Title: (Private College, New York) Charged $10K for an unfinished semester due to withdrawal from the college

Question:
I recently received an email from my old college about the strides they've been making in terms of mental health issues and how they deal with them. I see this as an issue that has gotten significantly better even in the past 5-7 years. However, when I went there (2007-2010), I was involved in an incident where I was essentially asked to withdraw, or told that I'd be kicked out. I'm typically not one to use mental illness as a crutch or so I can start a pity party, but I was experiencing some extreme depression and anxiety during this period of my life, which took the form of heavy drinking and reckless behavior. I had 2 underage drinking violations on my record, and a handful of smoking violations (we were not allowed to smoke cigarettes on campus).  I've taken accountability for the dumb things I've done, and I honestly view the choice I was given as a second chance (I withdrew, so there wasn't anything major on my permanent record).

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However, after I withdrew, I was charged $10k for the semester I didn't finish, and when I didn't have $10k, the college sent the debt to a collection agency and refused to release my transcript. So in addition to trying to manage my mental health issues, some drinking issues, and the fact that I didn't have a college degree to get a good-paying job, I had to figure out a way to pay back $10k so I could continue my college education (not counting all the other student loan debt). I can't deny that this was a major setback, and it took me the better part of 8 years to finally pay off the debt.

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I never officially challenged the college about the fairness of the debt, because I thought it was more about me taking accountability and paying for the mistakes I'd made, but now I'm wondering if I have any recourse. In retrospect, this seems like an unfair move for a college to place on a person who was clearly vulnerable and experiencing a difficult time in their life, and especially when they've worked hard to make strides toward protecting those with mental health issues. Thanks in advance for any advice.

Answer: If you signed a contract saying that you were on the hook for the money, you still owed it, no matter what the reason for your withdrawal was.


Title: Can my employer legally not pay me?

Question: I received notice from my boss that we are required to go to a meeting in Indiana. He advised me that we would be compensated for an 8 hour work day. He also said we have to carpool but he will use his credit card to cover gas. It’s a 4 and a half hour drive from here in Kentucky (9 hour round trip) and the meeting is supposed to last for 3 hours. I get paid hourly. Can they legally require that I go without compensating me for the other 4+ hours?

Answer: Travel time beyond getting to the office is work. If your driving, do not just accept his card for gas only, for using your own vehicle you should also be reimbursed between $0.40 to $0.60 per mile. It accounts for gas and wear and tear on the car.


Title: (NY) Custody and Domestic Violence - emotional not physical

Question:
I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend/father of my child. I will likely have to leave the state and go to MD so my daughter and I have a place to live. We were never married. He is on the birth certificate, but we have no custody agreement in place as he believes we are staying together.

He has been emotionally/verbally abusive for the past 2 years. He's careful to never lay a hand on me.

I have a short video clip of him blocking me from leaving my apartment in which he is crying and saying he's going to cut his wrists if I go.

I have a laptop that he broke by punching it (he saw an email where I was looking for an apartment without him and he wanted to destroy my computer so I couldn't look for an apartment anymore)

I have screen shots of text messages where he mentions that he can't take care of the baby (as in he is incapable of watching her while I'm not home) and I'm going to look and see if there are any texts with references to his drug use for me to also screenshot

I have pictures of his drugs and paraphernalia that he keeps in the house where we all live. I am constantly holding my 10 month old or putting her in the crib/high chair because the only safe place for her is in my arms or the crib or high chair. I will attempt to get a picture of him using the drugs in the house.

He was supposed to be a SAHD, but when I went back to work he couldn't handle it. He continued his drug use and I believe he neglected her. I hired a babysitter until I found suitable daycare, and he still stays at home doing nothing.

I do not wish for him to have any rights at all. He's a toxic person. He has banned my friends and family from visiting me at home, and he does not allow me to go out more than once or twice a month unless it is to go to work or the grocery store. He tells me he will kill himself if I leave and he'll make sure that my daughter knows that it is my fault. He buys me desserts and tells me it's so nice of him to buy me treats, and if I don't want to eat it, he screams at me for not appreciating him. When I eat it he tells me he's going to make me so fat that nobody else will ever want me and I won't be able to run away. He always tells me how nice he is to me, but then he tells me I'm an idiot, I'm worthless, I'm ugly, I'm going to ruin my daughter, and I'm not emotional enough. He says I'm like a robot because I don't have feelings and I don't express emotion to him.

He tried to delete my facebook and block my access from it because I use it to talk to friends and family. He checks my phone for texts and emails. I'm not allowed to use my phone when he's home because that's "his time" with me. He doesn't know my reddit name, and I only use reddit while I'm at work so he doesn't find out about it.

I want him gone. I want him to know how badly he's hurt me and to be punished. I want him to be responsible for replacing the things of mine that he has broken, and I want him to be responsible for child support without ever getting to see or contact his daughter. But I know that is likely impossible. I know that the courts prefer both parents to remain in contact with the child.

What can I do to protect her and myself?
Topic:
Custody Divorce and Family

Answer:
 You are going to need to file for a formal custody agreement through the court.  He's on the birth certificate, so he has a right to see his daughter, and if you plan to be the primary custodian, you will have to facilitate that relationship.

New York does provide attorneys for custody cases if you cannot afford your own.  You will need to file an out of state move with the court or he could end up having your daughter returned to him.


Title: [IA] Mother in-law is co-owner of our house and does not consent to sale. She refuses to sign the deed.

Question:
About two years ago, my wife and I (sort of) purchased our first home.  At the time, my credit score was awful, so my wife took out the mortgage in her name with her parents as cosigners.  They are both listed as co-owners on the deed, and they helped us with the down payment.  All mortgage payments, insurance, utilities, and association fees have been handled independently by us.

I recently accepted a job offer in another state, and the in-laws do not approve of us moving.  When we broke the news, my MIL threw a 24-hour temper tantrum.  She has emotionally abused my wife since childhood, and their relationship has long been on the verge of outright failure.  After some of the insults we received and her vile behavior last week, we no longer want to maintain any sort of personal relationship.

We gave her a few days to cool off, and she has now declared that she will not sign the deed for the sale of our townhome.  I have a non-flexible start date in about three months, and the realtor told us to expect up to two months to sell the place.  In the worst case, we can afford to pay the mortgage on top of a new rent for a few months, from our savings.  Obviously, this is not a sustainable solution.

We have to assume that the MIL will dig her heels in on this.  She's a textbook narcissist, and she holds all the cards (attorney, wealth, etc.).  FIL is a bit of a wildcard; he says he supports our decision, but he's dependent on MIL for medical care, and he might do whatever he needs to appease her.  Staying here is not an option.  Our decision has been made, and we'll be moving one way or another.  Assuming things don't cool down, what are our legal options?  How are these disputes usually resolved?
Topic:
Real Estate law

Answer:
 You can legally claim a resulting trust. You can legally claim partition.

In both cases, you would have a long road of litigation with uncertain results. If you are on a timeline, you have a problem. See an attorney. He will not make you happier, but he will put you on the path to resolution.


Title: [US-LA] My sister stole Vyvanse pills from me. What can I do?

Question:
She has a history of stealing medication and stealing in general. She has stolen pain meds from family before and shes a huge leech on all of us, however, my family always lets her pass when she steals. This time, she stole prescription medication from me and I've had it with her. What can I do if I want her to pay for her actions? So far all I have proof related is text messages to my other sister where she said she wants to get her hands on some ADHD meds and was asking where she could get some the day before she stole it from me. I have reason to believe my niece (my other sisters daughter, 10 years old) was with her at the time she would have stopped by my house without me there. She can NOT get away with this.

also, she stole 11 of them. I count them often, and i had counted them before I left my house so I KNOW she did it.

Can I go to the police with accusations considering her record, the texts, and my niece placing her there at the time she says she did not stop by?

This happened on Saturday, which means she still has these pills and without a proper prescription container.

Answer: You can always go to the police and file a report.  We can't offer whether they will take any action.  Answer #2: Call the police, report the theft. The theft is a crime in addition to the possession of a controlled substance without a prescription.Answer #3: In addition to the police, you should call your prescribing doctor and tell them what happened. Depending on your insurance, you may be able to get them replaced. They're (insurance, possibly your doctor) likely going to want a police report, though, because of the high probability of abuse/selling of that medication. I had a similar thing happen to me a few years ago and I had to have a police report before I could get them replaced. It was kind of a hassle but if you're going to be out of them for 11 days, it's probably worth it to try.


Title: Legality of Craigslist Add (quasi-hypothetical, and not me)

Question:
http://i.imgur.com/GLTfqFU.png

Just wondering if this is opening him up to any legal trouble. By renting a place, isn't he technically a landlord in a month to month tenancy (even for "free"). And what about the whole sharing a bed thing? (Is there something that says it has to be a room to be a tenant? What about bf/gf situations?)

Let's say he gets some poor non-English speaking girl to agree, but then she realizes what he is actually wanting.

Answer: "Friends with benefits" implies sex. Exchanging sex for goods or services is prostitution. An illegal tenant is the least of his concerns.


Title: (MA)GF and I are due in court tomorrow for eviction, is she allowed to stay home; am I allowed to work out a payment plan on her behalf since both names are on the lease?

Question: I just really dont want to put her through something like this. we have like two months on the lease, have last month paid plus security deposit and owe like eighteen hundred dollars so I know we're just going to be working out a payment plan. she makes a bit more than I do and in negotiating the plan to pay, her salary will partly be needed. Is there any way I can do this alone and let her stay at home?

Answer:
 She should appear. It is never a good idea to skip a court date when you're party to the case. If she's not prepared or has a significant scheduling conflict, then she - not you - should talk to the clerk of the court about requesting a continuance, but the courts tend to be skeptical of continuances for evictions as tenants can use them to drag out the eviction for no good reason.

