Many calamities have befallen her and she has given up on life, and she is asking for the solution
Question

                I have been suffering from pains in my body, which have increased by a spell that spoilt my life. I have aged in years, but yet not married! 

I feel desperate and depressed. My life is about suffering, empty of success and I do not fulfill my religious duties, so I am not comfortable in life neither I feel the sweetness of Iman. How shall I continue my life?!.
Praise be to Allah.
    From your words and your description of the problem that you 
    are facing, some important points are clear to us, to which we should pay 
    special attention. These include the following: 

    Firstly: 

    You have some good things that are priceless, chief among 
    which is Islam. This is a great blessing that Allaah has bestowed upon every 
    Muslim; no matter what calamities, worries, stress and depression befall 
    him, he must remember that he is a Muslim and that Allaah loves for His 
    slaves to be Muslim even though He has no need of them and it does not harm 
    Him if they disbelieve. Even if a person does some bad deeds, his staying 
    within the circle of Islam is one of the greatest blessings that Allaah 
    bestows upon him. 

    Imagine that you had the best that this world has to offer: 
    wealth, status, a husband, children, a peaceful and stable home, education, 
    a life filled with happiness, and everything that you could wish for, but at 
    the same time you followed Judaism or Christianity or Buddhism, or you 
    regarded a cow as holy, as millions of people do, or you worshipped a mouse, 
    or the sun, or some other created thing, or that you were confused? Would 
    that be better, or having the problems and worries that you have, but you 
    are still Muslim? 

    Secondly:  

    You follow the Sunnah. Imagine if you claimed to be a Muslim 
    but you were following a wrong path. Imagine if you were a Raafidi Shi’ah, 
    believing that the Qur’aan is distorted and lacking something, and 
    venerating ‘Ali and reviling the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them 
    all), regarding most of them as kaafirs and worshipping Allaah by cursing 
    Abu Bakr and ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with them), and accusing the 
    Mother of the Believers ‘Aa’ishah of zina – as millions of those who claim 
    to follow Islam do, but Islam has nothing to do with them. 

    Or imagine that you were one of those who claim to follow 
    Islam but they believe that the awliya’ (“saints”) in their graves can being 
    benefit and cause harm, so they call upon them and seek their help, and 
    offer sacrifices to them and make offerings to them. Undoubtedly this is 
    blatant kufr. 

    This is a reference to just two of the seventy-two sects that 
    claim to belong to Islam, but they will all be in Hell except for one, as 
    was stated by the one who did not speak on the basis of whims and desires – 
    the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). 

    Which is dearer to you – having this world and all its 
    delights beneath your feet whilst being so misguided and deviant, or being a 
    Sunni Muslim, in accordance with sound human nature and affirming the 
    Oneness of Allaah (Tawheed), even though you have many worries and 
    problems? 

    Thirdly: 

    Praise Allaah for having been guided to pray and enabled to 
    do good deeds, for many people regard themselves as Sunni Muslims, but they 
    do not pray. The Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) 
    said: “The covenant that distinguishes between us and them is prayer; 
    whoever does not pray is a kaafir.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2621), 
    al-Nasaa’i (463) and Ibn Majaah (1079); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in
    Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 

    Part of being enabled to do good deeds is loving Allaah and 
    His Messenger  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and the 
    Sahaabah, as you mention in your letter. It is proven that our Prophet  
    (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are three 
    characteristics, whoever attains them has found the sweetness of faith: when 
    Allaah and His Messenger are dearer to him than all else, when he loves a 
    man and does not love him except for the sake of Allaah, and when he would 
    hate to return to kufr after Allaah has saved him from it as he would hate 
    to be thrown into the fire.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (16) and Muslim (43). 

    By the same token, love of the Prophet  (peace and 
    blessings of Allaah be upon him) and his companions is one of the greatest 
    means of drawing closer to Allaah, of which most of mankind is deprived. It 
    is narrated in a saheeh report that he  (peace and blessings of Allaah 
    be upon him) said: “A man will be with those whom he loves.” Narrated by 
    al-Bukhaari (6169) and Muslim (2640) from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood; also 
    narrated by Muslim (2639) from Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with 
    him). 

    These are great blessings, just one of which cannot be traded 
    for this world and its pleasures and delights, but in fact you are not aware 
    of their true value, because you have not experienced being without them, 
    even for a single day, and you did not see their fruits in the world except 
    on a very small scale. 

    We do not underestimate the severity of the problem from 
    which you are suffering, but exaggerating about things may make a single 
    problem into several problems. In fact you have several problems, so how 
    about if you were to exaggerate about each one of them until they became 
    like many problems? 

    Looking at a problem from only one angle generates worry, 
    distress and depression, and if it is minor it will increase in one’s eyes 
    until one thinks that all the problems of the world are on one’s shoulders, 
    and there is no problem that a Muslim could have that is one hundred percent 
    pure evil? In most cases the good that exists in the calamity is many times 
    greater than the bad. 

