comment: We work on one another. Communicate. Improve. It’s essential in long term relationships. 
  The girl who smoked pot on her brother’s couch is not my psychologist wife with a full patient list today and kickass mother of our children. 
  The guy who spent 18 hours a day playing WoW and not knowing the first thing about women is not her husband and father of her kids today.
  Fast forward a dozen+ years, we’ve grown as people and in our marriage. 
  We aim to make each other better. Work on our weaknesses, lean in on our strengths, rely on each other. Never stop dating each other and making time for a kiss or a deep hug. Corny but it’s true.