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In our religion and culture, milk, milk products and cows are seen as sacred

Cows. Cows are female. Bulls/steer are male.
Have you ever looked up what Hindus do to male calves? They can't be milked and they're expensive to feed. They are not living out happy lives of leisure in green pastures. They are generally slaughtered or even worse...die of starvation/dehydration. The way Hindus treat many male calves is illegal in the USA.
If you have a moral objection to how western dairies treat animals, you definitely have a problem with the Hindi as well.
If you're ok drinking Hindi raised milk, it seems like you should be ok drinking western raised milk too. >

There is no veal industry in the US. To the point that we import our rennet for cheese making (it is a byproduct of the veal industry) from other countries.
Cattle are raised for several years before butchering. >

A lot of dairy calves do get used for veal. Otherwise you have to pay someone to bottle-feed them until weaning age, and that's a bit labor-intensive. >

This is pretty area dependent. In the US there's not much of a demand for veal and most male dairy calves are raised for beef. Veal calves tend to be raised to 16-18 weeks instead of 12-18 months for dairy beef cows but most dairy calves will be transitioned from milk or milk replacer to solid foods before that age. Other western countries have bigger veal markets or different husbandry practices. >

what's wrong with veal? there are too many males to grow them all into beeves so you slaughter them for veal. We need a lot more female cows for milk and reproduction than we need males. what do you suggest we do with millions of extra male bulls? i'm sure you you'd love to pay for the feed, medicine, pasture, vet checks, branding, herding, watering, and shipping? >

we don’t believe in killing male cows either >

there are no male cows. you make 0 sense >

Come on, he clearly means a male bovine. >

then say so, not my fault he contradicted himself. >

Sometimes people make typos or confuse related words, and OP may not even be native in english. My native language has the same word for cow and bovine.
I think it's clear to you too that he meant "male bovine" with "male cow", and I don't quite understand why you replied the way you did. 
You're basically derailing your own conversation with this. >

if he means male, he shouldnt say cow. idk why you make a big deal of me telling him hes wrong >

It's an unintentional mistake and it's absolutely clear from context what he meant. I really don't understand why you are doing this. >

Realistically, even farms in Hindi-majority areas are faced with the reality of either slaughtering or abandoning cattle.  You can used sexed semen to greatly bias the birth of calves so most of them are female but even so 1. some will still be male 2. Cows will produce a calf every year and can live for quite a while, but farms don't forever increase in size to accommodate an exponentially growing number of cattle. Either you cull the older cows (and in intensive operations they tend not to get that old) as they start to make less milk or you cull the younger calves who don't produce as much. >

While I haven't heavily dug into those slaughter free farms, let me burst your bubble here.
A slaughter free farm just means THEY don't do it. But these farms cannot grow exponentially as would happen if they kept them all.
For the Cows they cannot keep due to size constraints, they first try to find another dairy farm. If they can't find that, off they go to become Heffers. And for male calves. Steers. All of them become steers. This is unless they need a new younger bull. They might keep 1 or 2 around for genetic diversity. 
So your wonderful no slaughter farms still send off the majority of their cattle to become Heffers and Steers once they are off milk and able to eat grass and hay. >

Are you sure? Please check the links further >

None of these seem to explain what they do with all thr bulls that are going to live for the next 20 YEARS . Even with the tech we have today you would expect around 30% of births to be male. Eventually you are going to have dozens of males just chilling around doing nothing. And since none of them seem to mention them. And seem to have dozens of cows but just mention a couple bulls? Makes one think.