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  Ya, in most cases, unless the circumstances are very severe, it's best I believe to maintain your calm, try to be indifferent. 
  An emotional or defiant response would likely  stick with me - no living in my my head rent-free.  I don't need that drama.
  Among other things, like personal safety, etc.
context: I think the opposite, patience and understanding is a virtue but I feel like this isnt as unpopular as you think