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  I don't know. But if I live to 70, my kids will lose their father in their 30s. I lost my dad when I was 32 but he was 50. I think of everything that he missed since then. It is what it is
context: My parent is 41 years older than me. It was weird when people thought she was my grandma but it didn't ruin my day or anything. Personally, it was more strange when I was like 25 and trying to start doing my own thing in life, and my parent was now 66 and in bad health. >
  
  Same for me, my mum had me at 37 which doesnt seem too bad but now she is 62 and has stage 4 pancreatic cancer and im only 25. She is my favorite person in the world and I would die if she didn’t get to meet my futur kids or see me graduate. >
  
  My wife and I had kids in our mid 30s and knowing I'll never watch them grow old bothers me >
  
  ....how young do you expect to die?