comment: >
  
  I saw a meme asking us to normalise not bringing up a story about ourselves, in relation to someone telling us something about themselves (and just listening to their story)
  Then I saw a meme asking us to re-normalise bringing up a story about ourselves in relation to someone telling us something about themselves, as it is how neurodivergent people converse.
  I don’t know what to believe anymore
context: Normalize putting a shoe in the mouth of people who disagree with you >
  
  do i get bonus points if its a dirty shoe? >
  
  No, but you do get a cake.