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  First off I’m female and second off I feel like parties get old around 25. Perhaps you need to find new ways to have fun.
context: Idk traveling to another country sounds pretty fun >
  
  The idea of visiting exotic, or culturally significant, or just plain fun places is nice, and indeed fun in the moment. But the act of getting there, however that may be, is most certainly not. >
  
  I share your dislike of travelling but it's because I grew up with a disabled mother and travelling felt more like a chore than a break. The anxiety of finding disability-friendly places, packing, budgeting, and knowing I'll be playing caretaker even when I should be having fun was so stressful that I would rather stay home and sleep. >
  
  I don't believe the thing that people say. That traveling makes you a better person . Like you visit a place for 2 weeks. How much does that really affect you. In 2 weeks you'll be back to your old self. >
  
  This is very true. They act like getting exposed to a new culture for a few weeks changes their mindset on life. I would say moving to a new country as a full-time resident and actually “living” there would be the only way to make some difference in personal identity and perspective. >
  
  Not sure this is unpopular, I think most people would agree with this really, I know I would. >
  
  It absolutely is unpopular. And completely not understandable. >
  
  I think a lot more people actually think this then would admit to it. >
  
  The best part is getting to steal everything that isn’t bolted down in the hotel. >
  
  This guy fun at parties