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What are the treatment and symptoms of borderline personality disorder?
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I am 43 years old, 166 cm ht and 70 kg wt.I am the eldest son of 3 children in the family.My mother is sensitive by nature and anxious on all things. After marriage I experienced abuse from my wife who is diagonised borderline personality disorder..NOw we are away.My problem is that it is very difficult for me to concentrate on eyes while taking and used to look at private parts of the person I  am taking. IT is becoming very difficult to concetrate on woman.Also I become fear and upset when I am in such situation..I cannot even tell joke or talk long time after I feel nervous and to get out of that situtaion. I am expereincing this for the past 6 years..recently I had trouble on sexula arousemnt also..When my wife comes nearby i cannot get aroused..feel nervous and effecting my sexual life also..Pls. advise#RahulKerala, India
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Dear rahul, sorry to hear all the troubles you have faced and facing. All appears to me that you are suffering from anxiety disorder which is affecting you in all spheres if life be it at work at placez or during sex.you need to defocus from anxiety need to do relaxation exercises and take antianxiety ssri medicines from a psychiatrist. It will take time but you will be better soon.