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  I do. What the fuck are you talking about? 
  
  I’m known for saying things that other people find stupid
  
  I wonder why.
context: I think what you're describing isn't people being genuinely nice, it's a forced 'niceness' stemming from a fear of confrontation. If you compromise you own honest reactions to things in order to be 'nice' too much, this isn't very genuine and people can see through it.