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  Marrying someone in the US doesn’t get you a green card either. There’s many hoops to jumps through, money to pay, evidence to prove the relationship is real. I’m sure there are people that abuse it but hey, you know what would be great. If people could immigrate easily. The main reason why people abuse this and marry just for the green card/visa is because it’s the easiest way. In some places it comes close it impossible to immigrate in any other way!
context: You're way overthinking it. No one except the government cares about green card marriages. >
  
  You're wrong. There are a lot of people out there who love to be involved in other people's business. >
  
  So what. Why would you care what they think about you? 
  People give headcannon way too much credit. >
  
  What they think is no big deal, but their actions can have a lot of effects. >
  
  So marry an ugly person, they may think you did it for the greencard they will also think you earned it. >
  
  Honestly, I think it's kinda mean to classify a person as "ugly" since they had no choice in their face shape >
  
  Well I kind of agree, its mean to treat them poorly because of that. It is not incorrect to recognize that someone is physically not attractive to you or society at large, if you are making fun of them about that, then that is a separate thing. >
  
  Personally, I believe beauty is subjective. Someone might find someone who I disliked as the love of their life, that's why I don't believe in a general beauty standard >
  
  Well that can certainly occur, but for the most part society agrees (though that definition does change over time) on what they find as the standards of beauty (especially when evaluating females). It might not be fair or nice but it tends to (on average) be true. >
  
  I like that we had a civil conversation over this subject >
  
  Lol, I’m sad that your normal experience is such that this is uncommon. Not everyone online has to be our enemy. 😃 >
  
  This was so wholesome, thank you random person from the internet >
  
  You as well, unknown friend. >
  
  it's an imperfect solution to a tricky problem >
  
  Couldn't have said it better >
  
  My family is all immigrants who work their asses off and sometimes marriage citizenship works to stay legal and everyone wins, can’t see a downside >
  
  I understand your situation but my morals wouldn’t allow me to use people's trust like that (I mean the act of abusing the law and the people who operate it and NOT the person who get married) >
  
  How do you think the law is being abused and people’s trust is being used, your morals sound very low and in need of an upgrade since morals are what is right and prudent >
  
  The law is designed to keep two lovers together, if anyone uses it to get the citizenship (solely) it is actively "abusing" of the law to get the citizenship while no actual love is involved, meaning there is no reason for the individuals to be in the same country, however the people who operate the law think that they are helping two people to find love in each other while someone is getting a free greencard by abusing their trust >
  
  It sounds like you don’t understand marriage law or marriage citizenship and assume to know how people feel about each other in every instance every time is the same >
  
  I might have mistook your first comment as "using the marriage as way to get citizenship" which if i have, I apologise >
  
  You and me feel disgusted but the person doing it usually doesn't 😂 >
  
  You and me have morals, those who do it for the greencard don't >
  
  I'd love for my country to work like that. In the UK marriage doesn't get you a visa. You have to be earning an above average salary to support them and still pay / apply to renew the partner visa every few years until they qualify for ILR or citizenship and that involves quizzes and English language tests. It's absolute bullshit you have to go through that to keep your family in your own fucking country.