His mother swore that she would never give him money, then she wanted to give him
Question

                my mother swore to me she would not gove me any mony more but now she does want to give me mony, and i dont want to take it, what shell i do take the money or not.
Praise be to Allah.There 
          is nothing wrong with taking money from her out of respect for her. 
          In this case she has to offer expiation (kafaarah) for her oath, 
          because she did not fulfil it. Kafaarat al-yameen (expiation 
          for an unfulfilled oath) means feeding ten poor people with the average 
          food that your family eats, or clothing them, or freeing a slave. What 
          is obligatory in feeding is half a saa’ of the staple food of the country, 
          such as dates, wheat, etc. It is equivalent to approximately one and 
          a half kilograms of rice, which should be given with something that 
          can be eaten with it, to one poor person. It is obligatory to give to 
          ten different people. If you can find a family of poor Muslims composed 
          of ten members, or two or three families who numbers add up to ten, 
          and you give them fifteen kilograms of rice, along with some meat, for 
          example, this will be sufficient. Or you can distribute to them what 
          is needed for ten lunches or dinners already cooked, of the food that 
          an average person needs for lunch, and this is sufficient. Clothing 
          means that which is needed to cover the ‘awrah for prayer. If your mother 
          is unable to feed or clothe poor people, or free a slave, then she has 
          to fast for three days, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): 
          
“Allaah 
          will not punish you for what is unintentional in your oaths, but He 
          will punish you for your deliberate oaths; for its expiation (a deliberate 
          oath) feed ten Masaakeen (poor persons), on a scale of the average of 
          that with which you feed your own families, or clothe them or manumit 
          a slave. But whosoever cannot afford (that), then he should fast for 
          three days. That is the expiation for the oaths when you have sworn. 
          And protect your oaths (i.e. do not swear much)…” [al-Maa’idah 
          5:89]   
We advise 
          you to avoid doing anything that may make your mother angry. She did 
          not make an oath except for you were disposing of the money in a manner 
          of which she did not approve. May Allaah help us and you to do all that 
          is good.