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I completely agree
Well yes, isn't that the point of going to therapy? To get them to help you work through your issues. Which usually means helping you tackle issues with your actions or your mindset.
I don't go to therapy, but I'd feel ripped off if they just listened to me complain for an hour and didn't tell me where I was going wrong. That's what I'm paying them for, no? >

Exactly, therapist aren’t your trauma dustbin