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OK, this is interesting, but also concerning.
My friend's son was traumatized to have female body parts. He would wrap his breasts tightly (probably too tightly) when going to school.
Based on your analogy, they hate chocolate, and chocolate is what they are being served, but switching to vanilla won't help. 
At least gender reassignment (not only talking about the surgical/hormonal option) can offer some increased quality of life for trans men and women. It seems like a non-binary person can't be happy period. Hopefully it is more complicated than that.
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At first I thought it was a typo until I saw it repeated over and over. 
The heck is a nibling? >

Gender-neutral for niece or nephew. I have accidentally said “nibblet” a couple times >

Pardon me, but what exactly is the derogatory h-word you mentioned?
hetero? homo? >

Probably hermaphrodite >

Isnt that the scientific term for that phenomenon tho? >

Not in humans. It’s called ”intersex”. ”Hermaphodite” is a zoological term. >

Ah TIL ty! >

Same.  42 years old.  never knew it was wrong to say hermaphrodite >


I draw the line at "non-binary". What are the odds you’re exactly 50/50? 

Non-binary doesn't mean "half and half." >

If you’re not half and half, then you must identify slightly more with one gender, right?
My question is why not go with that gender (again, regardless of sex at birth)? >

If you don't like chocolate or vanilla it's not a matter of 50/50, it doesn't necessarily mean you like any other flavour either.