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  There is no one or nothing that incels won't blame for their crap -- except themselves. 
  It's society not providing good role models! 
  It's parents not teaching them how to date or letting them do drugs! (which, wtf)!
  It's people being mean and not "reaching out!"
  It is always, always, women.
  It's never that they're just toxic, misogynistic losers who lack ambition, achievement, interest, anything but their juvenile ire and blaming.
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  CMV: Parents of poor people failed to prepare them financially for life.
  CMV: Parents of fat people failed to prepare them healthwise for life.
  CMV: Parents of antisocial people failed to prepare them socially for life.
  CMV: Parents of criminals failed to prepare them for a life in society.
  This is a question of nature vs. nurture vs. free will. Do you agree with every statement above? Does every child of a shitty parent turn out shitty? Does every child of a great parent turn out great?
  If the answer to any of the above CMVs above is no, then some of the responsibility must rely on the individual. Is it fair? No. Do we all bear some responsibility for our actions??? >
  
  You are making a VERY incorrect assumption that incels lack adequate parenting while people who have sex had adequate parenting. That is way off base. In the example you used, you reference a different unhealthy relationship pattern. A literal child doing drugs, neglecting sleep, and having potentially unsafe sex due to those factors, is NOT something to aspire to.
  Incels need therapy. That’s it. Like a lot of other people. Parenting causes a lot of issues, but boiling down the complex psychology of incels to bad parenting is woefully inadequate.