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OP,
I see recent post history that indicates you are thinking about killing yourself. I would like to urge you to take that option off of the table. Under normal circumstances I would urge you to stay in the college you are in and finish, but if are things are that dire it may not be a bad idea to take a break. I have no idea where you live, but I would urge you to take a walk in a park near you if there is one available. Large park, small park, doesn't really matter so long as there is something green there. Go look at some birds, go look at some bugs crawling across the bark of a tree... take a minute to think and put things into perspective. I can promise you your problems are temporary. If you had your degree today and were out on your own with a stable job of your own and dating prospects would you be in a better place? You can take steps today to make that tomorrow.
Good luck and I will leave it to others who have been in a similar place to help.
Do you have a therapist you can go to? Because it sounds like you could really benefit from the help of a professional here. >

I deleted it decided to make it again to get more views tbh >

Finances are ok and I’m a dependent so I can’t go completely NC with them
If I don’t move, it might improve after a couple months maybe bc my parents won’t be here bc I will have my dorm but then again they might also want to be with me because I’m emotionally unstable (kek they have no ideas they’re the problem). I feel jaded here already and I literally do not have the willpower to study here or even live no matter the consequences bc of the prior abuse I went through and how they could fuck up my college life in an instant especially when I was a freshman and my sister could’ve outed me the instant she sees me wearing pride pin. 
So short answer it’s basically impossible. Long answer it’s complicated but too tangled with trauma in order to consider studying here
I already have my own phone number. And they’ve already given me the silent treatment on my birthday too bc of that. They know I have a new phone but don’t know about the plan. If they do my dad will ask for money to pay off the family plan bc i have a phone under the family plan and that’ll just amplify the silent treatment I’m getting >

What are you arguing against. You start with “trying to transfer…” and end with “transferring is BS” >

Staying put
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I think you could change your own view by scrolling your post history. Dude you’re a serious threat to yourself. 
I’m not sure if moving will help that. I think you need to find a way to get serious help. >

Well you are already in college and have a scholarship and it sounds like you've been there atleast  a year so I would just focus on graduating and getting a good job so you can become financially independent as soon as possible. That's really the only way you are actually going to be able to get out from under your parents. 
In the mean time if you currently live with your parents it's probably a good idea to move out. If you are in a college town there will definitely be people looking for roommates at the lowest prices you are ever going to find. Suck it up and get a part time job and take on some debt if they won't help you pay for it. 
Plenty of ways to get out of the city on breaks and summers to if you need to avoid them. >

As someone who transferred colleges, I think it certainly was the right choice for me. Based only on the info in your post, I do not know you, I think you should go for it, based on one line in your post.

And I’m literally becoming more mentally unstable the more days I study here.

This will not get better. Your mental health is going to stick with you far more than anything else, it will define your time in college. You say you need to try harder to join clubs and meet new people? Very hard with poor mental health. You want to study hard and get a high paying job? Much harder with poor mental health. And the happiness that comes from both of those things is also often ruined by poor mental health.
Transferring colleges for me was a mental reset. I went from a place where my family wanted me to go to a place I was actually excited to be. I felt more motivated, I felt like I could do all the things I messed up at my last school. It was freeing.
Maybe your situation isn't as bad as I think. But if you want to stay at your current school only because it's stable/rational, consider how stable you mental health will be and how rational it is to stay in a place where you know you are not happy. >

You're an adult, right?  Can't you just tell your family to stay away, and threaten to file a restraining order if they don't? >

This post is very difficult to understand what is happening. I can understand being in a very upset and that turning into a stream of conscious rant as feeling spill out. But before making a major decision like this, I think it would be a very good idea to stop, really think, and weigh some options here. 
I think in making a decision like this we should look at the positives of your current university vs the negatives. Additionally we should consider how many of those negatives can be minimized vs and the positives can be improved upon. Putting together this kind of plan CAN give you some re-assurance and alleviate some of your stress/anxiety surrounding the panic of feeling unsure about what to do. 
From the post it sounds like the biggest reason to change schools is to get away from your family. Are you living with them? If so, would moving out resolve most of your problems? Could cutting them out do that? 
Changing universities for a club probably isn't a very good idea. I understand you may have a specific interest, but maybe opening your horizon to other interests could help you meet new friends and find new hobbies. This will be a valuable lesson post college.
You discuss a CS major. Sure, that MIGHT be a great avenue for success. But it's not the only one. There are many career paths that can lead you to financial stability or even an upper middle class life. (If you can escape college with very little debt this is easier)
For example accounting. If you get a job in public accounting, you will likely have to work hard during the busy season(s) but the potential for very high pay is better than most engineering degrees. 
It sounds like you're forcing yourself into a career path to seek a dream you currently don't care about. I think that's a struggle a lot of people have, and only realize how much they want a stable life after they've started a career and are struggling.
I think actually writing out some thoughts on your own might help you to get your ideas collected because right now I'm imagining you're feeling a bit overhead and your brain is just chaos.