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  Now that I’m 30 I agree with you whole heartedly 
  Everything is so centered around sex and specialization now a days that it’s just meh! It’s everywhere. Sexual undertones everywhere so it just makes it meh to me now. 
  Maybe it’s a part of aging idk but I def don’t care about sex nearly as much as I did in my 20s.
context: “All the time you put into it, for a 10 second orgasm”
  :/ OP either is slightly misleading us about his sexual knowledge or may be otherwise wrong?
  Orgasms aren’t the only part of sex that are enjoyable right? I’m not going crazy, am I? >
  
  You are not going crazy. The orgasm is the big finale, but that doesn't mean the build up is a waste of time. >
  
  My bf says orgasms are overrated in his opinion and he loves sex, now that’s a hot take! All the other stuff about sex is even better to him not that he doesn’t like orgasms he’s just into the whole process. Hmm maybe that why people tend to prefer sex over masturbating for the most part. >
  
  I like sex but personally I don't enjoy it if there isn't good emotional connection >
  
  I'm guessing that's what the OP means. Maybe he fucks, maybe he doesn't, but tbh I think most people get bored of meaningless sex as they get older (or the juice just isn't worth the squeeze anymore due to libidos dropping as you get older anyway) - unless they have their cake and eat it in terms of having a strong relationship but then meaningless sex with other people on the side.
  But still the relationship sex won't feel as good as it normally would because you know in the back of your mind you're a dirty cheater, so the connection isn't as strong. >
  
  This man does not fuck >
  
  This man does not even understand the concept of fucking >
  
  This member of the human species has yet to experience the unbridled pleasure of sexual intercourse nor can he comprehend the mechanics of such an act. >
  
  This specimen of homo sapiens is not driven by reactions occuring in his central neural organ evolved to propagate reproduction, and devaluates rituals necessary for the proliferation of his species' population. >
  
  Maybe therapy might help. I don’t think you should have a sense of shame after sex
  And to answer your question, no I don’t feel that way. GOOD sex is one of the best things in life in my opinion. When it’s good, I can’t get enough >
  
  
  I don’t think you should have a sense of shame after sex
  
  Agreed. This seems like the root of the problem >
  
  Sex is only good with the right person >
  
  This is the real unpopular opinion to me. >
  
  can't be that unpopular, otherwise rape wouldnt be a thing >
  
  Rape is different. Thought that didn’t need to be said. >
  
  the point is... if its not the right person it won't be good, obviously rape is the most extreme example, but lots of people regret sex too >
  
  That's the entire point of the thread. 
  Please point me to the 'necrophilia' portion of the comments, tia. >
  
  Lots of people are sold the idea that careless sex is great and healthy, when to lots of people it really isn't fulfilling and takes away from their intimacy. >
  
  Yeah you're refencing the OP, though he is clueless. >
  
  Orgasms aren't the only good thing about sex though. There are many other pleasurable feelings that come from sex. Orgasms also don't have to mean the end of sex, you can continue pleasuring her until your ready to orgasm again. As for it being mundane, don't forget foreplay, afterplay, and using your imagination to keep it interesting. 👍 >
  
  Same, sex is just another form of exercise.
  Love, and making love is something else.
  And in my life I don't need sex, I need deep emotional connection, love. But at the same time, even without that it still can be a fun life. >
  
  You are supposed to enjoy the duration. I dont even care if i finish >
  
  Have you tried Sex 2? >
  
  r/ihavesex >
  
  I wouldn’t say overrated per se but it definitely could get mundane or sometimes not even necessary