Swaps. I never had bad luck with my swap partners or the items I received, but the nagging and bickering just gets on my nerves. I don’t participate in swaps, and this makes me happier. ###>Swaps. I never had bad luck with my swap partners or the items I received, but the nagging and bickering just gets on my nerves. I don’t participate in swaps, and this makes me happier.