comment: men are disadvantaged due to their gender: generally doing more dangerous jobs, risk for conscription, lack of acknowledgement of their emotions from an early age.
  
  All of these things are consequences or byproducts of perpetuating male supremacy.
  The slave owner has to deal with the stress of maintaining a plantation. That doesn't mean it's appropriate to say "they have it bad, too."
  The reasons women aren't conscripted into the military or aren't encouraged to go into jobs like construction is because the men in charge of those things don't want them there. Sexual harassment in male-dominated spaces is normal and goes unpunished. Men in congress have actively fought to keep women out of the military, saying it ruins brotherhood, women are weak/emotional. 
  They hold these positions because they don't want women to be equal. They want women to fulfill a role of doting subordinate who is humble and grateful for men protecting them. Those men do not like and do not believe a woman can hold her own.
  Shaming of men's emotions similarly has everything to do with protecting masculinity as something superior to femininity.