Title: How do I protect myself if I co-sign for a mortgage?

Question:
I have been asked by a very dear friend to cosign on a mortgage with her. She owns a house with her partner, but they are in the process of separating their finances. She wants to purchase the house outright from him. When they bought the house, she put down $120k in cash and he took out a loan in his name only to cover the rest. Now she wants to buy him out, but cannot get approved for the loan because she has not been a US citizen long enough and because she is self-employed does not show enough of income.

My question is this - is there a legally binding document that we can draft that says if she defaults on the loan that I have some sort of equity in the house to cover the mortgage? I have the same question if she were to die.

I trust her greatly and know she has the money to pay for it, but I want my ass to be covered in the worst case scenarios. This is in Michigan.

Answer: If you want an interest in the house you can be placed on the deed.  Otherwise you are going to have huge issues.


Title: Minnesota: Son has a Felony for Selling Marijuana. Wants to come live in MN with me, but I own lots of GUNS and Rifles. Felons cant be around guns, so what qualifies ? Do I have to have a Gun Safe ?

Question: Or is he up shit creek and can never come live with me?

Answer: I would recommend having a gun safe regardless of whether your son is living with you or not. Is he on probation with any conditions not to live in a house where there are firearms?


Title: New York State workers compensation insurance carrier employees have called at least 2 of my doctors and informed them that i was reselling the Sched II meds that they are prescribing to me . What legal action can i take ?

Question:
What legal action can i take .
 My doctors have given me the names of the people that have provided this false information. The selling of schedule II meds by me would be a  felony in NYS.

Answer:
 "At least" 2 of your doctorS... prescribing your schedule II meds?

That's a pretty big red flag.

Are these doctors aware of the prescriptions that the others are writing?

I suspect that the insurance carrier is not so much saying that you are selling your meds.  But, they are informing the doctors that you are getting multiple prescriptions from multiple doctors, and they need to be aware of it, if not for the potential for abuse, for the potential of you having an adverse reaction.

Now:  I don't know if you have a cause of action against the insurance carrier.  I don't know if they did anything wrong.

But, if you are contacted by the police, you should decline to answer their questions until you retain an attorney.


Title: Can my former employer do this?

Question: Hey so I'll try to make this as short as possible. i was volunteering at a veterinary clinic (volunteered over 150 hours) in exchange for volunteer work they were going to pay for my veterinary tech schooling. Last week I was let go for no really reason. They never paid anything to me, as I was not enrolled yet. Two days ago I got an email from the Lead Tech that I need to return my scrubs, scissors and manual they gave me. It is a 45 min drive for me...and the fact that I was never paid a cent to be asked to return these things just made me pissed off....do I legally have to return them? Its literally metal scissors and cheap as scrubs

Answer: Who gives a shit about the scissors? Jesus Christ focus. Don't listen to the yard here who know nothing. The question is your pay. Your agreement was that you would work and they would pay for the school. How long were you supposed to work for the training? Why are you no longer working? Did you screw up or do nothing wrong? If you did nothing wrong than file a complaint with the labor board. You may be entitled to at least minimum wage for the hours you worked.


Title: Simple possession charge (marijuana) advice

Question:
(Mississippi) I'm posting this for a friend since I feel like I am partly to blame for what happened. Please do not reply with unnecessary comments/judgements. We are good people that unfortunately got caught with a (in my opinion) wrongfully illegal plant. Anyways, this is the story (TL;DR provided at the end)..

I'm a senior in college, and my mother found out that I smoked marijuana about a year or so ago and didn't really have a problem with it since I have a job, I'm doing well in school, and I'm not anything else like drinking/partying/doing other drugs. Her only problem was the legality of it..

Fast forward about half a year and she asked me in private if I would bring her some marijuana to try for the first time since my father used to smoke and he thought it wouldn't hurt for her to try it too. Well months went by since we talked about it, but we finally had a good day where I was home for the weekend, we weren't expecting any company, and no one had to work the next morning, and since my friend who had some marijuana at home was planning to come over, they asked if my mom wanted them to bring it for her to try.

I asked my mom who then asked my dad, and they both said yes. Later that night, my friend shows up with everything and we make my mom and friend half of a blunt to share (I couldn't smoke at the time to prepare for a drug test for a job). Once we were done, they went out onto the porch, smoked it, then came back inside.

