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So non-religious people shouldn't marry?
I know several friends who treat swiping through tinder as a hobby rather than because they have any serious intentions… most of the time it’s extremely superficial and they really only want to oogle over the pictures of hot people or judge others on how they look. >

How about : '' stop going on dating apps '' >

I feel like most people on dating apps fall into one of two categories: looking for sex and too bad at human interaction to find a relationship partner in real life >

While the dates I had did lead to sex. They almost always wanted more than just that.
Also, besides the literal time wasters. I dont think that's fair to say people who get desperate or lonely enough to download a dating app automatically get assumed to be “bad at human interation”. 
Im sure I fit in a common demographic. Its just an avenue to meet people, assholes and all… >

The apps are completely normalized these days. Some just prefer it to the bar scene. Besides, needing to get trashed just to carry a conversation gets a bit old. >

Maybe you get ghosted because you come across as a miserable sanctimonious yap? 🤔 >

does seem quite miserable >

If you are looking for a high value long term partner, I don't think online dating is a good choice. it might be in some cases but the competition is wild >

If you want to find someone worth marrying, try going to church or mosque or whatever.
Edit: Just to be clear, if you're having difficulty with a dating app you might want to try something different. 
I suggested church but there are loads of other things you could try. For example join a gym, a night school class, or volunteer work. 
But, whatever, downvote all you want.