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context: You create the one. >
  
  Huh, so simple but really well said. >
  
  how would you know if you've never met your one? >
  
  That's my whole point lol. It is possible to meet someone you're compatible with, but there's no such thing as only having one person who you're ultimately destined to be with. When you meet someone you're compatible with, it's up to the both of you to make the relationship work. This involves communication, compromise, forgiveness, and true effort. Even the best relationships mean doing all of these things. This is possible with more than one person, lol the notion that destiny is waiting to put two people together is just so fantastical I can't make myself believe it anymore. My best relationship failed because of her chasing some ideal perfection that simply does not exist >
  
  I think that is incorrect because if you truly believe that you found “the one” nobody else is going to interest you, and both of you will not plan on being with anyone else. Personally, if i found someone i was super compatible with, I would not desire anyone else. >
  
  This is the unpopular opinion sub. 
  That being said I think you're missing my point completely. Agree to disagree and enjoy your day >
  
  I’m married to my “the one”, but we still bicker and argue - even though never anything serious.
  The thing is, we agree on all important stuff - as food choices, family decisions and financial habits. 
  Finding “the one” doesn’t mean he/she is a clone  of you. You’ll still have disagreements, but if you cannot imaging your life without them - it’s “the one”. 
  I have never had multiple “ones”, I don’t even think that’s true. When I met my wife I knew immediately. >
  
  Yeah, the whole romantic comedy “soulmate” thing really wrecked a couple of generations. >
  
  I actually genuinely think there is 'the one' for everybody out there. I'm not even a romantic, I just think that, with almost 8 billion people out there, there's gotta be at least one person who complements you perfectly. Nobody's ever gonna meet their 'one', but I believe they're out there somewhere.