    Firstly: Do you know that Allaah tests the believing woman 
    because He loves her and wants what is good for her? In al-Saheeh it 
    is narrated that our Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon 
    him) said: “When Allaah wills good for a person, He tests him.” Narrated by 
    al-Bukhaari (5321). 

    What great grace it is that Allaah cleanses His slave whom He 
    loves of sin straight away, with trials and calamities, so that he will meet 
    Him on the (Day of Resurrection) with no sin on him, and his joy on that Day 
    will be great, and he will realize then that the calamities that befell him 
    were among the greatest blessings that Allaah bestowed on him. 

    The Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) 
    said: “On the Day of Resurrection, when people who had suffered affliction 
    are given their reward, those who were healthy will wish their skins had 
    been cut to pieces with scissors when they were in the world.” Narrated by 
    al-Tirmidhi, 2402. Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 

    Look again at the life that you are living, and at the 
    calamities that you are suffering, and think positively of your Lord, for He 
    is the wisest of the wise, may He be glorified. 

    Try as much as you can to look at the positive side of every 
    problem that you are suffering, whether it is psychological or material. For 
    example: 

    Delay in marriage: 

    How many girls find that marriage for them is delayed, then 
    it turns out to be good for them. 

    There was a woman who reached the age of forty; her sisters 
    and brothers all got married, and her parents died, and she stayed in the 
    house alone. She was religiously committed and righteous. A woman said to 
    her: May Allaah help you to cope with this loneliness; you have stayed alone 
    after all your family has gone. And she started to encourage her to be 
    patient. But she gave an amazing response that not even great and prominent 
    people could come up with, and those who heard this answer were stunned by 
    it. She said: Who told you that I am living alone? Not at all. I have not 
    lived a single day without the one I love. He is with me night and day, and 
    He does not leave me for a moment, and I talk to Him at moments when He is 
    closest to me. He is my Lord.  

    Another example is the problem of not having children. 

    One of our sisters got married but did not have children for 
    many years, then she found out from medical tests that she was the one who 
    could not have children. She gave her husband the choice of divorcing her or 
    taking a second wife to live with her like two sisters in one house. He 
    loved her for her religious commitment and righteousness, so he chose to 
    take another wife and to keep her with him as a co-wife with all the rights 
    of marriage. That was done, and she now had some free time. She joined a 
    group of women to memorize Qur’aan, until she had memorized it all, and she 
    earned a certificate in learning and memorizing Qur’aan. Then she began to 
    study and she took a course in fiqh and another in ‘aqeedah. Now she is a 
    teacher of women in a women’s centre, and she has had the honour of 
    introducing the Sunnah to many areas that were dominated by innovations and 
    myths. She has played a major role in eradicating ignorance for many women 
    who used to worship Allaah in ignorance. She bore her inability to have 
    children with patience, and her Lord honoured her, and her use of her free 
    time had a great impact on her and others with regard to knowledge and 
    education. 

    A third example: 

    This has to do with one of the greatest problems from which 
    you are suffering, which is sihr (magic or witchcraft), and the influence of 
    the jinn and practitioners of witchcraft among mankind. This example will 
    give answers to most of the questions that have to do with this topic. 

    There was a girl from a good and religiously committed 
    family. The family was faced the problem that the wife of one of their sons 
    practised witchcraft. She had an argument with her husband’s sister and put 
    a spell on her so that suitors would be put off and to make her appear ugly 
    when first seen, so that the suitor would not return. That happened many 
    times despite the fact that she was notably beautiful, and that went on for 
    a long time. Then she was treated with shar’i ruqyah to combat witchcraft 
    and the effects of witchcraft became apparent on her.  She was treated for a 
    while, to no avail. Every time she thought that the problem had been solved, 
    she would suddenly find that she was suffering from the same spell, and she 
    suffered the same as you are suffering now, worry, stress and depression. 

    She started to wonder, could people hate another for no 
    reason to such an extent that they would cause harm to one another, and the 
    witchcraft and the jinn started causing her to panic by night and day. 

    Then she referred her problem to a specialist who told her: 
    There are ten things that you must adhere to, and by Allaah’s leave this 
    problem will not last for long if you are patient and put up with it for a 
    little while. You do not need to go to a man to treat you with ruqyah, 
    rather you can treat yourself by yourself. She said: I will be patient and I 
    will do my best, if Allaah wills. So he wrote down the ten points for her 
    and she adhered to them and stuck firmly to them. Here are the ten points; 
    we will write them for you and we ask Allaah to enable you to adhere to them 
    as part of the remedy for several problems that you have, of which sihr is 
    one. These are the ten points: 

    1.Read whatever you can of 
    Qur’aan every day.

      Make du’aa’ during the last third of the night, beseeching 
      Allaah to grant you relief.

