comment: >
  
  What they think is no big deal, but their actions can have a lot of effects.
context: You're way overthinking it. No one except the government cares about green card marriages. >
  
  You're wrong. There are a lot of people out there who love to be involved in other people's business. >
  
  So what. Why would you care what they think about you? 
  People give headcannon way too much credit.