SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Reddit, help me, I need to get over my friend. [21M/21F]
POST: I'll get straight to the point. I'm 21M, she's 21F. We're in college together and we've grown to be very close friends. We spent a lot of time together. I gradually fell for her. This was two years ago.
She didn't see me the same way, and on some level, I knew that a relationship b/w us wouldn't work. Our interests are too different. But I let myself fall for her, mainly because of how caring and sensitive she is. It doesn't help that she's downright adorable and just the right mix of femininity/tom-boyishness I've always found attractive. Plus, letting yourself dream of fantasies of you both together really feels all sorts of awesome at the time.

So I quickly realized that it was a one-way thing. Went through all the denial, depression, questioning etc and came out of it. Now, I don't like her as much as I used to. I've come to accept, more or less, that nothing between is going to happen. But sometimes I still have a hard time seeing her flirt with other guys etc.

I don't want to be like that. I want to see her as a friend, and be happy for her when she finds a guy she likes. I hate feeling like this. I keep feeling really bad when she doesn't text me, or doesn't treat me with the importance I would want. I get upset if she's even the slightest bit upset about something. I get sad when she's sad. etc
I just want to rid myself of these feelings for her and view her as a friend. The way I see my other female friends.
TL;DR: 
Close friends with a girl. Fell for her. One-way feelings. Now having a hard time getting over her. Help.