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  I like that! Well said! And yah probably true I didn’t know her that well she was my wife’s friend.
context: I agree there can be times in which little trauma can be a learning experience. But, heavy trauma such as sexual abuse, neglect etc no those leave such deep scares that people may struggle with day to day things. >
  
  Yeh but people act like getting a bad nickname anymore is considered trauma >
  
  In some cases yes, I feel in most cases when people talk about trauma it’s for real bad shit that happened to them. >
  
  Most people yes. But I’ve literally met a girl (her name was Heidi) that thought her depression stemmed from not getting a hogwarts acceptance letter… I wish I was making that up. >
  
  I get ya. But if one takes a more nuanced point of view, I could say the reason she felt it was traumatic was her possibly having an undiagnosed mental health condition. I’m not saying you are wrong, I’m just saying I’d think of it that way.