SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [32 M] with my SOish [22 M] of 2 years, how to tell him good bye when he leaves after college
POST: Summer 2014 after being together for over a year, we break up in a fight when he reminds me he's leaving the country in 10 months (when he graduates) and then says he doesn't want to continue a relationship when that happens so we should just end it now.

2 months go by and we start dating again but he insists he isn't trying to get back into a relationship, so we won't call ourselves boyfriends.

Cut to now. He's been asking if I'm going to visit and mentioning staying in touch. Which I would be all for if we were going to continue having a relationship, but the reason he broke up with me was he wanted to 'leave everything behind' and start fresh. So, my guess is that we would be friends when he leaves. I would like to visit him, but my plan was just to date him until he leaves. Say good bye and move on. Of course I would *like* to go visit him, but I don't think I'm ready for 'just friends' and visiting him as the ex is somewhat odd to me. I would like to have the option open though because it's always nice to have someone you know in another country.

But I'm not really ok with this flip flop about not wanting to continue and then yet wanting me to visit. How do I tell him I don't have plans on visiting him or being in contact with him once he leaves? Or should I just leave it be and let it fade out like it inevitably will anyway? My preference would definitely be to continue a relationship, but I'm 90% sure he's not interested in that anymore.
TL;DR: 
Guy I'm dating is leaving the country. He wanted to not stay in touch, now he does, and I'm not sure I'm cool with that. What do?