SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [20 F] confront a (now ex) friend [20 F] about being emotional manipulative?
POST: So I recently had a major falling out with a best friend after realizing she was being emotionally manipulative. She's always had a very dominating personality. She progressively began to act as though I was her her "pawn" I guess I would say. She would constantly pressure me into doing whatever would benefit her. Things like convincing me to register for a class that she was also registering for that I didn't want to take, or guilting me into going out and drinking when I didn't want to. She would tell me things like "You know I almost got into a fight with someone over you." When I never asked her to defend me. She would send me texts at two in the morning telling me "she wasn't okay with" me hanging out with somebody. I have a pretty passive personality so I mostly went along with it for the better part of two years. She had crazy insecurities and would get jealous if I hung with people without telling her. Eventually her insecurities manifested themselves into personal attacks like sending me harassing and dramatic texts telling me "how I betrayed her" and I "DESTROYED a friendship with somebody who truly loved me". If i ever tried to bring up something she did that made me upset, she would turn it around and get angry with me. One time she sent a text to me on accident that she meant to send to another friend that send "Yeah fuck her whatever", after telling me that she cared about me. It was after that that I decided to remove myself from her. However, I never specifically told her how she made me feel for the better part of two years. I have all this pent-up anger towards her that I want to express, but I'm worried that confronting her will only inflame the situation and cause more heartache. I have an intense desire to have her understand how I feel, but I'm worried that confronting her will only make me feel worse. Should I let it go or try to get some form of closure?
TL;DR: 
Was being emotionally manipulated.  Not sure If I should confront her about the way she treated me or just free myself from her and let it go.