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Or you don’t listen
Well yes, isn't that the point of going to therapy? To get them to help you work through your issues. Which usually means helping you tackle issues with your actions or your mindset.
I don't go to therapy, but I'd feel ripped off if they just listened to me complain for an hour and didn't tell me where I was going wrong. That's what I'm paying them for, no? >

Exactly, therapist aren’t your trauma dustbin >

I completely agree >

If you think your therapist is shitty it is usually one of these reasons:
You haven't found a therapist you're actually comfortable with. That matters. You can go through a lot of therapists before you get one you are actually comfortable with. 
You don't want any introspection at all. Which is where your opinion comes in and I agree some people aren't ready for therapy because of this. 
You are too comfortable with your therapist and you've developed feelings for them, which is not uncommon. You're in a vulnerable place and sharing with another person. It is likely if you're trying to hide the feelings they still know and are trying to pass you off to another therapist because it is hard to do their actual job like this.