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  The majority of the time when you're angry at someone, that person does not care. Not even a little bit. Most of the time when you're angry the only thing you're accomplishing is ruining your own day. Don't get me wrong, if someone is making you feel unsafe or being violent sometimes you need to stand up for yourself, but the whole defending your honor thing is ignorant and counterproductive. Telling an asshole they're an asshole is a futile endeavor that only wastes your time. When someone disrespects you, the best response is to ignore them and continue living your life.
context: I think the opposite, patience and understanding is a virtue but I feel like this isnt as unpopular as you think >
  
  Ya, in most cases, unless the circumstances are very severe, it's best I believe to maintain your calm, try to be indifferent. 
  An emotional or defiant response would likely  stick with me - no living in my my head rent-free.  I don't need that drama.
  Among other things, like personal safety, etc.