SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Relationship between GF and HER parents..
POST: The relationship between my GF (22) and her parents is not good.  From the outside everything seems perfect.  Both parents work, daughter goes away to school (2 hrs away), we talk and laugh and everything is fine.  But lately my GF has been telling me (and I have noticed in the past ((together 2.5 years, i am 25))) that they say pretty nasty things to her.  

Her parents say hurtful things to her about school ( She has a 3.9 GPA as a Bio major from a good school ), tell her she will never get into med school, the mom today said she can't stand looking at her.  

What worries me is that I see a lot of how her mother is in her.  She says degrading things to ME, and makes me feel bad about myself too.  I understand where it comes from and I just let it slide ( I am in grad school, work a full time and a part time job ).  My grades were never even close to hers and I did not go to a good school like her so she would say things about that and my major i chose (sociology).  My question is will this be outgrown?  Will she turn into her mother and treat our kids like that?  It is scary to think but the more I look back the more I see red flags.
TL;DR: 
GF and her parents have bad relationship, I see a lot of what the mother does to my GF being acted out by my GF towards me.