SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Confused about how I [23f] feel about my 7 month LDR with my boyfriend [25m]
POST: I feel like I probably sound like a horrible person by posting this. My boyfriend and I have been in a LDR for approximately 7 months or so, and recently, I've developed feelings for someone else who lives much closer. We had a bit of trouble when he found out about my crush, but he wants to give it another chance and try to make it work. I should be happy about that.

I feel so disconnected lately though. Before I started getting feelings for this other man, I felt so dependent on my boyfriend. I would get upset if we didn't talk for an extended period of time and I would get jealous easily. Now that he found out about it, it almost seems as if the roles have completely reversed. He wants to talk to me all of the time, and I don't really feel like I have anything to say. I love him and care for him greatly, but I don't know why I'm feeling so off about the relationship lately. 

Last night, I started texting the man I have a crush on and I realized that I was flirting with him without even trying to. When I noticed, I quit responding to him immediately, because I don't want to be *that* girl. 

I'd absolutely never leave my boyfriend to be with someone else - I don't even know if this man is single or not! It just feels wrong that I can have a crush if I care so much about someone else.

Have I let my relationship drag too far? I feel like I may have fallen "out of love" with my boyfriend and I'm only noticing now that I'm starting to fall for someone else. I don't know if this is the case. Is it common for this to happen?
TL;DR: 
Starting to develop feelings for someone else while in a LDR and I don't know what to do regarding the situation. :(