~~Your certainty that you'll be able to negotiate a payment plan that will preserve your tenancy is likely misplaced. That may have been practical before your landlord filed to evict you, but at this point you're dealing with a question of whether the law supports your landlord's proposed remedy of evicting you. If you're almost two grand behind on rent, the answer to that question is almost certainly "yes, the tenants should be evicted for non-payment" unless there were defects in the eviction process somewhere. If you can't pay in full, it's very likely that the judge will order you evicted. You may still be able to negotiate a payment plan for the arrears in your rent, but, without your landlord's willing agreement, that's not likely to protect your tenancy.~~ (Edit: see u/bornconfuzed's reply, below.)

You are not "putting [your girlfriend] through this," at this point: she is. It's entirely her decision whether to go to court or not. If she doesn't, and things go badly, she won't get a chance to present arguments she should present tomorrow if she skips tomorrow's court date without an overwhelmingly good reason. In your shoes, it would be irresponsible to advise her to stay home. In her shoes, it would be even more irresponsible to take that advice.


Title: Car was towed from a handicap spot. Im actually handicapped. Have the designated plate. What can I do? (PA)

Question:
My car was towed from the parking lot at a grocery store. No notice over the intercom to come move it. Just came out and it was gone. I went back in to speak with a manager after the moment of panic thinking my car was stolen. Turns out someone complained seeing me get out of my car and walk in and they had it towed.

Im actually handicapped. Got in an accident when i was 5 from being hit by a drunk driver and severely tore my acl and mcl. Lucky to be walking as well as i am, but nonetheless, still technically handicapped. I park at the farthest spot they go and save the closest spots for people with more obvious handicaps.

What can I do to avoid paying these outrages tow fees? Just moved into a new place, so im trying to keep a tight budget.

Answer:
 I would think that this would be on the store.

Their lot is private property.  If I call a tow company and request service to remove a car from my private property they will provide this service.  The tow driver is not enforcing parking laws.  They are providing a service as requested by the property owner.

The tow driver doesn't know the story. Perhaps the car was abandoned?  Perhaps the owner was taken to the hospital and there was no friend/family to remove the car? Tows for reasons like this should be fairly common. The fact that the car was parked legally isn't an automatic red flag. All that the tow driver knows is that they were hired by a private property owner to remove a car from their property.

The store should be responsible to pay the tow company for the service that they erroneously requested.Answer #2: Off-topic question: Even if they thought you were using a handicap plate improperly (i.e. loaning your vehicle to a non-handicapped person and that person parking in a handicap space) wouldn't that be between vehicle owner and the police, not vehicle owner and tow company?


Title: [USA - SC] Made a film with my partner, got accepted into film festivals. Broke up, no contact. Now my partner wins an award from our Uni for the film, gets $ and claims the film belongs to them.

Question:
Hello all, I come to you today with a problem, in South Carolina.

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This is about a short film, made by me, my (then) partner, and 2 other students last Spring. It was a project for a class at a University. It was successful enough to be accepted into a few film festivals.

We go to one festival, thanks to our Uni's research dept granting us funds. Then after that, we break up, last October. After that, no communication from them.

Now in Feb, my partner receives an award, to the tune of the lower end of 4 digits (for reimbursement, festival applications, etc - not personal money). The school lists them as the recipient of the award, and no one else involved in the project. The award page doesn't even list the other members.

Also a quote from my partner: *"I'll have you know that the faculty of our school sat down with me and asked me to take the money, I applied as a formality afterwards.”* (This was on fb, screenshotted). They also claimed they did most of the work and could do as they pleased.

So, wtf! What is my recourse? I don't want to jump straight to legal action (is there even any?), but what exactly does one do in these situations? I am currently trying to contact faculty about this, because that was my first thought. **All I want is for both of our names to be listed as the creators of the film. And for the award to be made out to the both of us (or no one). No money, nada. Is that such a complicated idea?**

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We made the film during our 2nd Junior Semester, last Spring, and it got accepted into a few film festivals. When we applied, we used 2 sites: Withoutabox, and Filmfreeway.

On WithoutaBox, I am listed as "Executive Director, Sound Editor, Sound Mixer, Submission Contact". On Filmfreeway, I am "Producer". They are "Director, Editor" on the former and "Director" on the latter. Both sites have had submissions & accepteds in different festivals.

I have attempted to contact faculty at the Uni. I started with my mentor and the professor who's class we were in when we made this film. Turns out, that prof was on the board that approved the award for my partner. So color me biased, but it didn't then surprise me that the prof basically defended my partner and told me just to move forward and try to contact my partner / work with them again on the promotion of the film. The prof also brought up that Uni owns any material we make, which I do know, but I find odd that it would come up when I'm talking about just receiving due credit.

I am currently trying to figure out which Faculty members would be best to further contact.

-List of things that I did:

* Communicated people involved in the film (interviews)
* Handled coordination of filming sessions b/w the interviewees and the team
* Rented necessary equipment from our Uni
* Recorded all the sound (ambient noise + interviews)
* Shot video (all 4 of us did)
* Did a bit of interviewing (either 3 or 4 of us did)
* Transcribed all the dialogue in a readable format to help with editing
* Assisted with the editing process (a little actual editing, mostly reviewing available footage, and giving feedback through the development of the editing process- my partner did the bulk of the Editing)
* Helped construct the narrative with my partner
* All sound mixing (levels) & editing (cleaning up audio, etc)
* Built and served a custom website from my personal server
* did research on film festivals to apply to (my partner also helped)
* spent money on film festival applications (my partner also helped)
* Composited promotional images for the film for festival press kits
* Researched applied to our Uni's office for student grants, in order to fly out to a film festival

The other 2 members just showed up, took some footage, and helped a bit with the interviews. Thats it. They were done with the project after the last day of shooting.

I have tried to be as objective as possible. Obviously this a year old and my account of it, so take it as you will. My point is that it was a 50/50 production and we both deserve the credit. Once again, I am listed as the Exec. Producer / Producer, and my partner as the Director.

I'm not sure what else is relevant, but I can try and provide more info as needed.

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Thank you all for reading this, and helping out. I truly appreciate it.

Answer:
 IANAL - just some questions:

What information regarding your role in the production do you have in writing (including email or text message conversations)?

What production materials do you have copies of?Answer #2: I am not a lawyer.

First, talk to the department head -- the professor's boss.

Most universities have a student ombudsman -- someone there to help a student with conflicts or problems with faculty.  You may need to contact the office of the Dean of Students (sometimes called Student Life or Student Affairs) to find out who the ombudsman is.

If talking to the department head doesn't help, ask to make an appointment with the ombudsman, or, if one doesn't exist, a relevant person in the Dean of Students office.   (You don't have to get into details, just tell them "I have a conflict with a professor over the rights to work that I did with another student.")

Then get together anything you have that shows you did the work with the partner and take it to your appointment.

Answer #3: This should all be sorted out in the contracts that you drew up before the start of production and/ or your crew deal memo.

If you want to work in film I would write this off as having learned two cheap lessons:

1. Get it in writing, in a contract, before you start work.
2. Credit is nothing, day rate is everything.


Title: Endangered species near my property and neighbor wants to build (Florida)

Question:
I built my home on my property several years ago with approval from my town. I have since noticed some animals (I won't be too specific to avoid being identified) nesting in the forest on the side of my home. I am not a professional but it looks like depending on the species it could be "threatened" or "special concern" status.

Now my neighbor wants to build on her land next to my property and clear alot of that forest where I have seen the animals. I actually want the town to disapprove of her building because of the impact to my land. Could telling the EPA stop this, or telling the town council?

I didn't check with a specialist to identify the species because I am worried they would be required to report me for my recent building even though I didn't know. Do I have anything to worry about?

Answer: Nesting makes me think birds. If so, you may be more interested in the [Migratory Bird Treaty Act of 1918](http://www.fws.gov/birds/policies-and-regulations/laws-legislations/migratory-bird-treaty-act.php). If you are speaking about one of the 800+ species on the list, you want to contact US Fish and Wildlife. They would be able to give you guidance.


Title: Would my family be liable if I died after breaking an NDA?

Question:
Would they be liable? Would my assets still go to my family?

[New York]

Answer:
 http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Just in case, OP. Answer #2: No one else is liable since they didn't sign the NDA.

That doesn't mean your estate cannot be sued.


Title: Question about bringing edibles on a plane

Question:
I'm traveling from Seattle to Los Angeles this weekend where in both states weed is legal and I was wondering if anyone knew if I would be allowed to take edibles with me on the plane?
Topic:
Drug Possession

Answer:
 It is illegal everywhere in the United States under Federal Law.

And guess who is in charge of air travel?


Title: Employer forced parents to move home from property within 30 days, threatening to keep it if they didn't (Canada)

Question:
This happened in Manitoba, Canada.

Mostly I'm asking about this for curiosity sake now, since the situation is already a few years over and done with. It's been on my mind again lately so I figured I'd ask and see what you folks have to say.

My parents moved to this country decades ago and bought a small trailer home. Shortly after moving here, they were hired by the owner of a large farm. The owner had them move their trailer home onto some land on the farm itself that he had setup for the purpose, so we could live there while my dad worked for them.

From what I understand we were not given the land to keep, but were allowed to move a home we owned onto that land.

And there it stayed for over 20+ years. During that time the owner who hired my dad died, and his son (and his grandson) took over the business. It was always promised (not in writing as far as I know) to my family that we could stay after my dad retired, and so after an illness and many long years of work, my dad did just that.

As soon as he did they said we had to leave, and that we had 30 days to get out and take our house with us or they were going to keep it.

