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What is the best medicine for anxiety disorder and depression?
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Hi, I'm a 29yrs old and have been on zoloft since I was 18 yrs old. I use to have such a high libido before the meds and enjoyed and thought about having sex everyday. I used to have so much fun. I've recently married my husband March this but we have been together for 11 years. I love him so much but sex doesn't interest me at all. I'm never in the mood, but I want to enjoy one of the best pleasures life again. Another factor is that I'm a stripper in a no touching club. But we met each other at the same club he was my manager and we worked together for 3 years and have lived with each other for years. I was diagnosed with bipolar at age 18/19 as I was admitted to a mental hospital by force as I was very suicidal. I think that being on zoloft at the start helped. Well its kept me somewhat sane. However I'm still experiencing anxiety and depression. I used to love sex and being impulsive and now I just dread sex and I feel numb but I want to, I don't what to do. I have sex with my husband like once every two months. I feel like I don't even know how have sex anymore. Is there a better antidepresent  as I feel like I've missed out on best years of  my life. I'm a stripper that can't even initiate sex with my own partner. Why? Should I just get off zoloft. I want my happiness back. What can I do to get myself in the zone as I feel like we have never had proper sex. Is there any drugs I can take to bring my libido back. Help please!
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DearWe understand your concernsI went through your details. I suggest you to consult a psychiatrist before stopping or switching psychiatric medicines. Your bipolar may not have cured fully. Your medicine is helping you a lot in that aspect. Being so long in medication must have taken its toll. You need to address your anxiety and depression too. I also suggest you to worry about sex later. For the time being, consult a psychiatrist and start Cognitive Behavior Therapy and pharmacotherapy.If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL.  Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.Good luck. Take care.