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  With my ex, we never did anything  together. And when. He was gone I felt so peaceful and relaxed. I used to think it was because  I was introverted or something. Turns out I'm  not as much as I thought. We just really  didn't  like eachother 😂
  Not saying that's the case with you. Just made me think lol.
context: I like my girlfriend more than I like anyone else, so would rather do stuff with her than anyone else. But yeah, if you can't not do stuff together then its a bit odd >
  
  It's not super odd to me, but just inefficient from a household perspective. I like that my wife and I cover different bases. We make a much better team this way IMO >
  
  Enjoying their company and needing their company to function are two very different things.
  If you feel that you need your partner present to enjoy things, that's codependency, and that's bad. >
  
  This.
  But a lot of people argue it's unhealthy period, even when the couple prefers to do everything together, because they genuinely enjoy eachother's company and would rather be together than apart. >
  
  Because a lot of people view that as codependency, and a lot of people like to offer their unsolicited opinions on shit they have no context to. >
  
  Yeah a lot of people like to play armchair psychologists nowadays lol >
  
  To each their own, I know from previous relationships that I while I like doing things together, I still like having my own private time. >
  
  And that's  what you should have because  that's  what you like. 
  Other people prefer their loved ones company. And if they both are in agreement, then they shouldn't be judged or told they're toxic because  of it. >
  
  As others said, it's mainly because it's a codependency type thing, like they need each others company to have fun. My fiancee and I do just about everything together, however we don't need each other to have fun, we can have fun on our own. >
  
  I understand  that. But I find the assumption  that you're  codependent annoying. So many times people just outright hate on couples who say they do everything  together. >
  
  Sounds like the haters are jealous TBH but sometimes couples can just be obnoxious about constantly publically stating how much they're in love with each other and this usually gives me red flags. >
  
  Having a preference to spend all of your social and leisure time in your partners presence is pretty standard during the initial phase of a relationship but if it goes too far you'll end up being unable to separate your own identities. To your mates you become youANDthem. Never just you because it's never just you. Nurturing and growing yourself with activities and hobbies you enjoy is as important as engaging in shared interests and hobbies. Trust me. 19 years and still going with my man. >
  
  It's common to learn some terms that get used within psychology to refer to specific behaviors done to certain degrees and then very liberally apply those terms to things you don't like. 
  Enjoying more quality time together than you would feel comfortable with, does not make a couple enmeshed. Even if they work together or largely share the same friends group. I'm inclined to agree, armchair psychologists on the internet need to touch grass. >
  
  I think couple’s dynamics vary greatly. I enjoy doing everything with my partner! Other couples need their space and alone time. >
  
  I also enjoy it. I can think of very few things that I find more enjoyable without my partner, than with him. He just makes every little thing more exciting. >
  
  Same. It’s also how I know I made the right choice. >
  
  There’s nothing wrong with doing everything with your partner but you shouldn’t NEED to do everything with your partner. You should be able to exist and create your own happiness outside of your relationship. >
  
  I do just about everything with my wife. Not bc I need to know everything she does, but bc I want to enjoy thing / experiences with my best friend. >
  
  Exactly!! This is what I'm  talking about. I know a lot of perfectly  healthy couples that simply choose to involve their partner, because they enjoy it. >
  
  I agree. My husband and I do everything together because we are best friends and all of our friends are usually mutual friends at this point. >
  
  Exactly! >
  
  You are asking for trouble.... perhaps you two have different jobs at the least? >
  
  Ngl, couples like that scare me but more from a "Damn how do you hang around someone that long and not get tired of it?"
  Then again I'm an introvert. Like I love my partner when I do have one, but it does get to a point where I just want to be by myself. Not as in "We're in the same room but not talking" kind of by myself, but one where I'm literally the only one there.