comment: Upvote for the unpopular opinion, nice one.
  That aside, I’ve always held that you can hold a pretty cheap ceremony, spend a little to basically have a piss up, meal and general celebration with family (which as an aside functions as two family reunions in one) and then use the actual money for a decent honeymoon. 
  Seems better to me that way, some may disagree but hey, it’s your wedding. Do what you want, who’s gonna tell you otherwise?