SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Are you crazy or am I paranoid?
POST: You've got a great personality. And you're very attractive. But there are some things I'm not sure about, and I'm being cautious because I've dealt with some crazy and clingy women before.

You're sweet and cute and intelligent and I really enjoy that. Yet you've mentioned you have some anxiety and depression issues. I Know you're on meds for it, and that you're taking care of it, but I don't know how effective it is. I've learned that looks can be deceiving. Most of all, I don't know how your issues might spill over and become my problems. I have dated people that have let that happen, have made me the center of their universe, and I can't be that person. 

I can't text constantly while I'm at work or school, it's disrespectful to my employers and it's a hindrance to my education. I can't take repeated calls at 2 AM where I'm told of nightmares and the taking of many different drugs in an effort to fall asleep. I can't take not being able to have a constructive argument that is critical of you or me or us because you'll take it too hard and harm yourself. I can't be the entire foundation your life is built around. But I'm willing to be a part of that.

Those things I listed are not things you've done. You don't seem like that kind of person, you respect my space so far. But I'm scared that you'll start to do those things, because I've dated that person before. I need to know you're not going to have a crisis every few days.
TL;DR: 
Been flirting with great girl, except some anxiety/depression issues have been brought up, giving me doubts because of past fucked up relationships.