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  Well this is one of the worlds biggest misconceptions. Likely spoken by someone who’s failed time and time again to pleasure a woman. Unless you go off in like 20 seconds or something. Maybe sex just ain’t for you if that’s the caee
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  Part of the enjoyment isn't just the attention your dick gets... Those things can last however long you want/your partner can stand. >
  
  
  Those things can last however long you want
  
  you obv dont have a dick >
  
  "Yeah bro just think of rotting meat or a nest of spiders, it’ll make it way more enjoyable" >
  
  Thinking about Tarzan sliding down vines also does the trick >
  
  I'm sad I understand this reference >
  
  Tarzan is a man that lives in the jungle because that's where he was raised and on occasion he slides, swings, and jumps on vines. >
  
  I imagine getting my arms and legs getting torn off and not being able to kill myself because I am a torso and life is awful >
  
  Now the world is gone, I'm just one >
  
  Not really.  I enjoy tf out of pleasuring my partner, and the thrusts that feel good for her aren’t always the thrusts that get me there but it’s still enjoyable. >
  
  I've yet to meet a thrust that doesn't get me there... >
  
  Just picture your grandma playing baseball naked or some shit. >
  
  Would you slowly associate your grandma with sex and then get turned on when she’s holding a basketball? >
  
  Only one way to find out I spose. >
  
  Just stop when you need to and pleasure your partner another way, then get back to it >
  
  It's all in the foreplay.
  The penetration is nice, but it's not the end all be all.
  Foreplay gets you in the mood and it can amplify the experience 10 fold if done right.
  Teasing and playing with your partner creates a close connection and is the entry point for the full penetration; making it more meaningful and enjoyable >
  
  I had anxiety, that helped me last longer. I had to be emotionally attached to someone in order to “finish”. >
  
  Demisexual there, boss. >
  
  Depends on your sexual response dude. If you're nothing.. nothing.. peak.. nothing then agree. Some guys arent like that. Lucky bastards >
  
  These things can be learned >
  
  Not from a Jedi >
  
  🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✌️ >
  
  "Guys have to actively try to not enjoy sex in order to ~~enjoy~~ having sex longer" Fixed
  Having sex longer is not more enjoyable for men (and even for women ) . It is something that men do since they:
  
  Do not know how to make their partner enjoy sex in other ways
  Are not confident enough to "let themselves go" by being afraid of being judged as not be good in bed
  They think quantity >> quality (Do you think a woman truly enjoys the experience when a man is  not there and thinks of their dead grandma' and provokes himself pain? Really?)
  
  Once you stop caring when you orgasm and enjoy the moment, you will last much much longer than all the other techniques combined. >
  
  I would be looking for the camera and just waiting the "hhEhE iS a ViDeo fOr mY U2 cHANnel"