she had done before 
   She has a history of mental illness &has been hospitalized severals
      times When she is at home she prefers to be "left alone"
    Whenever someone speaks well of me -to try to reconcile us - she accuses
      them of taking sides with me, gets angry and criticizes the person.
   Since she has voiced objection to Islam on different occasions' I feel
      that it is really my reversion to islam which disturbs her 
     Please advice me ! may Allah reward you
Praise be to Allah.The sincere believer knows that one of the things that Allaah does is
    to test His slaves by means of various kinds of trials in order to demonstrate their
    patience and virtue, and to raise their status, to increase their reward for their
    steadfastness, and to test their sincerity in following the truth. Allaah says
    (interpretation of the meaning): And surely, We shall try you till We test those
    who strive hard (for the Cause of Allaah) and the patient ones, and We shall test your
    facts (i.e., the one who is a liar, and the one who is truthful). [Muhammad 47:31].
    Among the different types of test are the various means which the mushrikeen may employ to
    try to make a believer give up his faith, so they may apply psychological pressure to
    annoy him and make him go back to kufr. Allaah, may He be glorified, has mentioned this in
    His Book and has pointed out how we should respond. He tells us (interpretation of the
    meaning): You shall certainly be tried and tested in your wealth and properties
    and in your personal selves, and you shall certainly hear much that will grieve you from
    those who received the Scripture before you (Jews and Christians) and from those who
    ascribe partners to Allaah, but if you persevere patiently, and become al-muttaqoon
    (pious), then verily, that will be a determining factor in all affairs, and that is from
    the great matters, [which you must hold on to with all your efforts] [Aal
    Imraan 3:186]. 
If what is being said or done by others is causing too much
    psychological pain, then how much worse must it be when it is done by the closest of
    people, one with whom you share ties of flesh and blood, the mother who gave birth to you?
The hurt caused by those who are related to you is more bitter
    and painful/ to the soul than the blow of a sword. [poetry]
But when the believer is exposed to the most painful attacks from the
    closest of people to him, he does not give in or retreat; he follows the Quraan in
    his dealings with the mother who is hurting him or cutting him off and turning away from
    him. This is illustrated in the following story:
Musab ibn Sad ibn Abi Waqqaas reported from his
    father the mother of Sad swore that she would not speak to him, or eat or
    drink, until he renounced his religion (Islam) and became a kaafir. She said, You
    claim that Allaah tells you to honour and respect your parents. I am your mother and I am
    telling you to do this. She stayed like that for three days, until she fell
    unconscious from exhaustion. One of her sons, whose name was Umaarah, got up and
    gave her water to drink, and she began to pray against Sad. Then Allaah revealed the
    following aayah of the Quraan (interpretation of the meaning): And We have
    enjoined on man (to be dutiful and good) to his parents But if they (both) strive
    with you to make you join in worship with Me other of which you have no knowledge, the
    obey them not, but behave with them in the world kindly [Luqmaan 31:14, 15].
    (Reported by Muslim, 4432).
    The Prophet 
 (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
    him) also suffered rejection at the hands of some of those who were most closely related
    to him, such as his paternal uncle Abu Lahab, but this did not stop him from spreading the
    message and conveying the religion, despite the harshness of the opposition. Rabeeah
    ibn Abbaad al-Dayli, who later became Muslim, said: I saw the Messenger of
    Allaah 
 (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) with my own eyes in the
    marketplace of Dhool-Majaaz, saying, O people, say Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah
    and you will prosper. He was going through the alleyways of the market, and the
    people were gathering around him. I did not see anyone saying anything, and he did not
    stop saying, O people, say Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah and you will prosper.
    Behind him there was a man with a squint and a handsome face, and his hair in two braids,
    saying, He is a Sabian and a liar. I asked, Who is this? They
    said, Muhammad ibn Abd-Allaah, who is saying that he is a Prophet. I
    asked, Who is this who is denouncing him? They said, His paternal uncle
    Abu Lahab. (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 15448).
    So, my sister, you should hold fast to your religion and
    honour and respect your mother as Allaah commands. If she turns away from you and rejects
    your kind treatment, there will be no sin on you, even if this hurts you, because you are
    following the true guidance. Bear this with patient perseverance, for you are on the right
    path of truth. And Allaah is the Source of strength.