SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [28 M], he rarely comes to bed with me at night and it bothers me.
POST: Hi Reddit,

I'm not really sure if I am "justified" for feeling this way and this is something that other people can relate to, or if I am just being a whiny baby. I have a set routine and go to bed normally around 1 am on the weekdays, but my boyfriend who I live with and has to get up at 7:30 am for work the next day always ends up staying up well past 2 am and sometimes even 3 am playing video games, web surfing, masturbating, etc.  He often complains of fatigue as a result and always resolves to go to bed earlier, but just never does. And for some reason, this really annoys me.

At first I just put aside my annoyance because I couldn't really find a reason for it. Our sex life isn't really affected by this, he's an adult who can decide when he wants to go to bed or not, I should be able to fall asleep by myself, etc, etc. But it bothers me. For some reason that I can't quite put a finger on or rationalize, I feel neglected and lonely.

I haven't really communicated this issue with him because I couldn't rationalize it in my head and thus thought I should take care of it myself, but now it's gotten to a point where he stays late every weekday night (and sometimes weekends) and I'm beginning to resent him. How should I even go about addressing this? Or should I? Has anyone else experienced this as well? Can you please share your thoughts?
TL;DR: 
Boyfriend rarely comes to bed with me (~5 nights in a week). I feel neglected and lonely for reasons I can't rationalize, and have begun to resent him for it. Has anyone else experienced this as well?