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What's absurd is spending thousands on that shit. How many of these did you go to and how much did they each cost?
Divorces can be expensive so they most likely won’t be able to pay everyone back >

Rather than pay everyone back i think it should be considered socially acceptable not to turn up to the next wedding or financially support it in any way. >

How about don't go to the first one >

Already doing that for my cousin lmfao