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You do get it
I agree with a lot of stuff but I want to adress and disagree with one of your points. Just because it has fantastic elements doesn't mean it can't have realistic element's as well. This literally represents real life but with magic. The rest of the world is unaware of the magic, why wouldn't they have TikTok and live their lives as normal? Just because something fantastical happens in a world doesn't mean that world has to be some alternate universe where nothing is ever the same as real life. 
Just like the Walking Dead is real life but if zombies(or walkers) were a thing. >

For me it feels like an uncanny valley, I'm seeing elements of real life that usually don't appear in fantasy shows and it's something I recognise in an unfamiliar space and it just disturbs me. I usually watch fantasy shows to try and escape from my reality and enter into another one, but this show personally for me has too much of what I recognise in it. Like I said, this show just isn't for me. >

I get it. You're used to more clean fantasies. And true, this series just isn't for you. I personally don't mind the creative idea when they implemet fantasy in real life. If the story is good, I don't feel the need to completely escape real life. And I also think if you represent fantasy in real life it wouldn't be immersive to not represent real life stuff... But I get what you mean. It's not so much that you have fantasy in real life but the way it's represent like just another part of mundane daily life.
Like the 90s Charmed Ones or the modern Magicians or Stranger Things. It's still fantasy in real life, but there's more focus on the fantasy element and the fantasy is made a bigger deal.