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  No, OP, this is a fact. If you are rude to people, they will want to be your friend. It's the nature of things.
context: I think what you're describing isn't people being genuinely nice, it's a forced 'niceness' stemming from a fear of confrontation. If you compromise you own honest reactions to things in order to be 'nice' too much, this isn't very genuine and people can see through it. >
  
  I do. What the fuck are you talking about? 
  
  I’m known for saying things that other people find stupid
  
  I wonder why. >
  
  Oh be nice >
  
  Yea, you don't want to be friends with this idiot! >
  
  Idiots are people too, I think >
  
  You make friends by being yourself and finding people that like who you are. I think what you are really trying to say is that faking being overly nice to make friends is not worthwhile or effective. Or maybe you just really like being mean to people, idk. >
  
  Let me get this straight: you'd rather people be mean to you in order to express that they want to be your friend?
  You can't shit talk your friends until you're friends.