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No but it’s the same idea that platonic and romantic feelings aren’t the same.
I agree you can have sex with someone you like and find attractive and that’s fine. My partner is someone I have dedicated my life to. In short, our lives are intertwined and structured to support the other.
Will my friends drop me off at the airport? Sure. Will they listen to and be willing to renegotiate their financial lives to a career change? Probably not.
Everything we do is with the benefit of us as a unit in mind. That’s categorically different than a friendship for me. >

I don't love my friends the same way I love my girlfriend. Two extremely different feelings. >

I don’t have feelings for my female friends the same way as my crush >

Your crush isn't your partner.