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  The view I want to debate on and be challenged on is that it isn't wise to break up with someone solely due having differences in the kids vs no kids debate.   
  My question to your response is what are the reasons one might feel "incomplete" without having a kid? The main ones I can think of are societal pressure (everyone else is having babies and my parents want grand children) and values from how you were raised (was always taught that having kids was a must do in life and its shameful not to have them).  
  I understand that parenthood can be very fulfilling. Afterall, my parents and I have a great relationship. I'm just of the opinion that if you love your partner very strongly and they don't want kids, you're taking a massive gamble by breaking it off and could very well not find another ideal partner. Basically, I'd rather live in a very good, but not perfect house rather than blow up the foundation and hope i find the perfect home one day.
context: i personally would rather not be a father and stay with my current girlfriend (soon to be wife) then start all over and hope everything works out.
  
  I'm not sure what view you want changed here. You, personally, are willing to forego children to stay in a relationship. Many people are not. They want children and feel their lives will be incomplete without them.
  Those people should probably break up.
  That's not your priority. Ok?