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I follow woodwork and diy videos on YouTube, go on bushcraft holidays and generally show an interest in those things and it has been notable to me that there aren't many women in those fields. There is no reason they wouldn't be capable so I was putting forward a theory. Do you have a different theory?
I’ve always been girly and if it went out of fashion I would just continue on. I would hope most women feel the same about their personalities. >

But are you girly because it was fashionable in your formative years? >

I don’t think so. It was the nineties and my parents, peers, etc. were always trying to get me to wear denim and plaid, things like that. I only wanted to wear pink. My parents say all the time that they have no idea where it came from since it wasn’t their taste or the taste of anyone around me! >

There’s definitely some truth to this, but it effects both genders, a lot of men are in the gym for the sake of getting women, a lot of men don’t cry or open up got the sake of women finding them weak >

Tough straight men feign interest in how that bitch at work it out to get you.... >

You obviously have never heard the term "tomboy" nor encountered anyone who meets the definition.
Disclaimer: I'm not sure if the terminology I used is offensive in this moment in time. >

Of course I have but are they now trans, or gay or bi, or no longer a tomboy? As those appear to be the only options for adults unless you're happy to be unusual. >

Why do you think you'd see anyone with those hobbies? Why do you think they are so common that you'd expect to see women doing them? Why is your first assumption at the lack of seeing women that they are repressing their desires for men? Why mention the idea of them being capable or the idea that some would say they aren't?
Honestly OP, it sounds like you've got a lot of hang ups around your interests, your gender, relationships,  and maybe even your sexuality.