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  Maybe that's them trying to seek help, but it just comes out as competition for whose life sucks the most. Maybe instead of letting go of this "friend", see if they need some support with the struggles they are going through. Be the change you want to see kind of thing.
context: I believe that people should support one another, absolutely, but sometimes people get caught up in their own misfortunes and that's okay. I would only cut someone off if they were actively and maliciously not supporting me. >
  
  Agreed. But I don’t wake up & go “hm, who should I compete against today?” like I certain someone I know. I refuse to compete with anyone. Period.