SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [24 M] for 9 months, I think it's the end.
POST: I'll try to keep the story short.

When my boyfriend first asked me out, I told him I'd love to, but that I was asexual, and would not go past kissing. I understood that this would make a relationship difficult, and that it's okay if he does not to enter into one with me. He said "I just want you; the lack of sexual activity will be hard, but I can handle that."

Well, over time I guess it has started to put a strain on him. We had a serious conversation over the weekend, and a couple (in my opinion) deal breakers came up.

1. He is ready for sex. He asked if I would be able to compromise a bit more. I have considered, for a while now; but even kissing is unpleasant, the thought of making out gives me a panic attack, so anything further is out of the question. After telling him this, he requested that we try sex, just once, to see if I could bear it. I told him no.

2. He wants to raise children, and I do not. It's not even just about the sex, it's that I do not want kids of my own, whether they be adopted or of my own blood. 

He suggested we try one or two sessions of couples counseling, which I agreed to cause I figured it wouldn't hurt.
I don't want the relationship to end, but I don't see a solution either. I guess my question is, does reddit see anything we don't?
TL;DR: 
My boyfriend wants sex; I do not. He also wants kids, and I don't. I know the relationship is probably over, I just wanna make sure there isn't another solution we're missing.