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  That's not a fact of life, it's just what you've noticed in the people in your focus. >
  
  Yes, people always laugh whenever i have new ideas >
  
  I'm in my 30s and do plenty of both, you may want to take pause and self reflect. What in your life has caused a disconnect to your emotions? >
  
  I think this one might be worth thinking about OP. It doesn’t have to be like that. I find crying to be an important release for emotions and helplessness when faced with some grown up shit. Also laughter has for the longest time been a sort of a hiding place for me. Only in the most recent decade have I found how to laugh from my heart, fully. >
  
  Oh wrong their my friend. Mya someday run out of time …….but the older I get the more I laugh at all the stupid in the world and I cry more for the mess we’ve made of it all >
  
  Get out of the shower and go outside more. I’d say it’s the complete opposite, if anything as you get older you will laugh at anything (even jokes that you miss the punchline to) >
  
  I'd actually say it's the complete opposite. 
  Sure the older you get the more stress you have, but if you are so unhappy you can't laugh then you definitely need to reevaluate your life. 
  You only live once you might as well enjoy it.