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context: It's hard to sustain a level of humility when you base your entire worth off of social media clout. 
  Humble means don't get you likes. >
  
  You worded it better than I was trying to.
  I mean nowadays people will think youre boring or lame for being humble, I feel. Like they could swipe to a better or cooler person, youre a time waster or some shit. >
  
  Humility is still prized in long term friendships. Very highly. It’s price of admission for stable marriages too — right up there with communication skills and ability to compromise. 
  Being a brash, overly confident asshole gets old quickly. >
  
  I don't get what you're saying. Like in media you don't hear people say "he or she is humble?" Or like people in general aren't humble anymore? >
  
  I think u grew up with that and a lot of other kids when u were younger did not .  My grandmother raised me to the best her ability and taught me to be humble and I’m teaching my son that but far has my neighbors go i have no idea what values they instill in there children I can only try to teach mine and He pass that on to his and so on and so forth .  My point is just because u were raised with that specific trait to be humble doesn’t mean others when raised with what ur family thought that was important. To other family’s intelligence is all that matters or money . Being humble will and is still is a valuable trait just not to everyone. >
  
  Being humble is valued. It’s just not called that. People say down to earth or cool. Also, being a douche or asshole, the opposite, is reviled. Yes, it’s rewarded (still gets attention) but is ultimately bad for people. >
  
  Yeah feel it just let's others take credit easier for the shit you do.