Almost a week ago, dad and I were going through a conversation which was bouncing back and forth between a discussion and a quarrel.  It was a bitter one since I was being quite pushy and was deliberately drawing him towards his borders and making him face the reality that he had been rationalizing.  In doing so, I had no intentions to "correct" him, let me explain this part.  A most precious understanding New Spirituality has given me is the element of "perfection." Perfection in everything. 