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  What age are you referring to? Because I know for a fact that no grown person who takes their 
  career and personal growth seriously has time to party and go out all the time
context: Sometimes I wish I had your problem. But just sometimes. >
  
  That’s why it’s “too many”. Having “too much” of anything is bad. >
  
  Even money? >
  
  Yes >
  
  Just putting it out there. If anyone here is suffering from too much money, I'm always here to take some of that burden. You don't have to go through this alone! >
  
  This isn't a "having too many friends"-problem but a "having poor personal boundaries"-problem >
  
  Not being mature enough to be able to say no to peer pressure makes your life worse. >
  
  People should learn the difference between friends, >
  
  Me as a loner who has nobody: Oh wow, that sounds terrible /s >
  
  i used to have this problem, so i just started ghosting people, or making excuses for not showing up at their get togethers, or taking days before replying to their messages. Eventually I just developed a reputation for being unreliable and flakey. Now I have no friends. >
  
  Sounds like you got what you wanted tho, rejoice. >
  
  Quality vs quantity. Focus on that, even and especially when it comes to the people you surround yourself with and vice versa. Also important: having boundaries, maturity, self awareness, a back bone strong ebough to say "no" to people, things, and experiences.
  It's maybe an unpopular opinion, but compartmentalization is often important as well. Different types of people and your different relationship with them belong in different circles, based on your level of relationship with each other. I strongly believe if you know different types...then think about how you met, whom you met through, who is actually the friend, who is a friend-of-a-friend, who is a social acquaintance, and what your level of closeness (and distance) is. What interests do you bond over? Categorize and keep them in their own respective place in your life. I strongly believe you shouldnt mix everyone you're friends or social acquaintances with in one or two big baskets. 
  Not everyone who have known me for years know each other. I also dont like to invite everyone at the same party or event. My social circle is very small, and within that, my inner circle is even smaller. >
  
  I do kind of agree...it's exhausting because you'll always have something you have to go do. This happened to me at one point when I was seeing multiple groups of people regularly. Felt like I had no time to relax by myself >
  
  I concur on the drama. After my divorce I drastically reduced the amount of people in my inner circle. After doing that, I deactivated  my Facebook account for over 2 years. 99% of the drama disappeared.