SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] trying to reignite the flame.
POST: I was great friends with this girl I knew from highschool for my whole time there and the summer after. 3 of those 4 years I was dating someone. We fooled around from time to time and I was wrong for cheating (I realize I was a young little dumbass brat haha) on my current gf with her but I loved it more than the gf. She is beyond gorgeous, her mindset is perfect, she makes me laugh and I've honestly never been more myself then with her. We went seperate ways in college and right before we left she told me she had loved me for 3 years. I was an idiot not to see it so clearly. It's just built up and now I either feel like its too late (juniors in college) or shes playing hard to get. I hardly get responses from her over text but when i do she always wants to hang out.... butttt never actually does. <<<----Confused Male. Help.
TL;DR: 
Girl claims "Loved me for 3 years" while I was dating someone. Said Ex is no longer in the picture. Want to re-fule the spark in her playing hard to get. How?