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  i like how you understand your situation anf want best for any future partner. im not the most sexual person so ive never felt the need to try and make a sexual relationship so i just didn’t understand
context: People can like other people without wanting them to be a major part of their lives >
  
  if you like them then why wouldnt you want to try to be with them though >
  
  Some people just want to have sex and not deal with the commitment. If you want commitment get that out of who your taking to before sex, and if they don’t give just move on because chances are the only reason they’re even talking to you is to score. >
  
  There's a difference between platonic love, romantic love, and sexual attraction.
  A person is complicated and people are exponentially more complicated than a person.
  Different types of relationships (whether that's being a friend, being romantically involved, being sexually involved, and any combination of all or none of those or any other number of other factors) fit different groups of people. >
  
  I don't date because I'm mature enough to realize I'm not ready for a relationship; don't have the living situation I want, don't have the money I want, don't have the free time and attention I'd want to be willing to give to my partner, etc. I still want sex though, so that's why building trusting relationships with friends I can have sex with is the goal for me right now. 
  Being interested in a monogamous, dedicated relationship with someone and being interested in sex are two wildly, completely different things.