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  Or they are projecting when they say people always deliberately choose to hurt others.
context: I'll give you an upvote for an unpopular opinion. I understand why you have this belief but it's also how you end up living a lonely and solitary life. You need to learn how to forgive. Every single person you meet is going to disapoint you at least once. >
  
  This is so true. >
  
  I agree and disagree. Like if a person does not know your boundaries and you give them  a" second" chance with a explanation of your boundaries, really you are giving them their first chance with all of the pertinent information. After this if a person  disregards or discuss your boundaries it becomes a 50/50 on whether the person made the active choice or simply still didn't understand how to effectively respect your boundaries. It's one of those that simply isn't that black and white, but if a person does in fact make the active choice to disrespect your boundaries then by all means cut them off. >
  
  If people were never seen as anything more than their worst mistakes than why should they ever try to better themselves? >
  
  This. This right here >
  
  
  Like, you have to remember that the person who dissapointed you actively chose to dissapoint you and hurt you.
  
  This is not always true and is an extremely childish way to think about it.
  People make mistakes, some are worse than others, but that doesn’t mean they acted maliciously or anything.  In the end you just have to decide how much you want a person in your life.  And then you can forgive them. >
  
  Forgive OP. Up there talking like you never disappointed someone.