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  I like to pour a bit of vodka into my orange juice, totally changes my morning
context: I agree with you. 
  If we see a person very often, it is difficult for us to see the smaller changes or the steps they took.
  That's why we have to listen to people if they tell us about their struggles and changes instead of half assing it.
  However, in my experience there is one kind of person that downright refuses to change or trying to change: those who really buy into 5he Myers-Briggs crap. "I can't change it, I am a abfh personality!" >
  
  I've literally gotten different results from pouring orange juice instead of apple that morning. Not to mention my behaviour shifts based on my surroundings.