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  I like that we had a civil conversation over this subject
context: You're way overthinking it. No one except the government cares about green card marriages. >
  
  You're wrong. There are a lot of people out there who love to be involved in other people's business. >
  
  So what. Why would you care what they think about you? 
  People give headcannon way too much credit. >
  
  What they think is no big deal, but their actions can have a lot of effects. >
  
  So marry an ugly person, they may think you did it for the greencard they will also think you earned it. >
  
  Honestly, I think it's kinda mean to classify a person as "ugly" since they had no choice in their face shape >
  
  Well I kind of agree, its mean to treat them poorly because of that. It is not incorrect to recognize that someone is physically not attractive to you or society at large, if you are making fun of them about that, then that is a separate thing. >
  
  Personally, I believe beauty is subjective. Someone might find someone who I disliked as the love of their life, that's why I don't believe in a general beauty standard >
  
  Well that can certainly occur, but for the most part society agrees (though that definition does change over time) on what they find as the standards of beauty (especially when evaluating females). It might not be fair or nice but it tends to (on average) be true.