She adheres to the Sunnah and is being accused of being a fanatic, and she wants advice
Question

                I was a born muslim but other than praying i was ignorant of all the things now by the blessings of allah my eyes have open and i have started acting according to quraan and sunnah to my best ability but now i have lost all my friends who ar muslims too i had before they ar not very religious they dont much abt religion andi and my husband have become two aliens in my whole country my friends have stopped calling me too my father and my mother in law and sister in laws call us wahabees and my cousins too and mymother told that she doesnt have much time she doesnt care as long as all her children ar good and prayingmost poeple make fun of my hijaab too and its very sad i mean i live in a small island in indian ocean and everyone is muslims my country is rep of maldives i am very alone and sad here can u tell me what i should do i feel so lonely and alone and its very painfull when u lose everyfriend u have can u please give me a good advice on how i should act in this situation i have tried alot to tell my family too about sunnah and all the answer i got was u have lost ur religon u ar a whabee so its wahabees way .
Praise be to Allah.
    Firstly: 

    We ask Allaah to relieve your distress and make things easy 
    for you, and to help you to obey Him and worship Him properly. Remember that 
    the alienation that you are feeling is a good sign for you, The Prophet  
    (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Islam began as something 
    strange and will revert to being something strange, so glad tidings to the 
    strangers.” Narrated by Muslim (145). 

    The word tooba (translated here as “glad tidings”) has many 
    meanings, such as goodness and honour, a great tree in Paradise, joy and 
    happiness, and many other meanings, all of which may apply here. 

    Al-Sindi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: 

    “Strange” means because its followers are small in numbers. 
    The basic meaning of ghareeb (stranger) is one who is far from his home. 

    “And will revert to being something strange” means that few 
    will adhere to it and help others to do so, even if the Muslims are many.  

    “to the strangers” means those who follow its commands. 

    “Tooba” is derived from the word tayyib (good), and it is 
    interpreted as referring to Paradise or to a great tree that grows there. 

    This indicates that supporting Islam and obeying its commands 
    may require the one who does that to leave his homeland and be patient in 
    bearing the hardships of being away from his homeland, as was the case when 
    it first began. 

    Sharh Sunan Ibn Majaah (hadeeth 
    no 3986. 

    Secondly: 

    You have the best example in the Messenger of Allaah  
    (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He brought light to his people, 
    but they insisted on remaining in the darkness of kufr and ignorance. They 
    accused him of being a sorcerer, soothsayer or madman, but he was patient in 
    calling them, and he did not get fed up of repeating his call, using 
    different methods of calling individuals and groups, calling in secret and 
    in the open, until he attained great success. Similarly, daa’iyahs who came 
    after him called the kuffaar to Islam, and called sinners to obedience, and 
    called innovators to the Sunnah. Many of them experienced hardship, distress 
    and difficulties, but that did not stop them from persisting in da’wah. Were 
    it not for that, Islam would not have reached your country, the Maldives! 

    Think about these examples, and do what they did, and be 
    patient as they were patient, so that you may attain the pleasure of Allaah. 
    What you hear of mockery and being called “Wahhabis” was said by those who 
    came before them, and the fools still repeat it with regard to those who 
    promote the Sunnah, but that does not harm them or make them stop conveying 
    the religion of Allaah. 

    Thirdly: 

    In addition to being patient in calling people, we advise you 
    to select wise people among other women and your relatives to convey the 
    religion of Allaah to them and remind them of the truths of Islam, for if 
    people are happy to belong to Islam, that does not prevent them from 
    following the Sunnah, but there may be other obstacles that are preventing 
    them from coming to the path of truth, such as misguided scholars and 
    proponents of bid’ah, or specious arguments and whims and desires, and so 
    on. It may also be due to the fact that we are failing to convey the truth 
    of Islam to them, or we do not have wise ways of conveying it. 

    You have to be gentle and patient, and select the wisest 
    people, and address them politely. Use different means such as audio tapes, 
    video lectures and books, and you may see some good results. 

    Fourthly:  

    Strive to make your house the focal point of this da’wah. 
    Start with your husband and children, so that this will become a house of 
    blessing for all people. Remember that our mother Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid 
    was the first one of this ummah to become Muslim, and she was the first one 
    to support the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in 
    conveying the message and calling her daughters to Islam. Her house was the 
    first house to become Muslim, and from it the call of goodness spread to all 
    corners of the earth, so be like her and follow her example. 

    In the answer to question no.
    9380 you will find more advice and 
    suggestions, which we hope you will read. There is no need to repeat them 
    here. 

    And Allaah is the Source of strength.