We quickly found a place and moved the house, but I always wondered about that. After having lived on the property for that long, does anything change? Would they have been able to keep our house if we had not been able to so quickly find a place, the money, and the ability to move the entire damn thing (plus all the other buildings we had put up with their permission over the years)?

What sort of legal options would have been available to my parents in these circumstances?

Thanks for your time.

Answer:
 I do recall reading an Ontario decision where a long-time tenant/employee who had substantially contributed to the maintenance and development of the property (a lodge, IIRC) was awarded a share of the property.Answer #2: Land tenancies are interesting beasts, and it's not clear that your parents received sufficient notice, _but_: like most tenancies, a land tenancy can be terminated either per the terms of the lease, or with adequate notice if the land tenancy is at will or periodic. A tenancy that runs for an extended period of time is no different from one that runs for less than a year, in that respect, and your parents likely didn't have any right to the land other than as permitted by their tenancy.

Since your parents did comply, voluntarily, it's a moot point, but had they not vacated the next step would have been for the land owner to sue to eject them from the property. A court can decide whether the owner has a right to recover possession and remove the trailer forcibly (by, eg., having it towed and billing the trailer's owners).


Title: Will I go to jail for this?

Question: Long story short, I have 5 items that I was given for free by the company under the pretense that I would return them in 2-3 weeks. I didn't sign anything, all the discussion was over email. These items are pretty pricey (about $2k each). I live in the US and this company is in Switzerland. What are the legalities of this?

Answer:
 >  What are the legalities of this?

You agreed to return them, so return them.  Otherwise, you could be sued or charged with fraud.


Title: [hypothetical] Trolley car dilemma. Should I pull the lever?

Question:
An empty trolley car is barreling down train tracks at high speed. I am standing at a junction box next to a lever.

The trolley car's current path will take it down a rail line to a bridge where I can see 4 people working on the track. There's no time to warn them. They won't see the trolley car coming. There's no place to escape to. They're on a rail bridge. Its certain death for them if the trolley car goes that way.

But there is another rail line. This one also goes to a bridge. I can see on this other rail bridge there's 1 person working there. There's no way for this person to be warned or to escape either. Its certain also death.

If I do nothing, 4 people will die.

If I pull the lever, 1 person will die because of my actions, but my actions would have saved the lives of 4 people.

What should I do? Should I pull the lever?
Topic:
Criminal Law

Answer: Please write your own PHIL 101 term paper.


Title: Got caught smoking weed in Croatia

Question:
My parents are from Croatia, and we travel there each year from Norway (where we live and I study). Last night civil police caught me and my cousin with 0.5 g. I took the blame, and they filed a report using my Drivers License, and told me to return the next day and pay 800 dollar (approx). They have my drivers license there still, and I won't get it back before we pay. If we pay in the next 8 days the fine will stay 800, if not, it will rise to about 1000.

What are my options. What will happen if I refuse to pay and claim the police stole my License. Etc. Please help

Answer:
 I am not certified to practice law in Croatia (yet), but here's some worldwide legal advice....

Do not refuse to pay a fine and then lie about where your license is.  Answer #2: Pay the fine. When you're visiting another country you are subject to their laws. You're just lucky that possession was decriminalized there a few years ago and your fine is actually relatively low, it could've been 4-5 times that much.

If you want to try to fight it, contact a lawyer in that area.


Title: I Have Proof A Pawn Shop Gave Away My $3000 Guitar Before The Payment Date Was Due...

Question:
..which is illegal in the state of MI or anywhere im sure. I also have proof of this. I have the pawn ticket still, and managed to track down the person that recieved the guitar who posted on facebook pictures of it with my very distinct case with certain stickers on it. His pictures are dated Feb 7th, and the payment date was Feb 8th. I have a million pics of my guitar and case, exacty matching the ones in his pics. Theres no denying its mine. Plus the guy posted a full story of how he got it from them and named the pawn shop and the people who work there. I took screen shots of all of his pics before he blocked me.
Im just wondering if there is a certain type of attorney I should contact or whats the best route to go. Im pretty clueless on this kind of stuff. I appreciate any advice you can give me. Thank you!

Answer:
 You can probably report it to your state's attorney general/consumer affairs division.  That would at least get the pawn shop in hot water.

What is your end game though?  Are you actually trying to get the guitar back?  If so, would you have been able to repay the money before the final date on the pawn ticket?  Answer #2: Did you make a payment before the due date?Answer #3: Were you able to make the payment? I'd think that in order to have any hope getting the guitar back (use the advice of the comments before mine.. because I'm NOT a lawyer...) You're going to have to prove that you could and would and can and will make the payments to get the guitar back.

If you were to start the process on reporting the pawn shop the first thing I *imagine* you'd need to do is provide payment. Answer #4: You have a valid cause for replevin. Speak with a Michigan attorney for more information since the pawn shop violated the terms of the secured transaction.Answer #5: When did you first become aware of the fact that your guitar was sold?

Did you make a payment (or attempt to) by the due date?

Did you say anything to the pawn shop that would lead them to believe that you wouldn't be paying by the due date?

What happened between Feb 7 and now, and what actions have you taken between then and now?


Title: Hirer won't return gazebo [NZ]

Question:
I am so sorry but I don't really know where else to put this - I'm in Auckland, New Zealand. I know it is primarily an American subreddit but I really would like some help on what to do next.

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My family is self employed. My father and my mother sell outdoor furniture - more specifically, gazebos. Last Tuesday a woman came to hire one of our gazebos, let's call her Mary. She's 41. So Mary emails to our business, inquires about hiring a gazebo (mind you, it was a very expensive model) and we told her that it was fine and to come pick it up. And we specifically said this:

Please note: If you disagree with these terms and conditions or any part of these terms and conditions, we are unable to accept your booking. By going through with the transaction, you are implying that you have read and hereby agree to these terms and conditions.

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She pays. Then, a few days later, she asks for an extension, and we said it was all good and so she said she would return it on Saturday morning. We ask her to pay in advance. She says, and I quote, 'No sorry \[sic\] I can't until tomorrow'. This was 3 days ago. Right now, it's Saturday 8:25pm here and no word from her. We've called her. We've sent her an email to basically plead with her to return the gazebo and we would write off the extra cost but still no answer.

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We have a photo of Mary's drivers license, but we really have no idea what to do now. Should we wait for her to respond? Or should we go straight to the police? Is this theft? Each day of hire is $220NZD a day. (So $151.27 in USD)

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Thank you r/legaladvice!!
Topic:
Non-US

Answer:
 This would definitely be considered as theft. I would file a police report for theft then make a claim with the Disputes Tribunal [Small claims court] which can be done online at disputestribunal.govt.nz . You can upload your evidence online and you won’t have to go into court until your hearing. It will cost a small fee $45-$180 depending on how much you are claiming but it would be well worth it.

From Nz also


Title: Accidentally got driver license (not for federal use)

Question: I've got daca and when i renewed my license, it says on it not for federal use... I'm 20 years old and gonna be going to some clubs in atlanta in 1-2 weeks, and i got my license from south carolina. Will the bars let me into the clubs (18+)?  I'm gonna get a new license without the (federal restriction thing) but it won't come in on time before i go to atlanta.

Answer: Yes. The "not for federal use" just means it's not compliant with Real ID federal guidelines. It's still a state-issued ID.


Title: [LA] If someone gets an underage girl pregnant and it's iffy if it happened before or after he turned 18 can he still be charged as an adult?

Question: This wasn't me. Just someone I'm related to. He got his 13 year old stepsister pregnant. Now I will say upfront here just to make it clear I think he is an awful, horrible and disgusting excuse for a person and I hope he rots. I'm only posting here because I am unclear on the law since it's iffy whether he got her pregnant a week before he turned 18 or a week after. His father and stepmother are being supportive of him and won't entertain any thoughts of him going to jail and they think he will be home soon, so I can't ask them what is going on, but if anyone knows about the laws around this I would greatly appreciate an answer.

Answer:
 Being above or below 18 isn't going to make any difference here under Louisiana law, anyone 17 or older can be charged. The determining factor is the age of the victim. For a 13 year old, it would be statutory rape whether or not he was 17 or 18. There is a "Romeo and Juliet" exception in Louisiana (and many other states) that would protect your relative if he were having sex with someone within two years of his age, but that isn't going to apply here.Answer #2: >Now I will say upfront here just to make it clear I think he is an awful, horrible and disgusting excuse for a person and I hope he rots.

I was clear in my original post and every other post I've made here that I don't support or want to defend him. I just had a question about the law. So I don't understand why all my posts are being down-voted or getting hateful messages sent to me. To repeat: I do **not** sympathize with him or support him.


Title: I think I found a mushroom growing in my apartment bathroom. What do I do? [Austin, TX]

Question:
I am a student living in the cheapest apartments I can really afford (4 bed, 4 bath) where we each rent rooms individually. The complex is very large (~40 buildings) and mainly students. I signed a 12 month lease for Sep 2015 - Aug 2016. Last October/November, I renewed the lease for Sep 2016 - Aug 2017.

I'm a very clean person, and there have been a couple issues with pests, and they send pest control who pretty much fails to change anything. The pest issue I've pretty much taken care of myself, but there's still an occasional small bug that seems to get through my terribly "sealed" bedroom window.

Well today, I noticed a tiny thing that appears to be a mushroom (about half the size of my pinky nail; pic: http://imgur.com/9Z8OuRI  - the liquid is anti-mold spray that I sprayed on, and it seems to have started decaying on top) that showed up on the corner of my bathroom floor. I know, from my few interactions, that the maintenance here is EXTREMELY incompetent (they can basically turn a screwdriver and that's it). For this reason, I suspect contacting the complex will end up with them coming to tear that out and saying, "fixed".

