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  I like sex but personally I don't enjoy it if there isn't good emotional connection
context: “All the time you put into it, for a 10 second orgasm”
  :/ OP either is slightly misleading us about his sexual knowledge or may be otherwise wrong?
  Orgasms aren’t the only part of sex that are enjoyable right? I’m not going crazy, am I? >
  
  You are not going crazy. The orgasm is the big finale, but that doesn't mean the build up is a waste of time. >
  
  My bf says orgasms are overrated in his opinion and he loves sex, now that’s a hot take! All the other stuff about sex is even better to him not that he doesn’t like orgasms he’s just into the whole process. Hmm maybe that why people tend to prefer sex over masturbating for the most part.