Is it mustahabb for the woman to do wudoo’ before having intercourse a second time, as it is the man?
Question

                In one of your fatwas you say, the man should say a duaa before having sexual intercourse with his wife and also that he should do Wudoo if he has sexual intercourse more than once. Does same apply also to the woman? Can she also say the duaa, when the man is too "distracted"?.
Praise be to Allah.
    Firstly: 

    The du‘aa’ that is to be said before having intercourse is 
    prescribed for the man, but there is nothing wrong with the woman saying it. 
    See the answer to question no. 
    95742 

    Secondly: 

    It is Sunnah for the man, if he has intercourse with his wife 
    and wants to do it a second time, to do wudoo’ in between, and if he does 
    ghusl, that is more proper. 

    It was narrated that Abu Sa‘eed al-Khudri (may Allah be 
    pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah 
    be upon him) said: “If one of you has intercourse his wife and wants to 
    repeat it, let him do wudoo’ in between.” Narrated by Muslim, 466. According 
    to a report narrated by Ahmad (10795): “Wudoo’ as for prayer.” Its isnaad 
    was classed as saheeh by Shu‘ayb al-Arna’oot in his commentary on Musnad 
    al-Imam Ahmad, 3/28 

    Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was 
    asked: If a man has intercourse with his wife and wants to do it a second 
    time, what should he do? 

    He replied: 

    In this case there are three levels:

    (i)Doing ghusl before doing it 
    again, and this is the highest level

    (ii)Doing wudoo’ only before doing 
    it again, and this is of lesser status than the first

    (iii)Not doing anything, neither 
    ghusl nor wudoo’; this is the lowest level, but it is permissible.

    But what should be noted is that they should not sleep 
    without having purified themselves by either wudoo’ or ghusl.

    End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa, 11/157 

    This Sunnah applies specifically to the man, because it is 
    addressed to him, as it says in the hadeeth of Abu Sa‘eed (may Allah be 
    pleased with him) quoted above. 

    The scholars of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas 
    were asked (19/350):

    The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “If one of you wants to 
    go back to his wife (and have intercourse a second time), let him do 
    wudoo’.” Does this ruling apply to the man only, or does it also apply to 
    the woman? 

    They replied: Wudoo’ is prescribed when wanting to have 
    intercourse again for the man, because he is the one who was instructed to 
    do that, not the woman. End quote. 

    Al-Lajnah ad-Daa’imah li’l-Buhooth al-‘Ilmiyyah wa’l-Ifta.