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  I'm reading testimonials that suggest this effect is temporary and mostly during the transition from M to F, but then when people are F they 'get horny again' but 'in a different way' ?
context: Is this a CMV or a rant? >
  
  "All of the issues in dating" which are what exactly? I mean I agree theres issues just wanna be on the same page >
  
  If that was true, gay relationships would have no issues, but they clearly do. >
  
  Actually you bring up an interesting point, but I think it will shake out more in OP's direction than you intended. Gay and lesbian relationship stats typically lie in opposite corners from straight relationships, for instance lesbians divorce most frequently, then straights, and least gay men. Same with sex frequency, with gay men having the most sex with the most partners and lesbians having the least. 
  So they do have issues, but the specific way they show up enforces OP's point. >
  
  For the record, I tend to agree with OP and men, typically, are more sex-driven. But I don't agree that it's the root of all relationship problems. If even asexuals can have relationship drama, then sex is definitely not to blame. >
  
  Yeah, I mean, I took that statement as a little bit of a hyperbole from OP. Clearly not the root of ALL relationship problems, that would be ridiculous. But I could certainly see it as a major contributing factor in many of them. >
  
  Do you think that gay and lesbian relationships have no issues? >
  
  That only reinforces ops point >
  
  How do you know how horny women are?
  A person can be horny and thoughtful; we're not animals.
  
  Libido is testosterone driven
  
  A quick Google search suggests that this is not true at worst OR a gross over-simplification at best.
  "Research shows that the hormone testosterone may improve sexual function in specific groups of women, but data on safety and effectiveness are limited."
  
  Or they’ll hide behind the “enormous risk” women take by having sex despite most of them being on birth control or the “social stigma/slut shaming” when we have upper middle class suburban chicks unabashedly promoting their fledging porn careers (OF) on their public social media
  
  Social media doesn't get you pregnant, nor does it give you STDs, though, nor will it rape you; therefore, this 'hypocrisy' is actually completely rational. >
  
  45 people is a pretty small sample-size, I would argue.
  Also, could the rise in libido be attached to "becoming who you are" more than some other factors?
  Being uncomfortable with one's self can affect libido; becoming more comfortable with one's self can raise it. So, are we sure that's not what's happening here?
  We have a correlation, perhaps, but I don't think we have a direct causal relationship.
  
  The flip side of this is young men, especially those who are less desirable, are having harder time finding partners.
  
  This doesn't make women 'less horny,' just busier.
  
  Unforteintly politics has gotten to the point where women will simply refuse to date republicans because they are too toxic. This is also a more recent phenomena. 
  
  This also doesn't make women 'less horny,' just selective. >
  
  
  Also, could the rise in libido be attached to "becoming who you are" more than some other factors?
  Being uncomfortable with one's self can affect libido; becoming more comfortable with one's self can raise it. So, are we sure that's not what's happening here?
  We have a correlation, perhaps, but I don't think we have a direct causal relationship.
  
  Well, unlikely since mtf patients report the exact opposite effect.
  The study says it is a direct relationship shrug . It is also supported by talking to anyone in who has experienced it, such as myself. It's nearly universal between both transgender men and women (men get hornier, women get less) obviously with exceptions for the reasons you mention.