SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [31M] chatting with [31F]
POST: A few weeks ago I started texting with this girl I met over okcupid. She is really nice to chat with and we have a lot in common. She was a in relationship for over 10 years, and hasn't dated since, and she has a little extra weight on her, so she is very apprehensive of meeting up. I am totally ok with texting until she is comfortable with meeting in person. My problem is this: I always have to initiate conversation, and she seems flaky to me. She is always on facebook. She works nights, so I don't know when she is up or not, but I will jump on facebook and see that she has been posting for hours. I am not stalking her, if that's what you're thinking, the shit just pops up on my news feed. So my questions is this: why does she never text me first? when I am texting with her, and I see that like 20 minutes after I sent her a text, she posts something to facebook, is she just ignoring me? what can I do to help her to feel comfortable with meeting in person?
TL;DR: 
shy girl is always posting to facebook, and I feel like I am getting ignored. she is too shy to meet in person, how do I help her get over that?