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  In many parts of the world married couples would live with one of the couple's parents, creating households of 3 or 4 generations.
context: I feel this is why historically people would move away in their young adulthood from their parents
  
  “Historically”, people didn’t move away until they were married ( and sometimes not even then ).  A lot of cultures (outside of America) still practice this. >
  
  I agree, when they were married. Historically people married much younger in their mid to late teens though. Now people are thinking more heavily about this decision. >
  
  You really shouldn’t have to “pick” who comes first if all those relationships are healthy >
  
  Your wife and your kid are both about to die. You can save only one. Who do you save? >
  
  These kind of scenarios are dumb and generally don’t happen in real life. Get your head out of movies and comic books. >
  
  Someone doesn't understand thought experiments. >
  
  Thought experiments are just poor fiction. Fact is that you should be able to give enough attention to your family, your partner (I have a husband) and your kids. You should be able to go to any and all important events surrounding those people and you should all be able to sit at a table and have dinner once in a while as a big family. 
  You shouldn’t have to pick between seeing your parents or seeing your partner. You shouldn’t have to pick between going to your kids recital and going out with your husband (or wife) for dinner because he should also be going to the recital with you. You shouldn’t have to pick between having Sunday dinner with your in laws or your parents because everyone should get along. 
  Everyone (besides the kids) are adults and in healthy relationships you can make time for everyone, you can keep everyone satisfied, and you can have love for everyone. You shouldn’t be having to choose between people all the damn time. That’s not healthy. >
  
  Someone is incapable of understanding situations beyond one's control. >
  
  Ah yes. Because it makes more sense to assume that an adult has never once had a situation beyond their control happen, than it does to understand people have different opinions.