My main problem is, I've signed a lease for 16-17 school year. I leave in about 2 weeks for a 3 month summer internship across the country. I can't really afford a lawyer or to move to a nicer place. This is why I've come here for help.

Sorry for the long post, but thanks ahead of time.

Edit: If I shouldn't really worry, that would be great too. I'd rather not deal with a bunch of legal things if it's not a big deal.

Answer:
 > Well today, I noticed a tiny thing that appears to be a mushroom

Why is this a legal issue?  Fungus grows in damp dark places.  Showers are a damp dark place. Fungal spores are in the air everywhere.  The black stuff that normally grows on shower grout is fungus; so are mushrooms.

Suggest you use an old toothbrush to clean the grout, with a bleach solution.  "Tilex" is a good commercial brand.  You can do a good shower cleaning in 45 minutes.  Wear old clothes, and you may want a fan for ventilation.

You're welcome.Answer #2: College is a time for experimentation.  Eat it!Answer #3: A single mushroom is not enough to break your lease. Have your notified your landlord?


Title: My ex is threatening my relationship with my foreign boyfriend.

Question: [deleted]

Answer:
 >We speak for an average of 6 hours a day on skype

Ok, I just have to ask, how do you have time to work and raise a child?Answer #2: Do you have a problem providing the boyfriend's name and address to your ex? That seems like a pretty reasonable compromise. Your ex has a valid concern about knowing at least the name of the person moving in with his child, although he seems to be going about it terribly.

If your ex continues to threaten you with violence and you feel afraid, you may want to look into a domestic violence protection order.


Title: Employer is making employees pay for water while on the job, with no work-around.

Question:
Hey guys. I work for a fairly large fast-food chain, and the store I work for is independently owned and operated. As part of my job, several employees and I work for extended (5hrs+) periods of time outside, where we take orders, collect money, etc. A lot of the time this is in pretty extreme temperature conditions, especially in the summer where the combination of the heat, asphalt, and heat from the cars can lead to temperatures of 110°+.

The employer used to provide drinks from the store free of charge but realised that cups cost a little more money than he knew. So they started charging to get a cup, including for water. Also, it's a very strict rule that we aren't allowed to have any of our own cups or outside food/drink whatsoever. The charge for the cups are only 25¢, but often people don't remember to bring in a quarter and thus are left without water for a lot of their shift. My question is, is it legal to force employees on the clock to pay for water if they want or need it? There is no work-around, if you want a drink you have to pay for it, no exceptions.

Thanks to everyone for their help, I live in the US in the state of Georgia.

Answer:
 Contact OSHA. They require employers to provide potable water to employees. Answer #2: Enjoy:

https://www.osha.gov/pls/oshaweb/owadisp.show_document?p_table=STANDARDS&p_id=9790

https://www.osha.gov/pls/oshaweb/owadisp.show_document?p_table=STANDARDS&p_id=202

https://www.osha.gov/pls/oshaweb/owadisp.show_document?p_id=10413&p_table=STANDARDS

https://www.osha.gov/pls/oshaweb/owadisp.show_document?p_id=10484&p_table=STANDARDS

https://www.osha.gov/pls/oshaweb/owadisp.show_document?p_table=STANDARDS&p_id=10624

https://www.osha.gov/pls/oshaweb/owadisp.show_document?p_table=STANDARDS&p_id=10959

Some may not apply to your particular industry.


Title: Interesting situation at school

Question: One kid at my school has been selling  other people’s nudes (were in 8th) without there permission, what would be the charges associated with this? The kid is going to court but we haven’t found out the charges because it isn’t out there yet.

Answer:
 Possession and distribution of child pornography are both felonies iirc. There will likely be some leniency depending on the kid's age, but these are the kinds of things that the FBI (rather than just your local friendly police force)  tends to get involved in.Answer #2: FYI, their permission doesn't matter in the least.  It's possession and distribution of child porn whether the subject of the pictures says it's OK or not.  If you're under 18, you cannot legally give permission for that kind of thing.

Also, if you're taking the pictures, either of yourself or of another person under 18, that's production of child porn, and is also a felony.  If you have any such pictures, you should delete them immediately.  If asked about them, you should ask for a lawyer.


Title: Landlord told be to vacate premise with in 24hrs or is taking me to court?

Question:
Live in CA,  been a good tenant for 2 years,  was late but paid fee one time,  told Landlord I plan to move out by Feb and just got an email saying I have 24 hours or face legal recourse....
Topic:
Landlord Tenant Housing

Answer:
 Wow, a CA landlord is giving you evidence of an illegal constructive eviction?  This is going to be fun.  The answer is no, that's very illegal.  Make sure you secure all your important documents, make a copy of your lease.  In case the LL tries to change the locks or something.  Answer #2: If he changes the locks or tosses your stuff, call the cops.

Hang onto that email, fwd a copy to a cloud account or something offsite. Same with a copy of your lease.

Tell him you're happy to discuss whatever "legal recourse" he thinks he has with the courts. He's bluffing and trying to intimidate you, although, he's probably a complete idiot as well. California is extremely tenant friendly. If you've lived in the apartment for more than one year he has to give you 60 days notice to leave.


Title: Too Sick to Go Into Jury Duty. Was Told I Couldn’t Postpone and am Going to Receive a Failure to Appear Notice, Which Seems Like it Could Include a Warrant for My Arrest and a Fine. What Can I Do?

Question:
I’m in Maricopa County, AZ. Starting at like 1 AM on the day before I was supposed to appear, I woke up with an anxiety attack and had crap aggressively coming out of me both ways. It was honestly the worst night of my life and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I was stuck in bed all day long with aches and pains, difficulty breathing, and heartburn, but was feeling better. I figured I’d be OK enough to try to go in next morning.

I wasn’t. Still very sick and possibly contagious. I called the day of and informed them I was feeling awful and wondered what I could do to avoid any type of fines or penalties. They said nothing. I’m going to be getting Failure to Appear Notice.

My sincerest apologies for being sick.

Does anyone know what I can do to better my situation? Doctor’s note? This is my first time missing jury duty. I also couldn’t really figure out what exactly the failure to appear thing entails. Sounded serious. I don’t understand why they couldn’t just postpone it... This sucks.

Answer:
 You can call the clerk of courts and let them know you are sick but it's entirely their discretion.  They can ask you for a doctor's note, or not ask for anything at all, but if they say "tough shit come on in" then there's really not much to do.

The judge will not be happy when he has potentially 12 sick people instead of just 1, so he may send you home for an alternate.

If you are issued a Failure to Appear, that'll come with a bench warrant.  This means you can be arrested at any time.  However, if this is your very first Failure to Appear, it's possible (but not guaranteed) that you'll just be getting a fine and a stern dressing down about needing to appear.  I can't say what the judge will do.Answer #2: Go to the doctor or urgent care and get a paper trail going that you were indeed sick. Answer #3: For what it's worth, when I had Federal Jury Duty in Phoenix, one of the potential jurors came looking like death. Surgical mask, constant coughing, etc. He explained that he was in a situation similar to yours and the Judge dismissed him.

So, if I were in your shoes, I would have gone and dealt with it.


Title: Horrible Phone Scam

Question: I'll have to give some background information. I'm a senior, just graduated from high school, so me and my friends planned a senior week. The Tuesday I was at the beach, I received a phone call from my grandmother saying that someone called her claiming that he was me, and that I was in a wreck, and needed bail money, because apparently I put another person in critical condition. The caller demanded that my grandmother wire money, to pay for my bail. He told her my legal defender was Richard Price. She called me freaking out and crying. What should I do? I'm a wreck at the moment. First of all I'm at a dock crab fishing, and I didn't even bring my car down here. It makes me sick to my stomach. All advice is appreciated.

Answer:
 You do know that this exact story is a TV commercial right?

She can call the police. Answer #2: Make sure she knows not to send any money. This is a very very common scam, unfortunately.Answer #3: Really there's nothing for you to do. You didn't say grandma sent any money, so no worries there. Just tell her it's a scam and look out in the future.

Grandma can make a police report if she wants.


Title: Venue for upcoming wedding closed unexpectedly; looking to get deposit back (Chicago, IL).

Question:
**Background** back in March of 2018 we put down a $3,200 deposit to use a commercial Brewery Bar as our wedding venue. Wedding to take place on 9.2.18. In June of 2018 we learned through a local Chicago newspaper article that the brewery unexpectedly closed. No one from the brewery informed us that the brewery had closed. Apparently it was to be sold and the sale fell through. The brewery lost its Brewing license and other liquor serving licenses. On top of that the doors have been closed for over 3 months, now with a sign on the door saying temporarily closed.

**What we've done so far** We emailed our point of contact at the brewery / venue and she said she has no contact with the owner and she can't help us. She provided us with the owner's email. Again, no responses to multiple emails and calls.

I had a buddy, who's a lawyer, send a demand letter requesting the deposit back by a certain date. The demand letter was sent certified mail to the brewery's registered agent listed on the Secretary of State website however when I got in touch with that lawyer / registered agent for the brewery he said he no longer represented that client. I asked him to put this in writing an email it to me and he did.

**What is my best step? ** Do I serve another demand letter to the brewery? I believe I know the owner's home address, to no serve it there. Do I need to serve another letter?

Cook County small claims court is a max of $3000. Do I go that route and eat $200? Do I hire an attorney and sue the Defunt brewery? The owner personally? Do I sue for dsmages...after we had a wedding planned and they closed without any notification to us and has caused a major pain in our ass to replant a whole wedding last minute and of course a ton more money.

Or being that the place looks to be closed and maybe heading to foreclosure (the brewery hasn't produced a single beer in 4 months) do I just save my money and eat the $3,200??

Any thoughts or insights are welcomed.

Answer: Small claims is certainly the most economical and risk-free route as far as sinking more money into this, but there's no guarantee you'll collect.


