comment: It's just feel-good virtue signaling definition changes. 
  Disorder implies it's bad, and that may hurt some people's feelings. I think it's stupid to insist that it isn't bad because people genuinely do suffer from those conditions. At the end of the day though, it really doesn't harm anything as much as it doesn't help so I don't really care. 
  In my mind neurodivergent is just synonymous with abnormal but it's just a "nicer" way of saying it.