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  “You can’t necessarily judge someone in only a few messages” I disagree if I’m talking to someone and they’re dry af then the judgement is I don’t enjoy talking to them and then I leave even if we only sent a few messages. Also you thinking people need to meet in real life to really see if you’re compatible isn’t necessary for everyone. For me I would prefer to get to know them online and if I really like them then I want to meet them in real life. I feel like meeting someone in real life before I get to know them online is just a waste of time and money. Getting to know someone online then deciding to meet up saves time. Plus if a guy’s shitty online I can just block them and move on in real life it’s not that easy. Plus I also want to get to know them before leaving to determine if they’re safe enough to meet. Because even if you meet in a public place it can still be dangerous
context: It’s purely a numbers game, it would be impossible to meet everyone and go on a date with every person who matches on a dating app. 
  But I think the general idea is that within a few messages you get an idea about a person and then it could move on from there. 
  Granted during this process some perfectly well matched couples will never actually meet. 
  But then the same could be said about meeting someone in a bar. If they don’t happen to be in the bar the same night as you then you’ll never actually meet them. >
  
  If you ask the right questions you can get a figure for what someone may be inclined to, but I agree that it isn't all encompassing
  I can't vibe with swipe culture. Can't get a real connection that I need.