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Agree, I'd had "friends" like that before, they're just toxic and use that as an excuse to be assholes
This is unpopular but in general I agree. If the personality trait you claim to have is conditional to the response you get then it's shallow. >

It's sort of like people who complain that no one says "thank you" when they hold the door for them. Like, yeah, it's nice to hold the door for someone, but if you're only doing it to get some sort of accolade then it stops being a nice gesture.