SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm 22/f living with a 22/m and our friends. The relationship is on the rocks, so should I move out and move on, or try to make it work?
POST: I've been dating my bf since college. We moved out to a big city together with a group of friends because it was cheap to live together, but we weren't really relationship ready to live together. 

He's nice, easy-going, and my parent's love him. Statistically, it's a great relationship. But for the past year since moving in together, we've fought non-stop. 

When I'm with him, I love him, but when I'm away from him, I couldn't care less about him. (I know that sounds harsh, and I'm not the harsh type, I've just gotten to that point). I know this isn't healthy, but if we broke up, I would feel like a failure. That I couldn't make a seemingly perfect relationship last. I'm trying not to be a typical 22 year old searching for my perfect knight in shining armor, and that my 40 year old self would tell me to appreciate the guy who wants to talk things out, is honest, and nice. However, I don't feel the "spark" anymore. Does that really exist?

And, there's the problem that we live together. He's a great roommate, so I want to live with him and our friends. But that apparently isn't an option. (I haven't seen the movie The Breakup, so I wouldn't really know if the ductape across the bed really works). 

What would you do reddit? Keep trying to make a relationship work because he's logically a great match? Or move on bc the 'spark' is gone?
TL;DR: 
live with my bf of three years, and it's looking grim on the homefront, should I move out and move on?