SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my gf [17F] broke up after 2 months and I'm confused
POST: I know this is not a super long relationship by any means, but I was really thinking it was going to last longer. Another part is that she was the first girl I've ever had close to me and it stings.

 

The reasoning behind the whole break up is because she went with the "its not you, its me" and I believe this to be true too for her. It did not take me by complete surprise, yet I am still sad about it because she is so unique and I still want to develop a relationship with her.

 

I am just lost at what I should go next as I feel like kind of blindsided and naive when it came to this as a whole. I know she did not take enough time out of the day for me but I also feel like I pushed it too qucikly and somewhat suffocated her with it.
TL;DR: 
I just broke up with my first gf and am not sure what to do from here. I would like to remain with her or maybe in the future but am unsure.