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  This will be pretty open and shut with the black box and the 8+ cameras on a Tesla that will capture every angle
context: Imagine the wait to be rescued for the woman with her two kids knowing her husband just tried to kill them all.. >
  
  Imagine being the husband and realizing you survived along with everyone else and now your family knows you tried to kill them.
  No sympathy, but damn. Hope he gets what he deserves. >
  
  Yeah I imagine it was awkward >
  
  "soooo, you guys hungry?" >
  
  Who wants In-n-Out? >
  
  “There’s a dope Taco Bell further down the road tho” >
  
  “I know a shortcut!” swerves >
  
  “I can’t believe you fell for that..” >
  
  Are we there yet ? >
  
  “———“
  P.S That’s the sound of the Tesla accelerating to get there quicker. >
  
  That was not the outcome I expected to read. Wtf >
  
  Seriously. And can you imagine having to face your family that you tried to off? Hope this guy gets locked up forever if it's true >
  
  I'm sooooo glad they all survived, especially him so he can face the consequences >
  
  This guy will probably have to be on constant suicide watch. 
  I hate to imagine what the marriage must have been like... This is like the biggest sign ever someone could get that an abusive relationship is not worth it 😬
  Edit: I meant it's not worth waiting for things to get better; leave as soon/when as you can. No one deserves abuse >
  
  Literally no one thinks an abusive relationship is “worth it” people stay because they’re scared >
  
  Living with an abusive family member currently while trying to find better paying work. Sitting in my car in the driveway waiting for them to go to sleep so I can slip inside
  Can confirm, not hear because it's a thrilling lifestyle or anything >
  
  I hope you find something fast. You deserve a safe place to live. Don't give up. <3 >
  
  Thank you. A few new better paying positions opened up with my current employer in my area recently so I've applied for several of those. Any of them would be enough to provide a way out even if it's not glamorous. But hey, a studio apartment I feel safe in is better than a rented bedroom I don't.
  I'm also going to have a serious talk with a family friend when I visit them at the end of this month. They'd talked a few times a couple years ago about possibly being able to find me something at the hospital they work at in a support role. Again, not glamorous but I'm by no means too proud to take a job like that if it's a way out. >
  
  Might be worthwhile to sleep in a friend's couch for a bit. I can't imagine what you are going through. Be safe and I hope you are ok. >
  
  unfourtenatly the nearest friend is 9 hours away by car. Trust me, if another easy option was available even if it required groveling I'd have taken it >
  
  My dad almost did this when I was maybe 4 or 5 years old.  parents were arguing during sommer holiday road trip and something snapped and he drove off the road towards a cliff.  The car got stuck and had be towed out.   Also he trampled his glasses out of anger after that and couldn’t see much after that. >
  
  Damn. Glad you survived.
  Also : "don't go on road trips with parents", noted. >
  
  Don't do it with kids either! When I was 16, my parents and I travelled around Spain with a rented car. I'm an awful navigator and tried to insist that we drove off a small cliff in an audi a3 because "Google maps says it's this way, so it must be this way!" >
  
  "It can't mean that! There's a cliff there!" >
  
  I know someone who went over a cliff on a motorbike and survived, he said that he blacked out as soon as he went over the edge, as if to say "ok nope." Ironically it was being relaxed that probably saved his life. >
  
  One of my friends got in a pretty bad accidental motorcycle crash and had to be hospitalized, nearly killed him. He has no memory of the actual event but the report said he took very specific evasive maneuvers right up to the actual collision. Basically, he was all there, actively trying to solve the problem. But after the event, his mind just decided to block out the 2 min prior as if to say “this is too traumatic and it will only protect you to not remember it” >
  
  I'm not scientist so I don't have the terms for that but I think its a well established brain trick. Bad memories and/or traumatic events tend to be forgotten way faster than the good ones. 
  Thank for being so smart brain 🧠 >
  
  Yes and no. The brain is trying to protect you/itself by locking away the traumatic memory, but that just means it doesn't get processed and filed away properly, but instead remains in a kind of limbo state and can cause all sorts of PTSD-type fuckery down the line. The only way to really put it to bed is to force the brain to process it through therapeutic techniques like EMDR. Fascinating stuff. >
  
  at least it's trying to help, i guess lol