comment: >
  
  Go out and get coffee instead
context: Fun at the time. But as I get older. The hangover last days. No longer worth it. Or I am just out of practice. >
  
  I went to a nice quiet bar with my mate last night. No more than 20 tables. Not over crowded with people standing about. There was music but it wasn’t overly loud. Just loud enough to provide a bit of atmosphere. Had a nice burger and fries with it too. Was a great night where we engaged in deep and thoughtful conversations
    
  Plenty of these kinds of bars exist. >
  
  
  standing around in an overcrowded club pushing around with everyone else at the bar paying over €10 for a shit drink
  
  so go to a dive bar. >
  
  I'm speaking more of the general mindset of a glorified "night life" >
  
  I just hate the feeling of being drunk or even tipsy. I don't mind having a drink or two but if I start to feel light headed then I stop. >
  
  We like to have a few drinks in a quiet place and talk, then go out to the parties and bars, and then afterwards talk in a quiet place - somehow that’s when we are most honest, vulnerable and open and the conversations are deeper and more meaningful >
  
  Thankfully I only have one friend who does this, like she's stuck with the mindset of a young adult when we're actually in our mid 30s. I've never gone out to drink with her. I do like a nice lunch date with friends though. Gonna have to agree, going out drinking sucks.