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  One niggle I have with that is that bi women get attacked physically more often than lesbians. Straight male partners can treat bi women horribly, because they project and feel emasculated as men since "their woman" might choose another woman over them, they're losing to someone who "doesn't even have a dick". 
  Same goes for other way around, bi woman dating with a lesbian often runs into ugly stereotyping and paranoid suspicions.
  You can find statistics about this in reported crimes.
context: why is everyone so focused on what a woman is and not what a man is? 
  - no one cares about transmen in mens sports
  - no hoopla over transmen in mens bathrooms
  -no fuss over drag kings doing story time >
  
  My theory is it's because transmen don't confront homophobic bros with uncomfortable feelings. >
  
  I have this running theory that all homophobia/transphobia are extensions of misogyny.
  In this theory transmen are harmless and ignorable because they will never be "real" men just women playing dress up (isn't that cute? pat, pat). >
  
  That's an interesting theory; you may have something there >
  
  OP is mostly right, I'm going to write a response to them.