Terrific, right? And he talks about this, right? He talks about the fact that people make a very large scale mistake about marriage, which is they think that the passion you feel at the very beginning is what you're gonna feel 40 years in. And that's not the way this works. It starts off where your passionate love level for somebody, meaning like lust, and how much you wanna get them in bed and how much you wanna be with them all the time, is at like 100. And your level of kind of committed love, that level of love where you have shared values that matters to you this much. And then over time, after about two years, the passionate love starts to decline. And by the time you're 60, then you better have shared values. Cause after 60 years, it ain't gonna be like it was when you were 20. So you have to have in mind what things are gonna be like a few years down the road. Which is why I say you should be thinking about what your life together is gonna be like before you fall into bed together.