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  Not really. Children go through developmental stages and sometimes those come with behavioral challenges and big emotions that they don’t have the maturity to have a handle on. Also, it’s probably not good to assume that the behavior of neurotypical children and neurodiverse children are going to 1) be the same AND 2) be reflective of the parents. Also, what about foster children and adopted children? The transition to a new home is hard on a kid, so you would blame their behavior on their brand new parents?
  The list of ways this is a bad take goes on, but TL;DR “A person’s assumptions about a child’s behavior reflecting on that child’s parents, despite knowing nothing about them, is a pretty accurate measurement of how judgmental they are.” is probably a better way to rephrase this.
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