You are easily taken aback by people who seem to know what they want and how to get it. Remember that your reflective nature tends to give a lot of credit to others while at the same time depriving yourself of the same. Break this pattern of find yourself in a rut, comparing yourself to others or worse, manipulating others to balance the insecurity you feel. Openly communicate with those who do things you would like to be able to do: you will be surprised at how they help you!