SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend[27 M] for close to a year, we absolutely can't stop fighting. Is this normal or are we just incompatible?
POST: I feel like we're in this intense power struggle phase where we just can't seem to stop our arguments. It was all smooth sailing in the beginning, as it always is. We care about each other deeply, and we both know this. But we can't see eye to eye on many things anymore. We fight about everything and what's worse is when we fight, we fail to see it the way the other person does almost 90% of the time. 

Both of us always have to make a point to make sure the other person sees it the way we do, and if we don't, it just turns into this huge clusterfuck. And then he gets mad because I don't understand. Or I get frustrated because he doesn't understand. It's just a mess.
TL;DR: 
Do most couples go through a phase where there's just constant fighting? How do we stop this? How do you know if you're actually just incompatible with someone?