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  Being held or hugged from behind is one of the few things that make me feel safe and that's pretty much the most precious feeling there is
context: 50-50, sharing is caring, and we both gotta roll over in the middle of the night. Both comfy. >
  
  
  I'm usually a larger human than the average woman. So it's not like it keeps me warm. It would be more beneficial for the woman to be the big spoon since it would be warmer for her
  
  In this case she isn't the "big spoon", she's the "backpack". >
  
  awesome >
  
  This is an incredibly common opinion. Next you'll say you love it when you have your head in her lap or she's rubbing/scratching it. >
  
  No it's not, it's quite generally accepted that the man is usually the big spoon. >
  
  I mean it is generally accepted and expected and I think a lot of women kind of like aspects of it that way, but the same as with like 'being open with your emotions and feelings' or whatever,  people will say theyre okay with it and plenty of guys say they would, but in actuality it doesnt always work out that way.  And it being common doesnt mean its all guys, there are plenty of guys who like to be traditionally masculine.
  Its common for guys to think this way, is what Im saying. Even in this thread, the guys are saying they like it and its common but in reality it tends to be 50-50, because its more natural to just occur that way but also because of what each person wants at the time or whatever. >
  
  I prefer being big spoon because of boob grabbing opportunities. >
  
  Little spoon can reach back and grab booty tho >
  
  It's like frontal hugs vs. behind the back hugs. The latter is more rare but it's still awesome when they happen. >
  
  It's only unpopular with alpha chads. I think most guys like it. Plus boobs pressed on your back is comfy. >
  
  I prefer to spoon my husband