Interesting.  And here I was wondering why on earth I had started feeling irritated by his presence all of a sudden.  Why, in 5 long years, had I never ever thought about accusing him of "failing my trust in him" but have been doing so now?  However, it is very self-explanatory, is it not?  My father has been very skillfully creating this outcome by simply thinking likewise and I was just the pawn on his chessboard. 