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Miserable people aren't always miserable because of mental illness. >

But of you ridicule them you will make sure they get there, mentally ill >

Miserable people are not people feeling miserable. They are bad people treating to make others feel bad. 
It’s like how a sad individual is a term you use for someone that’s pathetic or cruel. And not to refer to someone that is feeling sad >

This may be a language thing, but I think that’s not what miserable means >

It’s about how it is used. I’m also not a native speaker if that’s what you mean >

I agree with this entirely. >

I think that saying is less “All miserable people want to drag you down.” and more “Anyone who wants to drag you down is miserable.” >

Some miserable people are just miserable, it's not always mental health issues. >

Do people actually pretend they care about depression? I mean I thought the most common answer was "it's not real anyway" >

It is >

I used to be the guy who would continuously try to include the ppl who seem like they might be depressed or going through something i still reach out but not as much if I don’t already have something invested in the relationship. It’s draining for me at least.
And sometimes kicking it with depressed ppl does fuck the mood up objectively. It’s wrong to say that to somebody but it’s human to feel that somebody who seems miserable is dragging the mood of a social interaction down. 
If you are depressed u might have to go out of your way to be more social(or at least not a downer) if u want ppl that don’t already know u well to want to be around u. Ppl don’t know that u are a good person and funny and make great company on days when u feel good. All they see is the manifestations of depression. >

Let's just assume we moved on from the topic on definition of miserable person.
I care about mental health "at safe distance" because "I am not a professional to deal with mentally illed".