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  Jesus, I was worried that my gf preferred a different restaurant than the one we ended up at. 
  Your still considering a BJ even after this dude didn’t shower?
context: Is this unpopular??? I feel like it's basic knowledge >
  
  There are a shocking number of men who are under the impression that cleaning their ass makes them gay, and that their "manly musk" is somehow going to attract a woman. >
  
  The whole “natural scent” is a thing. Sort of. Obviously there are people who are attracted to the smell of feces, sweat, and other unsavory aromas, but those people are few and far between. However, using colognes and perfumes does mask one’s true natural scent. Think of pheromones. >
  
  I think you are misunderstanding my comment. I'm not saying natural scent isn't real, I'm saying these men think their filth is the same as pheromones. >
  
  I think you misread my reply because I covered my understanding of your initial meaning. But thanks. >
  
  👍 >
  
  For a lot of the guys I’ve heard from on Reddit, they expect them despite terrible oral performance (or none) on her. 
  I wouldn’t expect my wife to go down on me if I’m not going down on her. We don’t keep score, but we try to keep it pretty even. >
  
  Gotta go down on your wife like Pac-man. Like a fucking gentleman >
  
  Its called r/unpopular not r/popular >
  
  Why on earth would this be an unpopular opinion? Clean your shit up, men. (Literally I guess in some cases) >
  
  It always baffles me how people don’t automatically go to the shower to wash before oral sex. 
  If my partner wanted to give me oral sex I’d be 2 mins in the shower. Literally all it takes is 2 minutes to wash. >
  
  I think you’re being a little ridiculous. 
  Yes, be clean. Absolutely. 
  But in a hookup situation, where a bathroom, much less a f’cking shower, wouldn’t be available… you’re acting like a little musk (not piss, not shit… (your ex was gross)… musk, as in sweat) is going to kill you. >
  
  As per other commenters, I'd go as far as if guys don't give head they shouldn't expect it. Unless it's being made up for in some way. I feel like porn made people think that's the standard thing. >
  
  And this is why amateur porn is far superior than mainstream stuff. >
  
  OP you're hanging with the wrong dudes. Any human person doesn't think this is unpopular. >
  
  Fully agree. Same for women. >
  
  You’re not entirely wrong but it is different for women. It’s not as simple as scrubbing an external body part with soap. >
  
  While I don't have a penis, I have washed my vagina probably 12k times if I mathed right. It is not overly difficult to keep clean. Though it may not be that way for everyone. >
  
  it's not, unfortunately. lots of women have problems with their PH being thrown off easily - which can cause UTI's, yeast infection, foul smelling discharge, bacterial vaginosis etc. It's not hard to throw off PH either. Can be done by using too harsh of a soap, having a new sexual partner/unprotected sex, semen, and tight clothing. >
  
  You shouldnt use soap anyway. Your eating habits also change the ph, and a lot of people dont eat well >
  
  How is an unpopular opinion??? >
  
  I think all genders can get caught up in reciprocity, but aren’t always open to the truth about why it’s not happening. >
  
  Thanks for those words,but please explain why bad hygiene will prevent you from getting blow jobs is an unpopular opinion >
  
  To clarify, I think standards for hygiene are different, right? Most guys to my knowledge don’t wipe, they shake (makes sense for convenience/time). But a lot of them don’t think of this before sex and wonder why they’re not getting what they’d hoped for. >
  
  You need to check yourself with the most guys don’t wipe angle, how are you making this claim?  What repugnant motherfuckers do too I know 🤣🤣 >
  
  Who does this? 
  Ugh. >
  
  Cracks me up the people asking if this is actually a problem. Just going to a Walmart should tell you a lack of good hygeine is not uncommon. If you sincerely wonder if this is actually a problem, you probably aren't getting out much.  A good question would be what % of women are there that would actually pull the plug on even doing it.  I bet a lot just suffer through it to not ruin the mood or to not hurt his feelings. Regardless, I would love to see that "hell no" go down, pun intended. Haha >
  
