She is suffering from loneliness and stress since getting divorced and is looking for a solution
Question

                I have been divorced for five years and I have two children, one of whom is nine years old and the other is ten. Praise be to Allaah, I fulfil my duties towards them in the fullest sense. I am a religiously committed person; I pray regularly and recite dhikr and du’aa’, and I work in this life for the sake of my children. But hard feelings are always coming to me. I feel desperately lonely and I also feel stressed and depressed. I am also a person who would like to enjoy life within the limits of what Allaah loves and is pleased with. I feel that I strongly need to get married because I have started to feel fed up and I am getting worked up about everything in life, even insignificant things. I feel as if I am in a locked room in which I am the only person, and I feel depressed. Everyone who sees me, whether at work or during social visits, tells me that they can see signs of depression on my face. In addition to that I feel that I need to live life and not be like an object left in one corner of life. I do not want these feelings to take over me  because they have started to have a direct impact on my work, and on my relationships with family, relatives and friends. I always keep quiet and am always withdrawn from people so that they will not see signs of depression on my face. I am not able to put a smile on my face; I regard it as something that is too difficult for me. I am in a vicious circle that has no end: divorce, my children, my need for a husband and stability. I feel that I do not want to live, and I know that that is wrong, but humans are composed of feelings and reason. I am a woman and I do not know if I have the right to speak of this subject or not. I am very tired of life, I go anywhere and I sit in gatherings with family, relatives and friends but I am always thinking of this matter… I want to live my life in a natural fashion, but I do not know what to do.
Praise be to Allah.
      We ask Allaah to bless you with tranquility and peace of 
      mind, and to take away the stress and worry that you are experiencing, and 
      to grant you the means of goodness and success.

     We do not think that what you have mentioned of tiredness 
    and pain is experienced by everyone who goes through what you have gone 
    through. But at the least there is a measure of stress that a woman goes 
    through when she loses her husband and has to start dealing directly with 
    the burdens of life.  Moreover, women vary in their ability to put up with 
    things and try to overcome them. There are many divorced woman who have been 
    able to overcome these problems, and live happy and contented lives. This 
    depends on certain reasons which may be the solution in your case, in sha 
    Allah. There follow some of them, for you to ponder and try to put into 
    practice, so that you can regain the happiness that you have lost. 

    1 – Developing a strong relationship with Allaah. That 
    includes believing that this problem and others happen by the will and 
    decree of Allaah and that Allaah is more compassionate and merciful towards 
    you than a mother towards her child, and that His decree is good for His 
    slave, both in the short and long term. Calamities expiate sin, bearing them 
    with patience raises one in status, and when Allaah loves His slave He tests 
    him. 
2 – You have two choices: 
    either you can live feeling miserable, worried and anxious, or you can bear 
    it with patience and seek reward, in the hope of attaining reward and rising 
    in status. Your sorrow will neither advance you nor put you back, as the 
    Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The greatest 
    reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allaah loves a people He tests 
    them. Whoever accepts that wins His pleasure but whoever is discontent with 
    that earns His wrath.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2396; Ibn Maajah, 4031; 
    classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 
3 – Pondering the 
    blessings of Allaah, and striving to show gratitude for them, and comparing 
    these many blessings with the calamity that befell you. This opens the heart 
    to contentment. So think of how many blessings Allaah has bestowed upon you, 
    in your religion, your self, your health, your wealth and your children. 
    Think of the calamities that have befallen others. How many women are 
    paralyzed, how many suffer calamities that befall their children, or are 
    tested in their religious commitment, or suffer sickness, and so on. If you 
    think about this you will find that you are enjoying blessings for which you 
    are to be envied. You will realize that there are people who are suffering 
    greater calamities than you. This should make things easier for you and make 
    you give praise and thanks, and acknowledge the bounty and mercy of Allaah. 

    4 – Thinking about the calamity that has befallen you, and 
    seeing the blessings that may be hidden therein. How many married women 
    suffer from harsh treatment and abuse from their husbands and live a 
    miserable life with them. You have been spared all that, so give praise to 
    Allaah. 

    5 – Filling your time with things that will bring benefit in 
    this world and in the Hereafter. For example, you could join a centre that 
    teaches memorization of the Holy Qur’aan, attend religious lectures, read 
    useful books, learn useful domestic skills such as sewing, and so on. 

    6 – Paying attention to the ultimate goal, which is to earn 
    the pleasure of Allaah and attain His Paradise and be saved from the Fire. 
    This requires buckling down to hard work and serious effort. That is the 
    basis of true success and true happiness in life. Allaah says 
    (interpretation of the meaning): 

    “And whoever is removed away from the Fire and admitted to 
    Paradise, he indeed is successful. The life of this world is only the 
    enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing)”

    [Aal ‘Imraan 3:185]
7 – Having certain faith 
    that what is with Allaah is better for you; that He is the Most Merciful of 
    those who show mercy; that He is with the pious (those who fear Him) and 
    loves those who do good; He rewards those who are patient and helps the 
    believers, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): 

    “Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — 
    while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him 
    We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful 
    provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the 
    best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)”

    [al-Nahl 16:97]
Beware of complaining 
    about Him to His creation, because you are complaining about the One who has 
    mercy to one who has no mercy. The Prophet  (peace and blessings of 
    Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever is struck by poverty and he goes around 
    telling people about it (and complaining about it in the hope of receiving 
    help), then his calamity will not be relieved. Whoever is struck by poverty 
    and he complains to Allaah about it, Allaah will grant him relief sooner or 
    later.” 

    Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2326; Abu Dawood, 1645; classed as 
    saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 

    8 – Frequently recite this du’aa’ which was narrated from the 
    Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): 

    It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be 
    pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah  (peace and blessings of 
    Allaah be upon him) said: “If a person who is afflicted by anxiety or sorrow 
    says: ‘Allaahumma inni ‘abduka wa ibnu ‘abdika wa ibn ammatika naasiyati 
    bi yadika maadin fiyya hukmuka ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka as’aluka bi kulli 
    ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw 
    anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw asta’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘indaka an 
    taj’al al-Qur’aana rabee’a qalbi wa noora sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba 
    hammi (O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your female 
    slave, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed 
    and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You 
    with which You have named Yourself, or, or You have taught to any of Your 
    creation, or You have revealed in Your Book, or You have preserved in the 
    knowledge of the Unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my 
    heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a 
    release for my anxiety)’, then Allaah will take away his anxiety and sorrow, 
    and will replace it with joy.”  

    It was said: “O Messenger of Allaah, should we not learn it?” 
    He said: “Yes, whoever hears it should learn it.” 

    Narrated by Ahmad; classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in
    al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 199 

    We ask Allaah to relieve you of your anxiety and replace it 
    with joy. 
And Allaah knows 
    best.