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  Sure if you wanna see it that way. I don't have anything against people who are nice, in fact I think we need more people who are genuinely kind in the world. I just can't find it in me to respect people who claim to be "too nice" when in reality they're just doormats
context: What is not 'toxic' on Reddit? That's my question. >
  
  I’m more than leaning towards deleting Reddit along with all my social media. I know it has its benefits and all but social media has bought out the absolute worst in humans- myself included. >
  
  I'm not a fan of the toxic descriptor here.  People who are 'too nice,'  or as a psychologist would say 'too agreeable,' mostly hurts themselves.  Deferring too much to others is definitely an impediment to these in peolpes' relationships, growth, and fulfillment of goals. >
  
  I believe it's harmful to all parties involved. I think it's a mindset that should be actively discouraged and not just when someone who is looking to exploit this trait comes into frame >
  
  ITT: Someone trying to justify being an asshole and making nice people get all the blame because some "nice guy" probably cheated on them or went nuts.