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  Not really.  I enjoy tf out of pleasuring my partner, and the thrusts that feel good for her aren’t always the thrusts that get me there but it’s still enjoyable.
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  "Yeah bro just think of rotting meat or a nest of spiders, it’ll make it way more enjoyable" >
  
  Thinking about Tarzan sliding down vines also does the trick >
  
  I'm sad I understand this reference >
  
  TIFU thread a couple days ago. 
  I can't be bothered to find a link but some dude was high chatting with his roommates and they were talking about strategies to delay the nut. Buddies were all saying things like "just study the wall" and OP tells them he thinks of one specific scene from Tarzan, song and all. 
  Roomies think it's hilarious and start texting him gifs of the scene and blasting the song whenever he's got a girl over.
  EDIT: /u/vkapadia is a bro >
  
  My ex would always be very vocal about wanting it harder and faster, and very kindly asking that that I shouldn't come yet either. 
  Very tricky! >
  
  I was trying to imagine myself getting completely owned and humiliated in a multiplayer video game in order to last longer
  Then after I was actually playing the game and was defeated I started noticing a slight hints of arousal
  I think I got myself a multiplayer humiliation kink >
  
  Fucking Noob >
  
  Thx, got a half-chub
  But you need to beat me in the game to make it further >
  
  Ok pick a number between 0 and 10 >
  
  And isnt a number >
  
  Slow deep breaths make it easier to not orgasm. 
  The opposite is also true, if you are having a hard time climaxing short shallow breaths or hold your breath. >
  
  Staying connected to the breath is key, learning to use it is rewarding >
  
  Something something Hamon, something something JoJo reference. >
  
  Ah so that’s how Joseph did Tomoko >
  
  I imagine getting my arms and legs getting torn off and not being able to kill myself because I am a torso and life is awful >
  
  Now the world is gone, I'm just one >
  
  Oh God help me >
  
  Hold my breath as I wish for death >
  
  cries in Metallica >
  
  Nah. Enjoy it. Drop the first payload. Recharge while diving face first into the breach til the second wave is ready >
  
  Some of us don't have a second wave until the next day >
  
  Fix your diet and exercise. And drink more water. Like, right now, stop what you’re doing and drink water >
  
  Sadly some of us are over 20 years old and already live healthy lives, so that doesn't cut it. >
  
  You can be well over 20 and still get hard several times a night >
  
  And you can also drink lots of water, exercise a lot, eat well, and not. Your body is not the same as someone else's body. >
  
  Well that must suck for them. >
  
  Nah I just get her off before, nut, regroup for round two and blow her socks off. >
  
  More like regroup then make her question why she didn't just use her vibrator instead >
  
  Lmao that’s fair >
  
  "What do you think about the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre?" >
  
  People forget traders need access to Diiiixxxxxooons. >
  
  I wish this were true for me. It just lasts for hours on it's own and I hate it. >
  
  Are you on any medication? SSRI's had this effect on me. >
  
  I am not. I might be wrong, but I've assumed it was a side effect of Fibromyalgia, (as it is accompanied with pain). It isn't always a factor, and I have good and bad days. >
  
  It could also be psychological, maybe worth exploring so that you and your partner can both enjoy the experience. >
  
  I tried all those conversations, lol. She left over a year ago, and I've been too busy for it to be a problem since. Silver lining? >
  
  Silver lining. >
  
  When I was younger, I did multiplication tables in my head if I wanted to prolong things a little longer, which worked for me because I was terrible at math so it required some concentration. 
  The only downside is that I would sometimes yell out "748". or whatever number I happen to be on when I came :D
  Well, the last part isn't true, but the math part is ... >
  
  It's all in the foreplay.
  The penetration is nice, but it's not the end all be all.
  Foreplay gets you in the mood and it can amplify the experience 10 fold if done right.
  Teasing and playing with your partner creates a close connection and is the entry point for the full penetration; making it more meaningful and enjoyable >
  
  The few who are able to keep going after the nut, or after a very brief pause, those are the heroes we should all aspire to be. >
  
  That's usually drugs.
  Cocaine, in particular. >
  
  Have you tried too much pre workout? I took too many doses once because I forgot I already had a bottle and did my workout, showered and my wife had to stop me 4 hours later. I didn’t sleep that night but she slept well for the rest of the night. Not a regular occurrence and I’m no chad for it. Just a fluke.