SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Update: My [24F] husband [25M] was secretively looking for a fuck buddy and meeting up with girls. I'm leaving him today.
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The main issues presented that made me feel like I couldn't leave him were: my car was broken down, I couldn't afford rent, and we work at the same place. I did a lot of brainstorming this week, got my car fixed, contacted an out of state family member and concocted a plan. I'm "sick" today, nothing is suspicious outwardly, but I'm actually packing up all of my shit and hitting the road for good by 1pm. I'll be staying in their spare room until I get things together. He won't be seeing me tonight, or ever again.

I got  a lot of feedback that genuinely helped push me to this decision. Its been a fucking *exhausting* week trying to pretend that I know nothing. It's been miserable having the compulsion to check his messages only to become nauseated by what I find and then him hugging me when he gets home. I can't wait to  finally leave this abusive relationship after 3 years of hell.

I see a lot of therapy and tears in my future, but right now I'm letting anger drive and motivate me. I also see hope and happiness. I cannot wait to see my family and friends that he's forced me to cut contact with. I an't wait to feel like a worthwhile human being again, to finish college and to have some great, fulfilling, mind-blowing sex.

p.s. don't get married young.
TL;DR: 
Stayed in an abusive marriage for too long, husband now cheating and I'm leaving him today thanks to your help.