Title: [VA] NC resident, issued a ticket for reckless driving in VA. Should I get a lawyer or just plead guilty and get it over with?

Question:
**UPDATE:** Thank you all for the encouragement to seek an attorney. I will start contacting people first thing tomorrow to arrange a consultation.

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Throwaway account for obvious reasons... my apologies if I should have researched this more, but I'm pretty anxious as this is the first time something like this has happened to me.

I live in NC, and was coming back home from a long trip. While passing through Virginia, I was pulled over and issued a ticket for reckless driving. I was being stupid, going 24 over the limit, and it was something I should have been more careful about.

Of course, since I was going that fast, I have to appear in court in the area in which I was pulled over in about 2 months.

I'm really on the fence as to whether I should get a lawyer. In Virginia, reckless driving is apparently a class 1 misdemeanor, so if I just plead guilty and get it over with, I'm going to have that on my criminal record and pay a buttload of fines, and risk having my license suspended.

On the other hand, if I hire a lawyer, there's a chance that the charges could be knocked down a bit, but would cost more with the lawyer fees etc. and would probably take a lot more time. Plus, I live out of state in NC, and I'd need to find a local VA lawyer who specializes in this to get the best chances. Then there's the issue of me working full time, and I'd need to either take vacation while I'm getting this matter settled, or work out something with my employer.

That's the other thing I'm concerned about. How should I explain this, if at all, to my employer? If I am convicted of reckless driving, it's going on my criminal record. Will they be notified about that? Should I explain anything to my manager, or should I just spin it as a personal matter and that I need to take time off?

I work in a tech oriented field, so it's nothing that requires driving other than getting back and forth to work, but I'm honestly pretty scared about this whole thing. I'm not the type of person to ever commit a crime and I'm not sure what to do. I've got pretty good flex time ability with my job, so I could pass it off as a personal matter and work remotely for a little bit, but I'm not sure how much detail I should disclose to my manager about this.

Any advice is really appreciated.

Answer:
 You run the risk of high fines, jail time, a suspension, and a criminal record on a first offense. It's best to get a lawyer to try to ensure this does not happen.

Unless you get continuous background checks or have to maintain a security clearance, there shouldn't be any notification to your employer. Just take some sick time and go take care of it.


Title: [CO]: Wife submitted separation petition. A week later she submitted a request for aid from DHS for food, childcare, Medicaid, claiming I was no longer a household member.

Question:
It's been a very bad year. My wife and I lost our youngest child to SIDS, and things have been very rough since then, including me losing my job, her business failing, a stint in the hospital for her and then our 7 year old daughter right after at the beginning of May. We agreed that things weren't working out while and that my wife hadn't been able to move on and deal with losing our son as long as we were together, but had not discussed legal divorce or separation at that time.

She filed for legal separation right before Memorial Day, and then the following week apparently changed our assistance (we had Medicaid and Food assistance at that time) to indicate that I was no longer a member of the household without my consent or informing me. I haven't moved out and nor has she yet. I found this out when I tried to fill a prescription Friday night, I had not received any notice from DHS. She claims she informed me of this, but she certainly never said anything, I don't have any record of her doing so in any texts or other mediums in our discussions about this, and my understanding was that anything involving debts, insurance, property, etc couldn't be changed until we'd had the initial mediation meeting which isn't until the end of the month. I also had my initial online application that I did Friday night rejected as it's already showing our address as receiving service. I'll be going in first thing Monday morning to DHS to talk to them about this, but I'm honestly not sure of my legal footing here. Does this order to prevent any changes until mediation apply to assistance in the first place? We had agreed multiple times to a joint custody as that would be best for the kids and allow us to find work. Do I have any options to request I receive assistance for myself and/or the kids under my name if we do, or are they already considered "hers" now? Are there any options for lawyers who won't require multi-thousand dollar retainers if this takes the ugly turn it appears it may be? I really don't want to cause any drama as I really only care about the kids in our situation but I'm worried this may be a sign of less-than-honest dealings to come.

Answer:
 I would think they would reinstate you into the household being as you are still living there. Once you or her move out, then things will change. I would also be concerned about her technically lying to them about the current situation, because that could possibly be interrupted as false information and fraud...
would definitely contact DHS first thing... Answer #2: If she is seeking more aid, and you’re still there, she’s breaking the law. Answer #3: They may reinstate you into the household for the benefits with verification that you still live there. If you do move out, you can get your own benefits and the kids can stay on hers if they keep living with her. The mediation shouldn't mess with anything except cash assistance if she applied for that because they need to establish court ordered support.


Title: delusional stalker ... please help with legal advice for protection

Question:
this person, whom I did not know existed and have never spoken to, (after much digging I found out we were in the same lecture 2 years ago) just contacted me online with a lengthy message including how they can not keep this in any longer....goes on to explain they are angry that I did not just talk to them, I'm self-centered, probably think too many paranoid things because of TV)....they go in depth about past mental illness after a parent death and that I remind them of a family member...for years they have had to deal with people with perfect lives like me with caring support  - they're angy I didn't care enough to try and talk to them....for the firs time in years they like someone and why couldn't I just talk to them a few times?....I probably just went to my boyfriend and said some creepy stalker guy was bothering me....we've been together for so long he won't marry me, this wouldn't have happened if he'd seen a ring on my finger.....

along with a bunch of other details and explatives I received this message - I thought it was fake - my brother (against my wishes) sent a message saying something to the effect of " i think you have the wrong person you really upset my sister"  and to my horror they responded explaining " ...didn't mean to upset her, I was just venting, I guess I have problems getting too emotionally attached....I know her personality...I want her to be happy"

I found other messages directed towards me using the persons name via twitter that were the same delusional content (first ANGRY then sorry and trying to explain)

So I contacted police who found the person lives extremely close and the individual explained we were in the same lecture - he is obviously delusional as I have never spoken to him..

my question:

he hasn't done anything "criminal"  and hasn't  made contact with me after I told him not to (I've never spoken to him), but the last time I was in a room with him (that I know of) was 2 years ago, and all of a sudden I get a very very scary slew of messages - this person needs psychiatric help - not just a piece of paper, I"m afraid that will make it worse - also can I talk to the judge in private?  If I have to stand up next to him and explain I DON"T KNOW THIS PERSON and that I really want him to get mandatory psych help I worry he's interpret that as me "caring for him"..... I'm scared  please offer legal tips to navigate the courts with this.... thanks and sorry this is scattered

Answer:
 Your narrative is very unclear and difficult to understand.  However, what's important is:

> he hasn't done anything "criminal"

That's right, he hasn't.  He sent you a message that you didn't like, and stopped when you told him to.  There's nothing illegal there.  You also have no damages, so a civil suit won't work.

If he persists, you can think about getting a restraining order, and you can report him to the police.  But you're not in a position to force him into psychiatric care because he wrote you a message you don't like.


Title: Could someone facing marijuana charges get asylum in Canada?

Question: Basically the title. I wouldn't do this even I was facing charges, but hypothetically could someone in the United States, who is facing prison time for simple marijuana possession charges, apply for asylum and/or be approved for asylum in Canada, where marijuana is legal? This is assuming the American is of age to possess it in Canada and has no prior record, is educated, etc.

Answer: Canada doesn’t even like it when people with prior DUI’s come in for a visit. They’re strict.Answer #2: No


Title: Found pieces of $100 bills while at the plaza

Question:
I found pieces of 2 $100 bills blowing around the plaza’s parking lot this evening and surprisingly, I found every piece of both bills. But, both bills have the same serial numbers! These of course are counterfeit but they are impressive.

What is my next step? Should I take the pieces to the police station? Should I burn it? Looking for advice here because maybe the person went into the store and tried to pass it and got rejected after the pen test failed, grabbed the bills and tore them into pieces while hauling ass out of there. TIA
Topic:
Other Civil Matters

Answer: Throw them away and move on with your life.


Title: Legal Recourse for 'Racial Slur' Aimed at Customer by Employee [California]

Question:
TLDR My friend believes he was subjected to a racist...*attack*(?), perpetrated by a barista in a well known coffee shop. He believes she referred to him in a derogatory context by writing the word "black" on his coffee cup, instead of his name, which is (not) "Bart."  He believes the matter warrants legal recourse and that he should hire a lawyer. My friend is in California, but my question includes New Jersey. I have listed my questions at the very bottom so that  you can skip my text wall.

"Bart" went to a well known coffee shop. The barista had a line and asked for the names of her customers so that she could write them on their cups. When Bart retrieved his coffee, he saw that the barista had written the word "black" instead of his name. Bart said nothing at the store, but later got on Facebook to share his experience. As an aside, he eventually called management.

He posted his story (and a pic of his *not* "black" coffee, which is an angle some people offered) to Facebook. All of his responders insisted that this was the most racist thing they'd ever seen (we're obviously talking about millenials here), that the barista ought to be fired, the store fined, he should get a lawyer and sue, the whole kit and caboodle.

My opinion is that this was not "sooo" racist. I'm not going to elaborate, but I'm a black woman and I'm not all hot and bothered about it. I think other factors could have led the barista to write "black" on the cup, and they may not have been devious. If the barista really wanted to make a point (WTF would this point have been??) she could have chosen better, more effective words. Even if the barista did mean something by it, it still doesn't make my "sooo offensive" cut-off. Because I've read at least one history book.

I told Bart I wouldn't bother with a lawyer, that if he just *had* to do something he could lodge a complaint/call the corporate office. I figured they would probably apologize and give him a coupon or two. This was received... poorly. When asked why I didn't believe he should contact a lawyer, I explained that I didn't believe he had a case (and that you don't meet a poke with a punch). Even if the barista intended to make a statement, she didn't discriminate against him. He was still provided a service. You can't police people's thoughts and opinions, however shitty they may be; racism in and of itself isn't a criminal matter.

