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  Would you just give up on that partner after witnessing them at this very low point?
context: Depends on how big their issues are and how much they offload them on you, of course. Some people become horrible people when they're struggling. Or turn to alcohol or drugs and become obnoxious and repetitive. Or turn up at your house at 3am with a 10ft tree they've dug out of the ground and expect you to be happy about the tree, get annoyed that you're not happy about the trail of mud to your door,  or the tree really,  and throw a chair at your computer and break your new speakers.