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  "You need to actually add something positive to our life otherwise we'd rather just be without a man"
  This is the overwhelming part, considering women make more and already have companionship, what do I add to a woman's life?
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  "work on improving yourself and being a better person"
  I have no idea how someone could meet those standards
  
  The standards in this rant are not that high. It asks men to have some self improvement (which all people should), and asks them to be respectful. This isnt a high standard. This is the bare minimum (again. Regardless of gender, I wouldnt date a truly disrespectful woman either)
  It doesnt even mention being good looking like what you talk about. I wont pretend being attractive isnt better for someone looking to date regardless of gender, but the actual rant makes no mention of men needing to be a certain appearance or attractiveness. >
  
  "You need to actually add something positive to our life otherwise we'd rather just be without a man"
  This is the overwhelming part, considering women make more and already have companionship, what do I add to a woman's life? >
  
  Do you have hobbies you can introduce her to? Talents? A cool idea that requires two people to perform?
  Adding something positive to a partners life doesnt need to be some world shaking difference. Literally just adding 'warm hugs' is something some people might want, on top of the extra partnership benefits like sharing housework, more income, etc. >
  
  
  Do you have hobbies you can introduce her to? Talents? A cool idea that requires two people to perform?
  
  No, have hobbies I'm interested in but women wouldn't care about. >
  
  Youre sniffing some andrew tate pipeline shit. Shut up. Women are people, and just as varied as men. Any hobby you have, there is 100% chance that a woman has at least an interest in that hobby.
  Are you gonna say girls dont like anime and video games? Not enough girls in the MTG scene? Shut up and start looking. They are there I promise you. I'm not gonna accuse you of liking any fucked up shit, but even if youre into some super sus shit theres a woman thats interested. >
  
  
  Women are people, and just as varied as men. Any hobby you have, there is 100% chance that a woman has at least an interest in that hobby?
  
  Do Women build and enjoy building teams on Madden? Where are the women in my area who enjoy metal detecting? I'm saying from experience that women are not into the things I enjoy. >
  
  Again, stop sniffing that pipe. There are women that would enjoy Madden. Maybe not as much as men, but they exist. And metal dectecting? 
  I guarantee that any decent guy could get at least a first date with a unique line like "Oh yeah, we could walk the beach with a metal detector and see what we find. We'll split the keys and change lol." Or something along those lines. 
  And when I say decent I don't mean a 10/10 super guy. Just a normal, not hugely out of shape guy that has a socially acceptable level of hygiene. Have you read some of the stories on reddit about people who date literal bottom of the barrel trash? Thats the bar. If you can't hit that and be a "decent" guy then you have some problems that arent "womens high standards" >
  
  
  Like I have no idea how someone can meet these standards.
  
  My guy you realize that rant basically just said don't be a dick and provide some sort of positive influence in a woman's life?? That's too high of a bar for you? To be nice and a positive influence? It literally didn't even specify anything specific, they just said provide something like....anything. That's such a low bar.
  
  Women will make more, have friends for companionship, have a vibrator bigger than my dick. Seriously what are guys even doing anymore?
  
  Yikes. Ok so...in order, no they don't, you can be one of those friends too if you're not a dick, and so what? This bit here is very telling on you my guy.
  
  everyone already hates me because I'm a white guy lol
  
  Yikes again. I'm a white dude. Not everybody hates me. Just don't be a dick. Be an ally to marginalized groups. It's really not that hard.