comment: >
  
  Within a week of "hanging out" with my now wife I had to let a huge fart out outside of the bathroom and let her know first.
  It's been 15 years.
context: Yeah you need someone who can accept your garbage but without scaring them off, 
  its a difficult game to play >
  
  it's a game whose difficulty is literally directly tied to if you had the resources in your late teens and early 20s to not fuck yourself up with shit sleep and no time to actually take care of yourself. >
  
  that wouldnt work for men because women can just choose another guy from the 100s of other men that messaged her whereas the guys only get one match every 6 months so men dont have any other options >
  
  Facts, sad but true