Turning up the
    volume of music for one’s parents with a remote control
Question

                What is the ruling on handing the remote to
      your mother/father to put music on t.v?
Praise be to Allah.Turning up the volume of music for one’s parents with
    a remote control
That is not permissible because it involves cooperating in sin, and
    Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“… but do not help one another in sin and
    transgression.” [al-Maa’idah 5:2]
If you withhold the remote control and they get angry, they have no
    right to do so, because the Prophet 
 (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
    “There is no obedience to any created being if it involves disobedience to the
    Creator.” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 1041; it is a saheeh hadeeth).
    The remote control you mention is merely a tool, the
    person who is doing the action is you, and the responsibility rests with you. You have to
    call your parents to give up evil things, inviting them with wisdom and beautiful
    preaching, addressing them kindly and lowering to them the wing of humility. If Allaah
    told Moosa and Haaroon to address the kaafir tyrant Pharaoh with kindness, as He said
    (interpretation of the meaning), “And speak to him mildly, perhaps he may accept
    admonition or fear (Allâh).” [Ta-Ha 20:44] – then your parents are more
    deserving of being addressed mildly and gently. May Allaah guide us all to the path of
    those who fear Him.