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Maybe I’m just outspoken as I tend to just be in the background and not say much hence why they don’t care lol
I don’t know how I feel about this I will have to wait to my wife wakes up and ask her. >

Whoa boy did you just post before or after clearance? My partner said ok to this post.
Partner’s signature. >

After a two step verification with my wife all I’m allowed to say is: you should already know. >

I've been with my wife for 10 years now. She knows all my friends and I know hers. We all get together for parties, burthdays, etc...But no way in hell would she want me coming to her girl hang outs, and i dont want her to come golfing and drink beer with the guys.
I think its so important to maintain individuality in a relationship. Couples that are completely dependent on each other creep me out >

Super agree. My husband and I are really open about needing breaks from each other, in a loving respectful way. Which makes the time we spend together even better. Also when we do attend parties together—our shared goal is to socialize with other people. Couples who go to parties and only talk to each other bug the crap out of me (with the exception of very new relationships, when that behavior’s understandable). >

depends on the context. an invitation to a party/social gathering? why would i not bring my husband?? an invitation for just you and me to lunch? well, yeah i think that’s sort of a given lol >

I had a friend who world bring her husband on what used to be girl nights. he was an asshole and an immigrant to my country who liked talking shit about the country too. I tolerated him because he was important to my friend, but some friends stopped contact with her cause they couldn't stand him and she would never go anywhere alone anymore. The divorce after 10 years and a kid and it turned out he was controlling and borderline abusive >

I find that really funny because I go to all of the girls nights because I'm actually invited. It's my wife that started to get annoyed I was usually there so she didn't feel like she could bitch about me. >

Invited is fine, of couse. But it was something we did from high school and the first time she brought him along we were shocked. She said he feels lonely, which I found understandable at the time, as he moved from abother county. But now I think that inviting them both to bigger events when the group gets together and keeping the girls nights as girls nights should have been enough >

When I first got with my husband I would check with my friends if he was invited since it's an otherwise all-female friend group. They always said "yes, of course, why wouldn't he be?!". I'm glad I have friends who want to include him and get to know him. >

As a male, I feel like females are more welcoming in terms of having a guy present. Where as for guys, they prefer “bro” time because you have to keep some level of composure around females >

I disagree. It's annoying when someone always needs to bring their SO. I wanna have girl talk sometimes and always bringing a guy is ruining it.