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It is a question of lack of basic effort.
I don’t think that this is unpopular as long as you aren’t making fun of your partner. You can break up with someone for whatever reason that you want. As long as you hold yourself to the same standard then I don’t think you’re an asshole although I wouldn’t leave a serious partner for any of these reasons. >

"Honey, I love that we're sipping tea in Milan... I just wish you weren't such a fatty. Ciao!" >

"Darling, I have found my soulmate in you... but I know four fat people and three of them are you lmao cyaaaaa" >

Cheating because your partner becomes unattractive still makes you an asshole however, break up and then look >

He didnt talk about cheating y’all love the word cheating nowadays >

I feel losing attraction to your partner and cheating goes hand in hand for a lot of people and by the way they said it’s fine to look for better options makes it sound to me like they mean during relations. And when the topic of relationships comes up of course cheating is going to come up with it, I don’t have statistics but I’m sure upwards of 70% of active people having relationships have been cheated on and it’s the worst way for it all to happen. >

I have personally never cheated on a partner, but I have no qualms over leaving someone when my needs and concerns aren't met, I hold myself to the same standard. >

That’s really great and I think that’s how it should be, I’m sure the fact that I’ve been cheated on made me read differently into the words than a way you meant them >

It always sucks when someone stabs you in the back and you have my honest condolences.
No one deserves that level of betrayal. >

There's not working out/taking care of yourself and then there's just getting older. If you can't handle wrinkles or gray hairs and want someone younger, check yourself. You might be Leonardo Dicaprio >

Leonardo Dicaprio is completely entitled to leave women the moment they turn 25.
That doesn’t preclude him from being a shallow asshole.