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  You are not going crazy. The orgasm is the big finale, but that doesn't mean the build up is a waste of time.
context: “All the time you put into it, for a 10 second orgasm”
  :/ OP either is slightly misleading us about his sexual knowledge or may be otherwise wrong?
  Orgasms aren’t the only part of sex that are enjoyable right? I’m not going crazy, am I?