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  I can’t imagine why anyone who’s serious looking for a life partner would think anything else
context: It definitely would! Big red flag. Would indicate to me that this relationship would be transactional and I need to get the hell out there. >
  
  I mean, if you want it to feel more like an interview than a first date, sure that's an approach. Might turn off a lot of potential partners that way.
  I certainly believe the big stuff and the deal breakers should be discussed early (and I don't think that's unpopular) but cramming it all into the first date is kind of unnecessary.