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Agree. Being alone can be easy even if you have a lot of things to work through. Adding another person into that can highlight how dysfunctional your family relationships might have been or expose weak spots in how you relate to other people. A lot of things come up in relationships that are opportunities to learn and grow. >

*maintaining a relationship is about solving and overcoming problems together. >

If your relationship is all about problems, maybe you shouldn't be in the relationship >

Man it's meant sarcastically why u bully me 😔 >

It's a shame you meant it sarcastically because I think it's true. 
Life involves solving problems, and a relationship brings new problems. 
But this person is thinking purely about "relationship problems" and negative problems when there are just normal life "probelms" that people solve many of each day.