SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Can you be in love with two guys at the same time?
POST: I'm [21F] very confused, I have a bf [22M] and I've been with him for two years and I love him so much, but I a few months ago I started hanging  out with this guy [21M] who used to be my friend way back, and he's in love with me and he told me that he knows I have a bf and he respects that so he'll just try to get over me but as time kept passing and my bf was away for four months we began to talk more and I began getting these mixes feelings and I think I fell for him really hard, problem is my friend is really hurting because of me and I can't tell him I love him because when I'm with my bf I love him exactly the same, and I don't know what to do it's killing me that I love them both and neither one of them deserves to get hurt.
TL;DR: 
I think I'm in love with both my boyfriend and my best guy friend and I'm too confused about what to do...