SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (19) with everyone; Everything I do it to please others, leaving me with extreme guilt when I fail to do so.
POST: This is a personal issue, and I'm not sure if this belongs here but I can't think of another sub to put it in.

I've talked with a close friend about this and we came to the realization that everything I do is to make other happy. From doing what I think pleases my parents (M/F; 60s) to playing along with friends even when I don't agree or don't like what's going on, to even avoiding issues with my SO (M/24) to avoid conflict and arguments; I want everyone to be happy with me, regardless of what I think.

The most recent example of this is tonight, where I'm not super thrilled that my LDR SO hasn't really held a conversation with me all week, and hasn't touched base all day. So I sent a text saying I was heading to bed and hoped we could touch base tomorrow to which he profusely apologized but now I feel awful for guilt tripping. Which, is honestly reading too much into the situation. We do need to talk about bettering our communication but I'm afraid to have a serious talk for fear he will be upset. 

In all my relationships, they take longer to develop because I'm reluctant to express my own needs and wants out of fear that I'll upset or hurt the other person. I so don't want to be a burden, and I'm so afraid of conflict that I put everyone before myself to a fault. I realize this and recognize it, but can't stop feeling guilty over little things, or things that happened a while ago. 

On another note, I constantly apologize for things that aren't my fault. I say sorry often, but not as a thing to say, but as an honest to God apology for whatever happened. It's part of the whole feeling guilty for everything, even just kind of being alive I guess. 

I really just don't know how to stop feeling guilty for everything; and I know I'll only hurt myself in the future if I can't express my feelings without worrying about hurting someone.
TL;DR: 
The Catholic and Irish guilt is strong in me, and in doing so I hurt my relationships with friends and family, as well as my relationship with myself.