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  I thought it was a typo at first, but this is a great term to coin.
context: In the messages in the court order, Tate explained to the woman that he had used a webcam business to “launder money” and that he’d also started teaching men to start their own. “It’s all a cover,” he wrote, assuring her she could trust him. He told the victim that he’d meet her in Romania after taking care of some work in Prague and spoke about the prospect of marriage.  
  “I want to know that you are determined … serious about marriage,” Tate stated in one message, according to the court order.  
  “Yes. I am serious,” the woman replied.
  
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  According to the court order, Tate replied that the women in the house work for “Only Fans” — an internet subscription service used extensively by sex workers.  
  “I mean, do they undress and stuff? Or something else,” the woman responded.  
  “No, just bikini,” Tate wrote. “And underwear.”  
  “I thought I would come here and live with you,” she wrote the next day. “It’s a little strange to have you put me with girls who work for you.”
  
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  In a message reproduced in the court order, for instance, the Moldovan woman said she was thinking about going into town.  
  “NO,” Tate writes. “Going out alone … without telling me. Mall. Supermarket. NOWHERE. FROM NOW ON. It’s the last warning.”
  
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  One of Tristan’s “rules” for her in Romania was “you never talk to anyone unless I introduce you,” messages between the two show. “Romania is my world. No friends from the outside,” he wrote. >
  
  Ah the classic abusers/pimps move of making false promises, isolate, threaten and profit. >
  
  Well this sets a dangerous precedent, if manipulating people like that is illegal, then those poor religions will have to answer to all the abuse they cause! >
  
  It seems disingenuous to conflate mass religion with intimate partner abuse. >
  
  It only seems that way if you're willfully ignorant about what goes on in a lot of churches. >
  
  I am an ex-Catholic who went to Catholic school. I understand perfectly well. I still think it does a disservice to the victims. >
  
  The victims of catholic rape? >
  
  No. Theyre mostly children. We're talking about adult women here. >
  
  Oh like the victims of Sharia…
  Sorry religions confuse me. >
  
  Nah that's  still children, male and female, just depends on where you go. >
  
  I saw him on YMH podcast and he was such a prick I thought “this has a be an act?” Nope. Fuck this dude. >
  
  The interview Bert and Christine did with him was unsurprisingly disappointing.  They asked where Tate got his money from, and he replies that he’s mob connected, and was given a casino, and they just shrugged and moved on.  Maybe ask more details about that?  Less about his opinions on women? >
  
  I think they were kinda scared of him. Now that I know that his schtick wasn’t an act I don’t know if I’d be comfortable in the same room as him. >
  
  The shtick is him exaggerating things from his life to seem cool when really he's just been a pathetic asshole his entire life. Like the mob stuff is almost 100% a lie, the honest part is that he really is a piece of garbage who hates women and considers sexual assault not a big deal.
  Most of the stuff he's said about his past are all basically just outright lies because his brand is about being a tough guy. In reality he's a chess kid who once cried during a tournament because he couldn't win, a kickboxer who mainly padded his record, and a supposed ladies man who pretty much exclusively preys on people with emotional issues. >
  
  I love it when bad things happen to bad people. >
  
  schadenfreude 
  Pleasure derived from someone else’s misfortune. >
  
  
  misfortune
  
  I don't think this is the right word to use, but I can't think of a better one. >
  
  Poetic justice. >
  
  I dont know much about the guy but after watching him talk, hes at least a major douche. Guy literally tried to argue that he hadnt raped a woman and stops to point out 'she wasnt even hot' and im like does he have a textbook of Things A Rapist Would Say? Everything he says just keeps sounding worse. >
  
  He wrote that textbook >
  
  "Tate rape" sounds like an extension of "date rape." Someone who fucked you under false pretenses because they listened to Andrew Tate podcasts.