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Mother in law not allowing to mingle with people and irritating. Suggestion?
human
Hi doctor, I don't like the way my mother in law behaves... she is acting in front of everyone and she is irritating me by saying complaints.don't know what to do with her. i love to stay in my in laws home. but because of her i was completed fed up of being with her. not letting me speak to my relatives. but she wants me to mingle with her family members. How can i manage her ?
gpt
HiI suppose you are from  India and this is ghar ghar ki kahani. I think whatever she is doing is due to insecurity deep down . It is good that you love to stay in your inlaws home. If one of you keep some patience and try to look ar other's view point, before jumping to any conclusion, things are likely to improve. Try to observe 2-3 things, don't say anything which can hurt others, never raise your voice, maintain eye contact, remember to praise where appropriate ,even if it is a minor issue, . TAKE CARE & HOPE FOR A GOOD SAS BAHU RELATIONSHIPDR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA