SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19/M] My girlfriend's Muslim parents found out about us and are now trying to break us apart. Please help.
POST: Hi everyone,

So I just got off the phone with my girlfriend and I'm pretty fucking pissed. Basically, she's had to hide her dating me from her parents because they have a conservative Muslim background and don't want her dating anyone right now, *especially* not a white, atheist boy.

She lives with her aunt and uncle up here at my university. We've been dating for a bit now and through some Facebook privacy goofup on her part, her aunt and uncle found out about us. They have not told her parents yet.

What makes me **FUCKING LIVID** is that these people are trying to control my girlfriend's life. She's an adult, for Christ's sake, so treat her like one.

*Yes*, I understand it's a different culture. But it's a culture my girlfriend wants nothing of. As much as I'd love for her to just tell her folks off, she can't while she's still financially dependent on her dad and lives with her aunt and uncle. They expect her to just study hard and date only later in life, and even then it has to be a Muslim man they approve of. Well **FUCK** you guys.

I don't want to lose her over this. But now they're trying to restrict when she can be on campus and want her to break up with me. I don't know what to do. Those cultural ideas are outdated and do not belong in my girlfriend's life. I want her to just try talking to them, but she's not nearly as confrontational as I am.

Please help, guys. I know this is an odd hour and many of you may not see this, but I'm really at a loss here. This is a culture I do not understand and do not know how to counter effectively, if I can at all.
TL;DR: 
GF has Muslim family who wants to break us apart. I say fuck them, but my gf is still dependent on them financially.