Another friend responded that this would be considered harassment in New Jersey, and in NJ harassment is against the law. Had this occurred in New Jersey, she claims he could have pressed charges. The nature of this presumed NJ law further convinces my friend that he needs a lawyer.

So, my questions are 1)does my friend have legal recourse regarding what occurred? 2)should he acquire a lawyer? 3)Was my New Jersey friend full of shit?

Answer:
 No, no, and yes.

This isn't going to rise to the level of illegal in any American jurisdiction. It certainly isn't harassment, which usually requires some sort of pattern. One comment isn't enough to constitute harassment.

If your friend wants recourse it will come from complaining to management and/or corporate.


Title: [US, MA] Father-in-law passed away in May, just received medical bill, who is liable?

Question: My FIL passed in May, one of the hospitals he was admitted to prior to passing has just sent a bill through to him. Is my mother-in-law liable for this bill? He was covered by Medicare A+B and AARP. We live in a rented apartment and he left no inheritance/estate.

Answer:
 No, his estate would be. If the estate is under a certain size there may not be any way they can collect, but your MIL should not just ignore it.

Answer #2: But up to moment of his death, he’s covered by his health insurance. The estate doesn’t really exist until he died. Submit the medical bills to his health insurance provider.


Title: My Attorney is charging me for his travel expenses when he didn't tell me he moved.

Question: My Attorney apparently moved a couple weeks before court and he never told me, I wasn't aware he moved until a few days before court and now he expects me to pay his travel and hotel expenses on top of the 45% he gets from my settlement and I'm wondering if that is normal because I feel as tho I should have been told he was moving so I could decide if I wanted to have to pay his expenses. I live in Mississippi by the way in case the laws differ from state to state. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Answer: Wow...  this thread does an impressive job of demonstrating the potentially massive cost you risk incurring for ineffective "work" if you don't properly research attorneys when you need their services.  On the bright side it's also shown just how many ethical attorneys there are which never gets enough acknowledgement.Answer #2: 45%?? Yikes lol


Title: Desperately seeking help with a corrupt cop. He is making my and my fiancé’s lives hell because we are fighting him on an offense he wrongfully charged my fiancé with.

Question:
Back in February we had just moved to St. Louis, and one day my fiancé pulled over and arrested for missing court for an insurance ticket that was later dropped when he provided a copy of the insurance. While in the booking room there had been a small baggie left of the table he was cuffed to. He picked it up to see what it was and it looked like drugs so he called for an officer to
Come in. The officer stated that it was left from a previous case and turned out to be nothing and left the room with the bag. An hour later her reenters the booking room, and starts telling my fiancé they caught him red handed and he is going to jail for possession of meth amphetamine... we are obviously fighting this, and the police officer in question Has been parked outside our apartment at random times and pulling us over for bullshit reasons right outside of our apartment complex numerous times. One time it was pouring down rain and he pulled us over because our car was registered to an individual who’s license was suspended even though said person wasn’t driving the vehicle, which brings me into what happened today. I got my license suspended for a couple really expensive underage drinking tickets that I’m still trying to pay off. My fiancé was very sick this morning and needed a proscription from Walgreens. He was too sick to sit up let alone drive so I got in the car, drove to Walgreens then drove straight home. After I set my keys down I walk back outside to grab the mail and circling the block is the police officer... he yells at me to freeze cuffs me and tells me he caught me red handed. He has a female officer bring me out to the front of the car, I still don’t know what’s going on when I suddenly feel her hand jam up in between my legs and I scream. Everyone in the neighborhood can see this happening I’m mortified and at this time I’m having a full on panic attack because the event just brought back traumatic memories of another time I was violated in between my legs without my consent. We paid them their money and I’m home now but I’m so scared, I can’t see myself stepping outside my door for a very long time. I don’t know what to do
Need help please

Answer:
 Lot of missing and strange quirks to this story.

1. Nothing wrong with being arrested for missing court even if the charges were later dropped. You didn't go to the hearing and were arrested on a FTA warrant.
2. The thing with the baggie is suspect but still not too clear, best to continue working with your lawyer on that.
3. It would make sense to pull over a vehicle when the registered owner's license is suspended.
4. You shouldn't have been driving a car when your license was suspended.

You can file a complaint with the officer's supervisor but beyond that, not really anything else. Answer #2: TL;DR: We keep breaking laws and/or doing suspicious things and the cops keep catching us.Answer #3: You have not indicated any corruption. You have indicated that you and your fiance have a history of breaking and continue to break laws. The officer is aware of this and is lawfully keeping an eye on you. You can prevent being arrested by acting lawfully. After some period of exhibiting lawful behavior, the officer will find someone else to observe.


Title: (North Carolina) Two of my coworkers have Hoof and Mouth, a highly contagious virus. Management is aware of their condition yet they are being allowed to work. I have no clue what to do and am terrified of the cosequences if I catch it.

Question: [deleted]

Answer: Antiseptic wipes and hand sanitizer.


Title: Can I file a quitclaim to end my time share ownership?

Question: I have got to get out of this horrible decision i made while drunk in love.  I just came across the idea of using a quitclaim to relinquish ownership in a time share.  Is this worth pursuing?  The time share was purchased in Florida.  Thanks so much!

Answer: This isn't my area of knowledge, but I doubt it.  I believe time shares are more contract-based than an actual ownership you can be rid of with a quitclaim.


Title: Refusing a subpoena?

Question:
I saw in the news recently that a person had "refused a subpoena."  I was under the impression that subpoenas weren't really optional.  Is that not the case?

Edit: The subpoena was issued in the District of Columbia

Answer:
 Subpoenas are *not* optional.  If the issuer chooses to pursue it, the next step would be further orders and/or criminal charges.Answer #2: You're talking about the Mike Flynn case. He was served a subpoena requiring him to provide documents to the Senate Intelligence Committee. His lawyers have said he will not comply with the subpoena. It is unclear what can or will happen in this specific case.

This specific case should not be generalized for all subpoena issues. In general if you ignore or defy a subpoena you will be subject to arrest and criminal prosecution.


Title: my brother is getting married - no prenup

Question: My brother has 70k in a savings account that has both my name and his name on the account. If he divorces his wife, is she entitled to that money even though my name is on the account? If so, how much of it would she be entitled too? The reason I ask is they fight constantly and I don't think this marriage is a good idea. I don't think it will last so I am preparing for worst case scenario. She does not know he has that money.

Answer: Can you open a savings account and put $35K in your name? Tell him that since he's getting married and will be slitting finances with his wife, you'd like to separate you finances a little. Or something like that. Have your name taken off his portion of the cash.


Title: Found cash in my walls. It's mine right? Can I deposit them in the bank & pay back my student loans? (Washington). Update: It is deposited and my student loans are paid back!

Question:
[My question](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/72wjbw/found_cash_in_my_walls_its_mine_right_can_i/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=front&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=legaladvice)

I watched the VHS tape and it was of my uncle going on a 25 minute speech about government conspiracies and how banks cannot be trusted. That's why he kept his savings in cash. He didn't even trust a safe deposit box. That's why they were kept in his walls. And it was $120,000 as he said it in the video. I found the other $20,000.

I went to a lawyer and showed her the will, the video and she said  it's surprisingly common for people to leave cash inheritances in our area. She talked to the executor of the will as well, and then wrote a letter for me to give to the bank which explained this is from a cash inheritance with contact details of the executor in case the bank needed to contact them.

I scheduled an appointment with the bank. When I told them it's for a cash deposit they told me I don't need an appointment for that but I told them it's for a large deposit. They still said no appointment is necessary, but then I said it's a very large deposit. So they booked the appointment. Everything went smoothly at the bank. They made a copy of the letter that my lawyer had prepared. Money was in my account a few hours later.

I made payments and my student loans and car loan are both paid off and I now have a larger emergency fund.

Thanks!

Answer:
 I'm sure I speak for everyone but you when I express disappointment that your Uncle wasn't confessing to kidnapping the Lindbergh Baby or something similar. Unfortunately Sovereign Citizen types are all too common.

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Title: [Canada] Threatened suicide, police involved. Will it show up on background check?

Question:
I was 15 at the time.

Long story short, I had been repeatedly raped + sexually assaulted since 14 and family walked in as I was about to try and kill myself. They tried to grab/restrain me, I fought them. I retreated to a bathroom and threatened to do it anyways. Police were called, I was taken in ambulance under a hold, released two days later. The physical altercation and threats were reported, not the fact I was actually about to do it.

I'm now 20 and haven't had a job that required background checks because I'm terrified it will show up. It was a low point in my life, and I'm scared it's going to haunt me, especially because there was a physical altercation. Should I just get used to the idea of sticking with non-background checked jobs? I'd like something that paid a bit more than minimum wage, but I'm terrified of it coming up, especially because the police who responded treated me like shit (I didn't resist at all, but I left with bruises and a major fear of law enforcement.)

Is this something that's going to show up? There was no criminal charges and I wasn't arrested, but I was held under the MHA and there was police involvement.
Topic:
Canada

Answer:
 You can get a background check done on yourself to see what pops up.

I'm not sure about Canadian law, but unless you were charged with something, then it won't pop up.

Even if it popped up, you just have to explain it by saying "I was a 15 year old and made some poor choices".Answer #2: You would probably not pass a firearms background check but a regular criminal check shouldn't show anything if you weren't charged with a crime.


Title: HELP my first ticket and with drug paraphernalia im 20, does this affect my whole life?

Question: Cops found us smoking i got charged with "DRUG PARAPHERNALIA" and "GRINDER" also "CONTINUED". They didn't put my pipe and 2 one hitters, what do i do? This is my first ticket im TX 20, please help. Can I get this off my records without a lawyer?

