Dear mommy Tina, I completely understand your need for Tom to have enthusiasm as my fiance is just as chill and unexcitable as Tom. There is nothing more agitating than being excited for something and only getting a smile from my man. That just proves that you are the personality champ. Personality is all about getting excited, having different moods, and responding accordingly to other people. Clearly, Tom doesn't have what it takes to be considered a champ. It's all you. PS. I also get farted on and treated like a sister. We are definitely into weird territory. I feel like this only happens with couples who are on the same playing field. Lots of love, Hannah. Thank you.