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  I don’t like calling toddlers assholes, as this implies some sort of malice that they don’t have yet.
context: Depends. If the parents are the real assholes, maybe the kid is just rebelling against truly stupid rules and mindsets.
  If the parents have reasonable rules and expectations, yeah the kid is the problem >
  
  Yes. My oldest can be described this way. 😂 I love him dearly but nobody has ever pushed my buttons like he does. 
  The strange thing is that he's fun to be around and has a kind heart for the most part, but is also self- centered and stubborn. (He's an adult)