Answer:
 Unless you want to answer YES to "Have you ever been convicted of a crime" for all your future job applications, get a lawyer.

Also, it can make you inelligible for certain federal student loans.


Title: Who owns the property left in an apartment after a break up?

Question:
So I'm staying at my brothers apartment and he just broke up with his SO in Indiana. My brother is the only one on the lease. They had been staying in his apartment for 2-3 months and 3 weeks ago they broke up. his SO is not on the lease but got got in when no one was home by using a locksmith. Apparently this is legal because he has property in the apartment. This was 3 weeks ago and some items of the So's are still here (bed, chair etc). and their parents, for the first time today, started trying to get it back. They started with threatening to call an attorney if he doesn't cooperate with them. Today was the first day anyone tried to get in contact with my brother about the stuff and he has not been holding onto it intentionally.

Do we have anything to worry about? What is the legal amount of time for property in this situation to be considered abandoned? his SO has been gone since the break up, is not on the lease and even took some of my brothers property when leaving. Is there an amount of time after someone leaves that they can forcefully use the law to get into his apartment? Can he be in legal trouble somehow?

Answer: Your brother is stealing his ex's property. He needs to make arrangements to allow this person to get the belongings. You can have a third party there to observe, but I suggest your brother and anyone else that might behave in a hostile manner vacate while the ex is there. I doubt he wants the cops called again.


Title: [MI] Trying to seek Grandparent rights/visits.

Question: [deleted]

Answer:
 Does one of the situations from [here](http://www.divorcenet.com/states/michigan/michigan_grandparent_visitation_law#) apply? (Listed below for easy access)

Ninja Edit: Note that parents have the duty to raise their kids as they deem best. If that means no access to grandparents, the grandparents are already going to be fighting an uphill battle. Sending birthday/holiday cards and otherwise working to develop a relationship can be easier and with less legal work.

Michigan grandparents can ask a court to award them grandparenting time if one or more of the following situations apply:

* the grandchild's parents have filed for divorce, "separate maintenance" (legal separation), or annulment in a Michigan court
* the grandchild's parents are divorced, legally separated under a judgment of separate maintenance (a court has issued an order granting the parents a legal separation), or their marriage has been annulled
* the grandchild's parent, who is a child of the grandparents, has died
* the grandchild's paternity has been established, and the grandchild's parents have never married or are not living together in the same household
* except where Michigan law says otherwise, if someone other than the child’s parent has “legal custody” (the right to make major decisions about things like education, culture, and religion), or if the grandchild has been removed from the parent’s home
* the grandparent provided an established custodial environment for the child for at least one year before making the request for visitation, regardless of whether the grandparent had court-ordered custody.


Title: NYC parking ticket

Question:
I got a parking ticket in NYC (Manhattan) yesterday and I think it is totally BS.  It wasn't written by a cop, but by a traffic agency employee.  The ticket is for "improperly displayed plate" in violation of NYC Traffic Rules, Section 4-08(j)(2), which states, in pertinent part, as follows:

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>(2) Valid plates must be properly displayed. No person shall stand or park a vehicle unless it properly displays the current plate or plates issued to it. For the purposes of this paragraph (j)(2), New York plates shall not be deemed properly displayed unless they are conspicuously displayed, one on the front and one on the rear of the vehicle, each securely fastened so as to prevent the same from swinging and placed, whenever reasonably possible, not higher than 48 inches and not lower than 12 inches from the ground, and they are kept clean and in a condition so as to be readable and shall not be covered by glass or any plastic material, and the view thereof shall not be obstructed by any part of the vehicle or by anything carried thereon. New York dealer or transporter plates issued pursuant to §415 of the Vehicle and Traffic Law shall be deemed properly displayed if the one plate issued is placed on the rear of the vehicle as described above. New York motorcycle plates and plates from other states shall be deemed properly displayed if at least one plate is fastened on the rear of the vehicle.

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By way of background, my car has both plates displayed (front and back).  In the comments section of the ticket, it says "Tag Line Covered."  I googled this and could not find anything specific about what this means.  The link below is what my plates look like with my license plate bracket.  My only guess is that the reference to "tag line" means that the "Empire State" slogan on a standard NYS license plate (link below) is covered, but nowhere in the statute does it state that the slogan must be conspicuously displayed.  In fact, if that is what the ticket is referencing, nearly 50% of all cars in NYC would be ticketed due to dealer-advertised license plate brackets.

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I have had this car for 1.5 years and never had any complaints about my license plate bracket.  What should I do?  My personal thought is to plead guilty and request an online hearing to dispute the ticket.  FYI the ticket wasn't issued by a police officer, but someone from the traffic agency.

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[https://imgur.com/a/aeUYqrs](https://imgur.com/a/aeUYqrs)(my license plate with bracket)

[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vehicle\_registration\_plates\_of\_New\_York#/media/File:NY-2010-License-Plate.jpg](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vehicle_registration_plates_of_New_York#/media/File:NY-2010-License-Plate.jpg)  (what a standard NY plate looks like, along with "Empire State" slogan)

Answer:
 While it is a dick move. Technically plate frames are illegal. Answer #2: it's known in NJ and NY that you can't have a frame around the plate because it blocks some of the writing. yes almost every car has it and a cop only writes it out if they want to.
 either fight it or pay it. this isn't points on your license or more than $100 in fine.


Title: [CA] Someone screwed a screw in my tire, I have reasonable suspicion on who did it but have no proof

Question:
Hey everyone, I heard of this sub and was directed to get some sense on what I should do.

So basically in my neighborhood parking is very scarce so many neighbors have resorted to using stolen PG&E signs and placing it in front of their houses to reserve parking spots.  There have been stories of when others have moved the signs and received the wrath from the neighbors for "stealing" the parking spot (eg. the said cars get keyed) although there is no hard evidence of them committing the act.

That being said, 2 days ago (5/13), I noticed an open spot that up until recently was started to get "reserved" by a cone, was free.  I took this opportunity to park there since the cone wasn't there.  A couple hours later into the evening my housemate came back and told me he noticed that the cone was now stashed on top of my window with a note underneath.  http://i.imgur.com/uO3UBbw.jpg "Don't ever move my shit. Next time you pick up your shit downtown".  Do not that in the event the neighbor even did try to get my car towed he would not have been able to since I was parking legally on the city street.

I wrote back a letter in hopes of clearing the air (and in fear of receiving the wrath of the neighbors) and attached it to the cone and placed it back on the sidewalk.   "The cone wasn't there and I didn't move anything.  Please don't assume.  If the cone was there I wouldn't have moved it.  No need for aggression."

Upon reacting on what happened to my car, my housemate made sure to keep a close watch on his car which was parked directly in front of our house, which was usually "reserved" by our neighbors as well.  He  noticed one of our neighbors spent a suspicious amount of time (30 seconds) looking under his car and then walking away.  However my housemate could not get a clear visual at the time since it had already turned dark.

The following day I noticed the note was taken from the cone so I know they received my message.  Later on this day, (5/14), I get an alert in my car while driving to check the tire pressure.  Me being oblivious and naive dismissed it as a normal tire pressure alert and made a mental note to take my car to the shop the following day to get it checked.

Fast forward to today (5/15), I head over to my car and alas, my left rear tire is flat, with a noticeable screw in the side of my tire. http://i.imgur.com/kwhgTuf.jpg

 I am now typing this in hopes of getting some direction on how to handle this, IF my neighbors have done it.  Since it is just too convenient for a screw to be embedded in my tire after such short time after the parking incident happened.  Honestly I am a bit scared and intimidated at the same time because I know if I do file a report and they actually did do it then they would know it was me who filed the report and put me in further chances of them damaging my car.

Any advice or suggestions would be gladly accepted.

TL;DR  My car got a screw screwed in my tire and it is just too convenient timing to believe it was just chance.  I have no proof on who did it but have enough reasons to believe it was intentional.

Answer: Looks like you ran over a nail. Let it go. You have no proof.


Title: How much trouble are these people in?

Question:
I have an acquaintance that I have known for years. Not smart people, just people I know of. She and her husband recently sold their home and and should of gotten about $75k in equity deposited into their bank account. Well something went wrong and the entire $480k they sold their house for ended up in their bank account. Any normal person would probably question it. These geniuses, well they decided to spend it ASAP before it got taken back away. They went out and blew EVERY SINGE PENNY of they money in less than a week.. They bought new cars, dirt bikes, side by sides and all sorts of expensive toys/clothes/electronics ect.

Rumor is they have changed their phone numbers and basically fled the area and are now in hiding.

I am curious, what kinda trouble are these two looking at if anyone actually catches up to them?

Answer:
 They're in about $405,000 worth of trouble.

I'm not being facetious - that's how much they owe back, by my math. If the various parties involved have to sue to get it, then assume they'll tack legal expenses and interest onto that, as well. The fact that they don't have the money _right now_ is of no real consequence: a judgment will let their creditors go after their income (in most places), and may enable them to seize and sell their new toys at auction to cover it, as well.

It would not surprise me if they end up going through a bankruptcy, though lord knows if this debt will be dischargeable or not.Answer #2: Well problem one is the bank will probably not release their lien on the house until the loan is repaid.  If the bank won’t release the lien then the sale will most likely fall through.  So not only are they now 480k in the hole to the buyers, since the sale won’t go through, they will also owe even more when they are sued by the now former buyers for their money back and costs.

Add in that they knew they shouldn’t have had the extra 400k+ and spent it as fast as possible, they may also be looking at felony fraud or theft charges depending on the local DA.Answer #3: >Not smart people

that's an understatementAnswer #4: Should have.Answer #5: Dumb question probably but if you sell a house for 480k why would you only get 75k in your bank account and not 480k


Title: HALP!

