SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: About to give up. I need advice.
POST: Three years ago my gf left me. It sucked but I got over it. But I haven't found anyone since.

Nobody wants to date me. I tried, fuck I tried. Now I'm stuck in the middle of nowhere, I barely speak the language, there's almost nothing I can find online in english.

Nothing unusual huh? Classic story, the guy who can't find a partner. God I can't even find *friends* at this point. I'd take a board gaming or movie group any day but there's *nothing*.

I'm well off but I can't move - I'm stuck here, supporting my aunt since nobody else in my family will help her.

Oh yeah I tried online dating. Forget that. I'm below average in terms of looks... I don't even get any replies. OKCupid has like 30 matches for me. Half of them haven't been online in a year. No replies from anyone else. I considered tinder but if it's going to be the same story there I'd honestly want to kill myself.

And today I find this girl... cute, nearby, into the same stuff I am, 92% match and so on. On her profile she's super outgoing and open to chatting with anyone etc, like really not shallow. I send her a message complimenting one of her drawings, no reply. Later I send her a second one, nothing either. I don't want to send anything else now else it's too much. But is that really what this is like now?

I'm not *that* ugly. I know I'm a little overweight (and working on it), but it barely shows on the pictures. I showed my profile to a couple of honest friends to help me improve it. Now wtf is wrong with me that I get the cold shoulder on absolutely everything, even on my best shots?

Three years that I tell myself to keep going, keep trying my hand at various things and it'll improve. Almost four years now.  Stopped caring about sex a long time ago, I just want company at this point. I'd honestly take a fucking *hello* back and I can't even get that.
TL;DR: 
just downvote and move on. i don't need this on the front page, i just wanted it off my chest.