People can poison you with their ideas of what you should be. And if you don't meet up to their expectations, and oftentimes their expectations of you are just to reaffirm themselves. They want you to love them. They want you to tell them how awesome they are. And if you don't feel that way, you're cold. There's something wrong with you. Because they don't have autonomy. They can't exist independently. That's the problem. The problem is a lot of bitches out there.