Question:
Hey you guys.....Long time lurker first time poster!

Here's the nitty gritty folks long story short was employed for 13 years for a newspaper co. Had a toxic relationship with manager on duty at the time. Wasn't very well liked among peers as well.  One day I'm called in office early and BAM just like that I'm being told my position is being eliminated and offered a severance package (yes I signed and took it) which was a very lowball offer but in hindsight I was just ready to LEAVE this toxic workplace ya know? It was THAT bad. Fast forward a year later now randomly I get my previous employers newspaper delivered to my home now bear in mind this is only a subscription service. NEVER in my 13 years have I subscripted to their publications we just took a copy from work etc.  I now have a total 6 total publications that have been delivered to my home NO ONE in my neighborhood subscribes to this publication, and FYI it's been 3  years since I was let go.  I don't feed onto that toxic bullshit. I honestly don't know what to do? Call the police?  I've emailed 2 employment attorneys heard nothing back.

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Any advice is appreciated.

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Thanks

Answer: What’s the legal problem here? Just call their subscription service and see what’s up with the deliveries.


Title: Homeless people stopoing short, threatening to sue me

Question:
They're absolutely crazy yelling obscenities threatening to sue me. Are they able to sue me?  Female claiming male is a sex offender and other claims as well.
I just want to know if they're able to get on my case for itm

Answer: What?Answer #2: You're going to want to give us the *context* in which you're being screamed at randomly by homeless people...


Title: Found out tenant has been overcharging me (subtenant) for rent. Ontario.

Question:
I have been subletting a one-bedroom apartment (I am the only resident). I have been paying the previous tenant rent directly, and they have been paying the landlord. I recently found out via the landlord that the rent is much lower than i thought it was. Over the time I have lived here it looks like I've paid the previous tenant about $8000 more (or more) than what the landlords actually charged/received. My understanding is that's not allowed in Ontario (Canada). Rent is inclusive of utilities (landlords pay). Previous tenant left some furnture behind as well as clothing and other personal items, essentially storing them here.

Do I have any recourse for recovering this overcharged rent? While it seems like it's not allowed, I'm not sure if the previous tenant can be forced to pay me back.

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Answer:
 Sue him for the amount that he overcharged you.

He is not allowed to charge you more than he pays.

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.thestar.com/amp/business/real_estate/2011/02/12/the_ins_and_outs_of_subletting.html


Title: Scamming an Asshole

Question:
Long story short,

I sent a business owner $600 for an item 10 weeks ago. Never received the item. I contacted the BBB who contacted the owner. He then sends me my refund AFTER the BBB got involved (lied to me several times and messed me around huge prior to the BBB).

Now he said he is going to send the item I originally tried purchasing and for me to resend him the $ after I recieve it.

Should I just accept the item and not send him the $? He messed me around HUGE and wouldn't refund me until the BBB got involved.

Can this backfire on me? There will be no proof that I done this to him if he sends it to me as I have already been refunded and this was a verbal agreement.

This isn't somthing I would normally do to someone but this guy deserves it as far as I'm concerned. Can this come back and bite me in a legal way? Thanks

Answer: That's an excellent plan if your goal is to risk a criminal charge.


Title: I used the Chase app to see how much credit I'd be qualified for, and they officially pulled my credit score and opened up a new credit card after a single click of a button!

Question:
Excuse me????? All I did was enter my phone number and income, click *literally* a single button (no password or fingerprint verification), and I now have a new Sapphire Reserve with a 25k limit on my account?!??!?!!!!!!???

Now what do I do? I'm driving over to Chase as soon as I can to figure out my options.

I read the ENTIRE landing page before clicking the button to get a "decision" (their words). I thought I was being *too* paranoid about accidentally signing up for a credit card inadvertently, but apparently not. Not a single word on that entire page said I was about to get a hard pull and have a new card on my account. Not to mention that the entire process was advertised as giving me a decision "within seconds" to find out if I'm qualified.

????

Answer: How did they run your credit with just your phone number and income? You must have given them at least your name and SSN at some point.


Title: Unintentionally missed taking my kids to their supervised visitation appointment with their father. Will I get in trouble?

Question:
I live in Florida.The children's justice center called a couple of weeks ago and my caseworker stated that a regular time might be available if another family switched their time. I agreed. The caseworker then stated that if that were the case, he would inform me. I never heard back, left a message and still never heard back. I assumed the time wasn't available or they would have informed me.
I was busy with the kids today and had my phone off. Then, this evening I discovered a voice mail from the cjc asking where I was for our scheduled visitation time. Wtf. I immediately called them but they were closed so I left a message explaining what happened. I have a DVI against their father but I have never tried to keep them from him. It seems like the cjc severely dropped the ball on this. I plan on calling them again in the morning. Can I get in trouble for this??

Answer: Can you get in trouble? Sure. Will you for one missed appointment? Unlikely. Just explain what happened and make up the visit.


Title: Help Emancipating myself

Question: Hi, I’m a 15 yo Male in the State of North Carolina, USA. I will be turning 16 on February 20th, 2018. I have lived in an emotionally damaging household for many years now, and live with my stepdad and Mom. Because of shitty shenanigans my mom pulled when my father and her divorced, he cannot he custody and she has a lot to hold over his head legal wise that wouldn’t allow him to take care of me. (She served him papers while he was in California so she could take him to court while he was gone). Now I am looking to emancipate myself or get my dad custody of me. What steps can I take?

Answer: If your dad wants custody he will need to take your mom to court for that. There's nothing you can do to make that happen other than voice your opinion to the judge. If you want to get emancipated you need to have a job and your own place to live before the state would really consider it. They aren't interested in caring for someone who has parents who can do it. If you are being abused call CPS.


Title: I work in agriculture and asked my boss to drink water and he yelled "NO, NO. WE HAVE TO KEEP THIS THING GOING. LET'S GO, GO, GO!!!"

Question:
Yesterday my boss made me work 13.5 hours and today I worked from 5:30AM until 4:00PM. I am doing manual labor in the hot heat every single day. Well, I was working with the owner and when I raised up my arm, holding my empty water bottle (I hadn't drank any water in some time), I said "just a minute. I need to get some water to drink." That's when he yelled at me to not drink any water. This guy is fing crazy if he thinks I can't drink water doing manual labor for 10+hours each day in high heat. I was easily dehydrated as my mouth was dry and my body was aching. He also doesn't like it when we take our 15 minute breaks (didn't take any yesterday or today).

I spoke with the owner's son about it at the end of the day and his jaw dropped that his dad would pull this shit. He was in full agreement and even said "yeah, my dad can be a slave-driving asshole." He told me his father has been this way ever since he was a child.

So Reddit, what can I do? I'm so tired of being exploited like this. I feel like there has to be a law against this. Please help!!

I live in California.
Topic:
Labor Law

Answer:
 By law in California, if you work more than 6 hours you must take a meal break for at least 30 minutes. What he's doing is illegal by denying you breaks and he probably doesn't know it. Answer #2: Just go and get water. Don't ask, just do it. Are you ex-military or something? If you're an adult, you can act like an adult. Go fill your water up, if he says anything, say "I'm getting water." If he doesn't like it, too bad. If he wants to try to be stupid at that point, you can tell him it's against the law or file a suit, etc. Answer #3: Not drinking water in the heat is very dangerous. I have seen the effects of heat casualties before. It is a scary thing, it can lead to some serious permanent damage to your body, and every time you become a heat casualty you become more susceptible to another event again.

When you wake up in the morning drink 16 oz of water (one bottle) before you even eat breakfast. Continue to drink water. Fuck your boss for saying you don't need water, if you don't get water to drink you could fuck yourself up for life. **I have seen friends get into some serious trouble because of heat stroke.** Don't ever skip water breaks again.

If your boss acts like this again then quit.


Title: [TN] An elderly lady was knocked over by her dog while I was walking past with mine. Could I be held liable?

Question:
Location is Nashville, TN.

Good morning.

Just a while ago, I was walking my dog before work as I typically do. I take the same route every morning. As I was walking down the sidewalk, I noticed an elderly lady out walking her dog as well.
At a distance of roughly 100 feet, I stepped out into the street because I was facing traffic and I didn't want the elderly woman to have to put her back towards traffic.
I venture into the street as far as I can comfortably, considering there is oncoming traffic. As we get closer, at a distance of around 10 feet, her dog begins to bark and lunge at mine.
My dog responds in kind, but is on a short leash. The dogs never got close to each other. The closest we all came to each other was 8-10 feet as we were passing.

As we are walking past one another, her dog lunges hard at mine and pulls the lady to the ground. She fell very awkwardly, backwards, and hit her head very hard on the pavement.
The woman curled up and was holding her head; I immediately saw blood. Her dog looked as if it were going to run into the street, so I grabbed its leash and did my best to keep our dogs separated from one another.
Luckily there were cars passing by that saw the incident. One man and one woman stopped. The man immediately began to help the woman, applying pressure to the back of her head with my shirt to stop the bleeding, and I told the woman to call 911.
We all waited for the ambulance to show up (5-10 minutes). The elderly woman was alert and never lost consciousness.
When emergency services showed up, they said she would most likely be OK and would need a few stitches. There was mild concern of a concussion. They did take her to the hospital in the ambulance.

No party's information was taken. I offered my name and phone number to the EMS in case they needed to file a report or something, but they did not take it. They did not taken any of the witness' information.

I obviously don't know what's going on in the elderly lady's mind, but I do know that she did not seem very happy with me or the situation.

My question is - could I be held liable for anything? My gut says no, but I'd like to know if I need to speak with an attorney.

Answer: IANAL, but I can't imagine any way you'd be responsible for her inability to control her own dog.