SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22 F] asked my guy [28 M] what 'this' was. He gave a reasonable answer, but I'm still crushed. What do I do now?
POST: blah blah throwaway blah blah I'm a little bitch.

I have been seeing this guy for a short while now, and have grown rather fond of him. I don't like many people, but I **really** like him, and it seems that he feels the same way about me.

Recently we were talking, and I brought up the status of 'us'. He went quiet for a minute and then explained that even though he has feelings for me and would love to progress further, he just can't right now. And while in the moment I played it off as no biggie, my heart sank.

I'm not mad at him. I can't be mad at him. He gave me a completely reasonable response. I think I'm more mad at myself for reacting so strongly, because I really have no reason to be upset.
TL;DR: 
Asked the guy I'm seeing to TDR, he gave me a completely reasonable 'not right now' to moving further. I'm still crushed and don't know how to feel/what to do/what to say.