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You need a better co participant
Cuddles, sex, more cuddles, this is the way.
Currently in a situation where I can't cuddle, along with many other things, and that's the worst can't of them all. >

I think cuddling is a wonderful addition to sex >

I'll be totally honest, for me sex is a wonderful addition to cuddles. Sometimes. I'll do cuddles any day any time and sometimes in between cuddles I would also like to add sex to it. >

I find cuddling more intimate than sex tbh. >

People will go fuck random strangers. How many people will cuddle random strangers (without fucking first)? >

Both, both is good. Especially when is cuddles -> sex -> cuddles. Like a dopamine sandwich >

Is it an either/or question? Sex is great. Horny cuddles with a lot of grinding on each other, kissing, ear bites, which may or may not lead to sex is great. “Normal” I-Just-Want-Physical-Contact-cuddles is also great. Ok maybe I just like physical intimacy very much. >

I think “horny cuddles” as you describe count as foreplay not cuddling. Look at all the levels of intimacy we are discovering LOL. >

I don't have sex without cuddling it is a staple >

Both serve as a means for intimacy, but it's comparing apples to oranges. Ones sexually driven, the other a bit more emotionally driven. Sex feels good for different reasons than cuddling. I like both lol >

I like your reply and feel
Like it’s spot on. It’s like driving a car versus walking, both make you move in a direction but are vastly different. Never had a single incident of walking rage under my belt LOL. >

Lmao! Walking Rage I love it! >

I always enjoy morning cuddling where I keep jabbing her in the back with my boner until she either tells me to knock it off or gives in. >

got damn >

I think cuddling is a lot better than sex when you don't want sex, but sex is better when you do want sex. Hmmmm, yep >

Even if that were true, the best cuddles, the top of the top, is naked cuddles after sex. 
It’s like saying the best part of a peanut butter and jelly sandwich is the jelly. >

I dont find them to be comparable to PB and j at all. I think for me at least they should be separated. >

Same. If I had to give up one of them for the rest of my life I would give up sex. Sex is great and all, but cuddling is sooo much better. >

I agree. Everything is about sex and ONS..so boring... Cuddling is much better >

Have you ever tried to do both? >

I prefer cuddling and don’t really like sex >

🙏🙏🙏 >

I think I just found my wife’s Reddit account ffs. >

I am a guy. Who I guess has something in common with your wife. Does she also skateboard and do psychedelics? >

It’s pretty much synonymous for me. >

I prefer cuddles with someone I love than sex with someone I tolerate if I had to choose. >

10000% agree, cuddling will always be superior to me >

Not unpopular dude >

Among men, it's very unpopular. >

No not really >

Yes really lmfao, men typically value sex more while women typically value emotional connection more, cuddling leads much more into emotional connection, not sure where your getting your facts from lol >

I also cuddle with like all my friends. As long as their ok with it. I just find that sort of physical affection very nice and I see it as proof that our bond as friends is strong enough to cuddle without any sexual desires involved >

If you are a guy I would recommend speaking to your doctor about treatment for low testosterone. >

I do really like sex. I just dont find it as enjoyable as the warm embrace of another person. Also I have plenty high testosterone because I need to shave quite often and my muscular distribution is indicative of high testosterone >

I like cuddling while his D is still in me >

Get your hormones in check >

LMAO >

You might have atypical personality if you prefer cuddling INSTEAD of sex. >

What is an “atypical personality”? >

Not their idea of normal >

If you are a girl this is not an unpopular opinion probably >

Kudos for being able to cuddle. Whenever we cuddle we end up fucking anyways lmao >

I miss both. >

You need a better co participant >

I find them to be like apples and oranges both are excellent. Will say you can cuddle a lot more often than have sex so that is a major plus >

I agree OP. Sex is like 30min to an hour of the day meanwhile, if we are spending the whole day together, we will be cuddling like 50% of it.
So if I HAD to give up one, it’d be the sex. Luckily I can have both (: >

Sounds like you’re a women who has been married about four years ? >

Cuddles, sex, more cuddles, this is the way.
Currently in a situation where I can't cuddle, along with many other things, and that's the worst can't of them all. >

How so? >

I think cuddling is a wonderful addition to sex >

I'll be totally honest, for me sex is a wonderful addition to cuddles. Sometimes. I'll do cuddles any day any time and sometimes in between cuddles I would also like to add sex to it. >

Is it an either/or question? Sex is great. Horny cuddles with a lot of grinding on each other, kissing, ear bites, which may or may not lead to sex is great. “Normal” I-Just-Want-Physical-Contact-cuddles is also great. Ok maybe I just like physical intimacy very much. >

I think “horny cuddles” as you describe count as foreplay not cuddling. Look at all the levels of intimacy we are discovering LOL. >

I find cuddling more intimate than sex tbh. >

People will go fuck random strangers. How many people will cuddle random strangers (without fucking first)? >

Both, both is good. Especially when is cuddles -> sex -> cuddles. Like a dopamine sandwich >

Both serve as a means for intimacy, but it's comparing apples to oranges. Ones sexually driven, the other a bit more emotionally driven. Sex feels good for different reasons than cuddling. I like both lol >

I like your reply and feel
Like it’s spot on. It’s like driving a car versus walking, both make you move in a direction but are vastly different. Never had a single incident of walking rage under my belt LOL. >

Lmao! Walking Rage I love it! >

I don't have sex without cuddling it is a staple >

I think cuddling is a lot better than sex when you don't want sex, but sex is better when you do want sex. Hmmmm, yep >

I always enjoy morning cuddling where I keep jabbing her in the back with my boner until she either tells me to knock it off or gives in. >

got damn >

Even if that were true, the best cuddles, the top of the top, is naked cuddles after sex. 
It’s like saying the best part of a peanut butter and jelly sandwich is the jelly. >

I dont find them to be comparable to PB and j at all. I think for me at least they should be separated. >

Same. If I had to give up one of them for the rest of my life I would give up sex. Sex is great and all, but cuddling is sooo much better. >

I agree. Everything is about sex and ONS..so boring... Cuddling is much better >

Have you ever tried to do both? >

Whenever I cuddle, I get a woodie.  It's great foreplay for me. >

10000% agree, cuddling will always be superior to me >

It’s pretty much synonymous for me. >

I prefer cuddles with someone I love than sex with someone I tolerate if I had to choose. >

Kudos for being able to cuddle. Whenever we cuddle we end up fucking anyways lmao >

I miss both.