comment: >
  
  Ironically it sounds like you have some type of trauma yourself. There must be someone in your life telling you that you need to grow up and act tough and not show emotions. Childhood memories, maybe?
context: It seems easy from the outside looking in. Trauma lingers. >
  
  Trauma can linger, but if you refuse therapy, you should shut the hell up. >
  
  Therapy isn't free chief