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I mean everyone knew er was a slur but black people took it and made ga to turn it into something different just because black rappers are saying it doesn't mean their non black fans should say it know what I mean?
I agree but sadly this isn't a good society
I reverse card UNO your argument: it's not uncommon that asians people are called by offensive slurs (and it's not rare that people don't even realise it) therefore if a black person use one then does it give the right for the asian people to use racial slurs again?  Or if you use a gay slur in front of LGBT people, can they use the N word?
Isn't it a very childish way to behave? like "but mum he started it!" 
Wouldn't it be better if actually nobody used racial slurs at all? >

Obviously it would be better if nobody Said racial slurs but this isn't a perfect world also I mean in the context of the ga word people say It cause according to then its not a slur >

I think all these contradictions come about because society is caught in a weird definition of slur that requires the identity of the person using the word to determine whether it's a slur or not. So we have Black rappers using the Nword nonstop but if their non-Black fans use the word while singing along it's suddenly a slur. Same with gay people and the F word.
It would be so much better and more healthy for society if we simply treated everyone the same and defined certain words as slurs that either nobody should be allowed to use or everyone should be allowed to use.
If we adopted the above none of these weird conversations would need to take place.