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  My wife - 11 years together - still finds it odd that I am into death and brutal metal. I'm the most peaceful and mellowest dude ever, but I fricking love Cannibal Corpse, Cattle Decapitation, among others.
  She doesn't judge me for it, I mean, she knows me more than I know myself, but she's told me more times than I can count that she can't understand how someone as chill as me can like such violent lyrics and imagery, which in a way goes to show that most people outside of the metal scene still think metalheads are inherently crazy or violent.
context: It gets better after high school >
  
  I always get that weird look when people find out im into Deathmetal. >
  
  Cannibal Corpse deserves a Grammy >
  
  It does say something, but it's not as simplistic as 'bad pop music' = bad person. The majority of people don't really care that much about music, so they just listen to pop music and tiktok songs. It's just that music tastes normally make sense in conjunction with other things about a person, and together, all of them tell you something about the person >
  
  What if most of the time I don't listen to any music, I like silence >
  
  That tells me you’re a psychopath >
  
  How else are they supposed to know if you’re cool or not? >
  
  Your likes and dislikes are a part of your personality. >
  
  But it doesn't really say anything about which type of person I am. 
  Like if I told you I don't like beans, what would that tell you about my personality traits? Nothing. The only thing that it tells you is that I don't like beans. Same goes with music. >
  
  If you say you like eating shit it might influence my opinion of you, yes. >
  
  One of my friends listens to that weird sonic music and he acts exactly like how someone who listens to the sonic theme would act >
  
  Sonic music is kinda awesome. >
  
  The type of music you like and listen to often does represent some parts of your personality. >
  
  white teen boys listening to rap about robbing drugs and murder >
  
  Probably do drugs as opposed ti white teen boys listening to pop music >
  
  I am the exact white teen boy who listens to rap about robbing drugs and murder and I don’t do drugs, sure i might not necessarily represent the majority but that doesn’t mean it reflects my personality >
  
  Some people will judge me for things as dumb as the car I drive or literally the type of cell phone I use.
  I let them judge me. Let the drama queens weed themselves out of my life