SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24/M] have some problems with my gf [23/F] in the bed. Please help!
POST: The problem is the following: she is a perfect 10/10 (she still have issues with her body ... -_-), but in bed she acts like a starfish. I have to do everything. Starting with the foreplay followed by me fingering her or give her oral until she comes, after that comes the sex part when only i move. She usually just laying down, makes no sound at all, but i can clearly see her pleasured face.

I asked her so many times for oral or some normal positions like the surfboard... But she refused every time. Her body is so sexy but with her attitude i starting to get bored with the sex. 

I dont have problems with my body at all (i do material arts so my body is fine, and my dick is avarage). 

And to top that her sex drive is too low (if i dont engade then we would have 1 action per month).

I don't want to leave her but it is starting to poison my love to her. What should i do to boost her sex drive or her confidence in the bed?
TL;DR: 
She acts like a starfish in bed, i have to do everything. I start to get bored with that... what should i do?