comment: i personally would rather not be a father and stay with my current girlfriend (soon to be wife) then start all over and hope everything works out.
  
  I'm not sure what view you want changed here. You, personally, are willing to forego children to stay in a relationship. Many people are not. They want children and feel their lives will be incomplete without them.
  Those people should probably break up.
  That's not your priority. Ok?