  Happy cake day! And yeah you’re completely right, people are very often stanky. >
  
  Cleaning your penis with water and then using a paper tissue to dry it off everytime you take a piss is something everyone guy should do. But many guys don't. >
  
  Yeah for sure i make sure to wash mine in the sink every time i pee. >
  
  Damn how can people not wipe? >
  
  He meant wiping the tip, not the ass >
  
  I’m guessing they meant not wiping the ass properly.  I use water and wipe till I don’t see anything; or I try to shit before a shower.  I imagine if a guy just wipes with paper a couple times and expects a bunch, that are is going to be gag inducing >
  
  I don’t think this is unpopular ? >
  
  I mean, I can only speak on my experience with the other side of the equation. People should take care of their crotches regardless of gender. If you’re not sure if you got that stank-stank, take and a hand or finger and explore. Then take a whiff. If YOU wouldn’t put your mouth on that, why the hell would you expect someone else to? >
  
  Not an unpopular opinion.
  Try again >
  
  The beauty of life and free will is that you can be upset at anything you want for any reason you want. >
  
  Idk, there’s something about man musk 🥴 Not stank ass though >
  
  Not unpopular. >
  
  I had a guy who had the nerve to pee and then ask me to suck him off. I had to grab and wet the toilet paper and hand it to him to wipe himself off and I told him to get a condom or get out of face because hell nah. 
  They literally act like children. >
  
  The downvotes will come in droves but this is so true FOR EVERY GENDER!!!!! Lol >
  
  Downvoting for being a common sense popular opinion.  This goes for women too, wash’s your ass people, no one wants to go down on some person smelling like a swamp🤮 >
  
  Meant the tip, not the ass. >
  
  Praise allah, lol >
  
  Repeat that again for the motherfuckers in the back. >
  
  Let's be real here: genitals weren't meant to be put in mouths but it's fun.  Let's just not kid ourselves when it smells bad what we're really doing. >
  
  Right.  Manscape it and clean it >
  
  I never understood how men went without basic hygiene. Woman too, not all you ladies be cleaning right. It’s simple, 5 minute shower. Clean it all up and get out. 🤷‍♂️ >
  
  I watched my ex as he got out of the shower, and he folded his towel lengthwise, put it in between his legs and started flossing his ass to dry it off. He pulled out the towel and the whole fucking edge turned brown. I gagged so hard wtf >
  
  Ooh that is nasty, how do you even manage to have that much unwiped shit down there anyway let alone after showering. I’m glad he’s an ex. >
  
  same deal for cunnilingus. nasty cooters are the worst. sometimes you never know what's gonna ooze on outta there. >
  
  I have heard the term “clitty litter,” and I appreciated it greatly. >
  
  I won’t even suck off my partner even with proper hygiene down there >
  
  Here in the US there's a huge stigma about uncut dudes being dirty. 
  At least with an uncut dude it's pretty obvious he has bad hygiene, much less so with mutilated ones. >
  
  Also wear a mask so you can clean the microscopic fauna from your lungs. Maybe have some sweeteners in your food so we kill the microscopic fauna inside your intestines too… Oh wait a minute we haven’t researched that much yet… 
  Ok real talk though, definitely clean your butthole, armpits, entire groin, feet aandnelly button if you’re feeling generous. Because I actually feel like these microscopic bacteria making us smell are actually not important. Funny if we found out one day that they weee though. >
  
  Just a matter of common courtesy >
  
  Doesn't pass the smell check ✅
  If there is even a smell check ✅
  Why would there need to be a smell check ✅ >
  
  if this is unpopular then we are all idiots haha. >
  
  Ok I keep seeing posts like this. Do guys just smell like shit these days? I've only ever been told I smell good or not at all. How the fuck are grown men gonna literally take a shit and be so homophobic they won't touch their own asshole with toilet paper or wet wipes? Just get the fucking shit off your body bro. Scrub your pits. Do laundry. All that combined takes 2 minutes. >
  
  Same goes for women. >
  
  Thats common sense, no ??