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So you don’t even disagree with me that the US and Canada are heading in the same direction- you’re just claiming your reaction to it is more stable. Maybe it is in fact stability- but it also sounds like being complicit In your own subjugating. Americans and Canadians might be both enslaved wage slaves, but at least the Canadians get to brag they did it in a “stable way” (aka we never raised a fuss.) sound like a huge cope to me
As a Canadian, American politics seems like pure chaos and spectacle.
That said, I know US politics is tame compared to other places on the planet. >

On the contrary, I think you guys forego shaking up your system in the name of politeness. Your healthcare system is on the verge of collapse, your housing crisis is worse than ours, and your wage stagnation is more broadly felt. I think Canadians making their anti-americanism a personality trait has backfired to the point where when your whole society is degrading faster than ours you don't want to even acknowledge because your instinct is to default to "at least we're not america!!!1" than actually resolve your issues. >

I’m not so sure.
I think things are tough because things are tough in general. A lot of countries are having a hard time now. A lot of it is Post-Covid shockwaves.
For example, Inflation isn’t limited to just Canada. Many countries have inflation.
Expensive housing is another. While Canada is among the worst for this we are not alone in this problem. The US, UK and Canada all have this problem. 
In fact, the World Bank estimates 1.6 billion people will be affected by a global housing shortage.
So, Canada isn’t unique in its problems the fact these problems are around the world… implies more  that there might be systemic failures in our economy rather than something specific about Canadian political culture.
The World Health Organization also estimate a global shortage of healthcare workers.
I’m not saying Canada is perfect. I’m addressing the specific claim here that our situation is tightly tied to our political system.
I respectfully disagree. It doesn’t seem to be the case. While our political system my exacerbate some of the problems (or all? Who knows.), I’m reluctant to blame our political system for what seems to be, Global trends that were made worse by a global pandemic. >

My point to you is not that your problems are unique - it was the contrary. My point is that canadians have pretty much the same problems as the U.S does, in some cases worse than the U.S. does. I bring this up to show you that maintaining your political "calmness" is not the flex you think it is anymore and may actively be hindering your ability to address your issues because when these issues are pointed out, instead of arguing about what to do like Americans do, canadians find reasons to deflect by saying things like "well at least we're not the U.S."
Canada's housing crisis is the worst among developed nations
Canada's inflation rate basically on par with U.S.
Canadian Medical association basically admitting the healthcare system is on the verge of collapse.
Canadians have the same problems the U.S. has - you guys are just passively accepting it instead of defying your establishment like Americans have the balls to do. Maybe to you it looks like asylums taking over the system, but on the reverse side the way I see Canada is a bunch of sheep that haven't ever learned to fend for themselves because they thought they had it good for so long that now in the face of danger they're accepting death because they never developed any confrontation skills. >

People value stability. You can’t fault people valuing stability. Remember Canada wasn’t born from a Revolution or had a Civil War to try to entrench Slavery as an Institution.
How we ended up where we are is through solid, stable governance. No table flipping. No bloody wars. Different culture.
Where you see “Sheep”, we see a steady hand. A country avoiding the excesses of individualism and Imperialism.
Americans and Canadians both see government differently. Canadians trust the government more than Americans. But again this is because we didn’t need to fight a war of Independence. We’re not immediately cynical of the state.
The country is different. If the American perspective is “they’re sheep”, personally I would disagree with that. Because I have yet to see an example of truly sane governance down south.
The Supreme Court overturning Roe v Wade while 70%+ of the population supporting it, for example, is something I would consider destabilizing.
January 6, was destabilizing as well. 
The American story isn’t done yet and I’d be reluctant to follow a model that so easily collapses to instability when things get hard…
So sure. You see us as “sheep waiting for death”. I see Americans as “sheep running toward death”.
I guess time will well.