      Seek out the times when du’aa’s are answered, and say 
      du’aa’ at those times, such as when prostrating, between the adhaan and 
      iqaamah, and before saying the tasleem at the end of the prayer.

      Always recite the adhkaar for morning and evening, even 
      during your menses.

      Pay attention to specific du’aa’s, such as dhikr when 
      entering the house, when entering the toilet, when exiting, when going to 
      sleep, when waking up, and on various occasions. These are explained in a 
      small book that is of great benefit, namely Husn al-Muslim by 
      Shaykh Sa’eed ibn Wahb al-Qahtaani. (Available in English as Fortress 
      of the Muslim).

      Keep away from sin, avoid negligence and shun the 
      situations which may cause you to forget remembrance of Allaah, because 
      they are places where the devils gather and take advantage of the heedless 
      and overwhelm them with desires.

      Try to help those who are in distress and relieve their 
      distress, in the hope that Allaah may relieve your distress thereby. If a 
      person helps his brother, Allaah will help him, and if he relieves his 
      brother’s distress, Allaah will relieve his distress.

      Pray for those who are in distress, asking Allaah to 
      relieve them, because that will lead to the angels praying for you as you 
      prayed for others.

      Ask a great deal for forgiveness.

      Recite the du’aa’ of distress at various times: “La 
      ilaaha ill-Allaah al-‘Azeem ul-Haleem, Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb il-‘arsh 
      il-‘azeem, Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb is-samawaati wa Rabb il-ard wa Rabb 
      il-‘arsh il-kareem (there is no god except Allaah, the All-Mighty, the 
      Forbearing; there is no god except Allaah, the Lord of the Mighty Throne; 
      there is no god except Allaah, Lord of the heavens, Lord of the earth and 
      Lord of the noble Throne).”

     After nearly a month of adhering to these things, Allaah 
    took away her distress and decreed that she should be healed and made well. 
    It was only a few days later that a suitor came to her and she got married. 
    And now she has three sons and lives a calm and stable life filled with 
    spiritual and worldly delights. 

    The last example, which I pray Allaah will cause to be a 
    lesson and example for you: 

    There was a girl from a family that was not religiously 
    committed. She married an uneducated young man who was somewhat religiously 
    committed but was a little careless with regard to some matters of 
    sharee’ah. She got pregnant a few months after marriage and the pregnancy 
    lasted for a while, then she had a miscarriage. She and her husband grieved 
    deeply, but a few months later she got pregnant again. The pregnancy lasted 
    for a few months, but ended in miscarriage like the first one. The grief the 
    second time was greater. They started going to doctors to find out the 
    causes, and the problem was diagnosed. In the third pregnancy she took the 
    medicines that were needed to make the pregnancy stable, but one month later 
    she had a miscarriage despite taking all the necessary precautions. The 
    grief this time was far greater than the first two times. They lost trust in 
    that doctor and looked for another who was more skilled, but it happened 
    again and she had another miscarriage. Each of them started looking for a 
    remedy and asking, and they were sent to a Shaykh who treated people by 
    means of ruqyah. He told her: You are under a powerful spell, and this is 
    what is causing the miscarriages, and needs several sessions. That was done 
    but to no avail. Then she went to a second Shaykh, and a third and a fourth. 
    Every time she was partially cured, then the effects of the spell came back 
    again.   

    The couple began to despair and they almost gave up. There 
    was no joy in their lives, and they asked many of the same questions that 
    you mention in your letter. Why did Allaah create the jinn? Why are they 
    able to harm us without us being able to do anything? Why? Why? She became 
    depressed and that almost destroyed their marriage. 

    Then Allaah caused her husband to meet a seeker of knowledge 
    and he said: Shall I not tell you that which is best for your religious and 
    worldly interests? The husband said: That is what I have been looking for. 
    He wrote down for him something similar to the ten points that we have 
    mentioned, and he and his wife followed that, and Allaah made things easier 
    for them, and relieved their distress, and blessed them with a beautiful 
    baby girl. 

    This woman went through a great test, and her children died 
    because of the effects of witchcraft and she spent a lot of money on medical 
    treatment. In the end the calamity turned into a blessing, or many 
    blessings. She used to delay prayer until the time for it was over, but then 
    she started to pray regularly on time. She used to listen to music and watch 
    soap operas and movies, and attend mixed wedding parties with the evils 
    involved in them, but now she and her husband refuse to do that until now. 
    She used not to pray qiyaam or read Qur’aan or memorize it, or see knowledge 
    or observe naafil fasts, but now she does all of those things. Although the 
    problem that she was suffering ended a year ago, she began to taste the 
    sweetness of obedience, worship and conversing with her Lord, so she decided 
    to follow that for the rest of her life. Yes, she suffered a problem and a 
    calamity, but her problem became the cause of her rising in worldly and 
    religious terms. We ask Allaah to make us, her and you steadfast in adhering 
    to Islam. 

    And Allaah is the Source of strength.