When my grandmother died - I wasn't sad so much that she'd died á
because she was old, but because she lived in the last few years á
in an old people's home and had nothing very much that was hers - á
no chair, or private space, and when I went to visit she would be á
sitting in the "lliving" room the TV room. It was hopeless. And I á
felt awkward so I didn't go and I was sad 'cos how I couldn't.