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The guys that take it non-platonically are projecting. This is what they do when they want to hit on someone. So they assume that's what the woman is doing. 
Plenty of guys accept compliments with grace and don't assume anything more.
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Normalize being nice to men so that they can normalize having people be nice to them >

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