SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex (m/28) is writing music about me (f/27)? Has anyone else had this happen to them?
POST: My ex and I dated a few years ago. Things ended rough due to circumstances out of our control. We have both moved on in current relationships, there is no way we would get back together knowing how the past ended. 

He's a musician. Shortly after the breakup, he released an EP specific to our relationship and why things fell apart. The songs are full of inside references that only him and I get. At live shows he plays unreleased songs explaining what went wrong on both our ends. He always invites me to his shows for support, but it's sometimes evokes bad memories once I hear him sing about me. We share a similar circle of friends and networking pals, it's hard to distance myself completely from him and his music.
TL;DR: 
I know I can't be the only one who has had an ex write music about them. Any advice on how to push forward without the flashbacks? 