comment: >
  
  Finally someone says something intelligent on this sub.
context: I agree with you. 
  If we see a person very often, it is difficult for us to see the smaller changes or the steps they took.
  That's why we have to listen to people if they tell us about their struggles and changes instead of half assing it.
  However, in my experience there is one kind of person that downright refuses to change or trying to change: those who really buy into 5he Myers-Briggs crap. "I can't change it, I am a abfh personality!" >
  
  I've literally gotten different results from pouring orange juice instead of apple that morning. Not to mention my behaviour shifts based on my surroundings. >
  
  I like to pour a bit of vodka into my orange juice, totally changes my morning >
  
  I used to be a piece of shit; slicked back hair, itty bitty jeans, chicken spaghetti at Chickalini’s, people can change >
  
  I'm worried that the baby thinks people can't change >
  
  People can change, doesn't mean they always do though. Some people do not change. >
  
  Should*
  People should change, if you're the same person now that you where in high school, it's not a flex to be the same person... You should be learning and growing but some ppl domt >
  
  Some people do not need to change. >
  
  people change only if they want to period. >
  
  Agreed. I am no longer a cheater and have not been one for 15 years. >
  
  It’s not that people don’t change. It’s that other peoples perceptions of them likely never will