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You said we should help them, but what is the actual proposed solution though? So many men are lonely, those we can help them by teaching them how to be more social and form more bonds etc if they are willing.
But the ones that say that are lonely because they can't get dates, they're lonely for one type of company only. What can be done about those? If no one wants to get in a relationship with such a person? What can be done?
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There are two ways to approach doing something about the fact that women get more dates than men, and there are increasing numbers of men struggling to find relationships.

Inequality/fairness-centered. "It's unfair that women have more than men." "We need to make things more fair." In extreme forms, this could even involve looking for someone to blame for this perceived injustice - "alpha males", or evolutionary psychology, or feminists. 
Utilitarian perspective. "People, particularly men, are lonelier now than in the past. This is sad. Can we work to address the problem?" This approach involves noticing when life has gotten worse for some portion of society and wanting to fix that.

Perspective #1 might lead someone to try to reduce womens' choice, or shame them, in order to help men. I won't try to convince you to adopt perspective #1.
But perspective #2 is something any feminist should support. We should all want to help people, men or women. Right now, for example, many women face sexual harassment and violence, toxic gender roles, etc. We should help them by making our society more feminist. Likewise, many men face toxic ideas about masculinity (e.g., boys grow up being shamed for crying or talking about their feelings or not having enough sex or being queer or experiencing sexual violence). We should help them, too!
And similarly, if an increasing number of men are lonely, we should seek to understand why and how we can address that loneliness. Not by shaming or harming women, of course! Both men and women are human beings who deserve our care.