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How to control possessiveness?
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Hello Doctor, I recently got married to the person whom I was in love with for three yrs. He is my world and I love him more than anything in my life. He also loves me the same way I do. He has so much of respect with his sister in law and behaves very close to her which is hurting me big time. Because i cannot digest him moving close with any female other than me. I'm sure there is no mis-relationship but I'm too possesive towards my husband. This has created quarrels between us and i'm totally depressed and worried to the core that its spoiling my marriage life. Please help me come out of this situation.
gpt
DearWe understand your concernsI went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I sincerely opine that your desparation and obsession should go off once you understand your husband and your life. Please do not try to point the fact to your husband again and again. If there is nothing wrong in their relationship, he will try to make you understand that fact. You poke him again and again and he will try to pacify you. Your obsession will not listen to him, and his irritation will become hate. So please make sure that your obsession does not force him to hate you. Try to get a job and concentrate on your career.If you still need my help, please describe the whole problem in detail and post a direct question to me. I shall definitely help you with psychotherapy techniques to over come your problems.Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.Good luck.