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  People really need to learn the difference between "bringing the consequences down upon yourself" and "deserving the consequences".
  Nobody deserves to be cheated on, but someone who stays with a partner who has cheated on them in the past really can't blame anyone but themselves if they get cucked a second time by that person.
context: I've never met anyone who forgave cheating that didn't end up getting cheated on again. >
  
  A good friend of mine cheated on his girlfriend, he came clean. They stayed together and she cheated on him with her ex. I don't have a lesson here, I just find it ironic and he totally deserved it. >
  
  If he came clean, and the other party accepted and agreed to continue is that really "deserving it"?