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honestly i think those people might need therapy because fantasising about things like that doesn’t sound too healthy. they could also be saying it to seem tough but idk
This is unpopular but in general I agree. If the personality trait you claim to have is conditional to the response you get then it's shallow. >

It's sort of like people who complain that no one says "thank you" when they hold the door for them. Like, yeah, it's nice to hold the door for someone, but if you're only doing it to get some sort of accolade then it stops being a nice gesture. >

Agree, I'd had "friends" like that before, they're just toxic and use that as an excuse to be assholes >

Probably not that nasty either, just a bit of a tit >

They'll always be like "I go for the throat!" and then they'll just call you fat. >

Nice people don't threaten you.  
If their first interaction with you is imposing a limit on your personal will, they are not a good person.  That's the end of your interactions with them. >

Given that they start off with a threat, no they're not.
It like how anybody that claims to be an "alpha" is the furthest thing from actually being an "alpha."
If you've got to boast, you're not badass. >

It didnt start of with a threat. >

As someone said: "Kindness should come with an iron fist". When you're too kind, I may get exploited. So you should know how to protect your kindness. >

Those people just make me feel secondhand embarassment. Like oooh yes Brad you're such a badass nobody will ever think about crossing you >

Lol yeah, they want to sound “tough”, but it’s cringeworthy as hell >

If a person has to qualify their boundaries by stating there will be a punishment then they are trying to exercise control. So I agree. Not sure this is unpopular. >

They are not people you want around. Closed minds unable to rationally talk about anything they don't agree with. They only want people near them that agree completely and are asking you to be that person. No way. >

I used to see people say that on Instagram a lot, they're so stupid >

Reminds me of people who say they are really honest.
No, you’re just a jerk. >

If you have to say how X you are at something, you probably ain’t it. >

Yes an ex said, “I don’t start fights, but I finish them.” He started them >

I find that just in general, if you feel the need to constantly tell me/others how nice you are, your not a nice person. >

Then who is truly nice for you? I don't see the point of this...