SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bf (27m) is still friends with many of the girls he's slept with. How do I (26f) learn to deal?
POST: My boyfriend is friends with many of the girls he's dated or slept with in the past and actively interacts with them through text and Facebook. He does not seek to hang out with them in person. He says he doesn't even like some of these people, but feels an obligation to continue a friendship with them because he has a desire to please people. We've discussed it, and he knows where I'm coming from and why this would bother me. To be clear, I trust him completely and know everyone has a past. I just hate being reminded of his. But, I don't want to be the girl who says "you can't talk to so-and-so." So I need to accept that nothing is going to change. I don't know how. Any advice?
TL;DR: 
Boyfriend is still in contact with exes through social media and text. Nothing is going to change. How do I deal?