Well, after about ten minutes, we realized that my mom did not like it, and in fact, she started having a very bad reaction to it. She ended up freaking out, she said that she couldn't breathe, and she seemed to only be getting worse and very unresponsive, so we called 911.

While we waited for the ambulance to arrive, my friend disposed of what remained of the blunt and tossed their small bag of marijuana that was left outside. Once the ambulance, firetruck, and police arrived, we brought them inside and they were checking on my mom. After a few minutes, we had to help her to the ambulance where my dad and I were stopped by a police offer who wanted to talk to us.

This is where the legal advice would be appreciated.

He began questioning us asking whose the marijuana was, and, trying to protect my friend, my father replied that it was a woman that left after they smoked. Of course, the police officer didn't believe him and claimed that he would have to search the house, and my father essentially gave him permission. Once inside, he kept asking and kept asking while he rummaged through the garbage and scoured the porch (where they smoked), the kitchen, and a bedroom.

While he searched, he didn't allow anyone to leave, not even to ride with my mother to the hospital (who I later found out was very poorly treated, I'm assuming because they saw her as a pothead, drug user).

From his search he was able to find the content of the cigars that we emptied into the trash to make the blunt, the cigarillo container, and a pair of hemostats that he was claiming to be a roach clip (which wasn't the case, they used a bobby pin). Nothing else.

We still hadn't said anything more, so with this "evidence" he claimed that he had to arrest someone for what happened, and seeing as my father was the owner of the property, it was going to be him. They put handcuffs on him and took him outside.

Several minutes later, the officer came back inside without my father and kept asking the same questions as before. After some scare tactics involving my mom's life and my dad going to prison and agreeing to only charge them a ticket, my friend finally agreed to take the officer to the marijuana outside.

The officer got the marijuana, wrote my friend a ticket for simple possession since it was less than 30 grams and was a first offense, and finally allowed us to leave to see my mom.

My questions are:

* Is there anything that my friend can do to keep this off of their record? They are still in college themselves but will be preparing to get a job soon.

* Is there anything in what happened with the cop that could help their case? (searching the house, not allowing anyone to leave,..)

* What is the likelihood of my friend having their driver's license suspended for six months like I'm reading online? They absolutely cannot afford this as they will continue to have class during those six months, public transportation isn't an option, and no one will be around to drive them where they need to go.

TL;DR:

* My mom wanted to try smoking marijuana for the first time.

* My friend brought her some.

* They smoked, and she had a bad reaction to it.

* We called 911, and the police got involved.

* The officer searched the house and threatened to take my dad to jail.

* My friend confessed that it was their marijuana.

* The officer wrote him a ticket for simple possession.

Any help would be greatly appreciated. We are fully prepared to pay any fees or fines; my friend just really can't afford to have this on their record or a six month driver's license suspension.

Answer:
 This is a life lesson, never talk to the police. Ever.

That's it, that's the advice.

They had no evidence, like at all. They found a cigar container, the inside of said cigar and some scissors essentially. Tobacco is not illegal, nor is the wrapping for it, nor are hemostats. He was intimidating you all, and you all took the bait. He took your father outside because he was being the vocal one and came back in because he knew you two looked like you would crack. Your father would have been released after the officer came back in if you wouldn't have admitted to anything.

The cop is obviously a veteran (not military, just on the force). It's obvious what happened there, and he correctly assumed it was the children who had it. He grilled you guys (while alone) and like typical kids you gave in.

Lesson learned.


Title: Thish is illegal right?

Question:
My friend made this website http://prntscr.com/9krbeo
This is clearly a violation of copyright law right? It's somewhat of a clone of spotify, however it doesn't have licenses. Along with that, it also directly rips the audio from youtube music videos. The key feature is that it bypasses  the youtube adverts.

Answer: Thash is almost certainly infringing.


Title: [Netherlands] Does Universal own the rights to Jurassic Park's interpretation of the Dilophosaurus?

Question:
I'm in the process of setting up my own food/small grocery delivery business. A while ago I came across [this fanart](https://www.reddit.com/r/JurassicPark/comments/7vhb9c/jurassic_park_fan_art/) of a Dilophosaurus with a pizza frill. I loved this, it really stands out and I'm considering using it as a logo on the side of the pizza boxes on the back of the delivery scooter. I have the artist's permission, but I wanted to double check the legality of it from a copyright/trademark point of view.
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My considerations:
* I will use only the dinosaur as depicted in the fanart, not the "Jurassic Pizza" logo or any reference to "Jurassic".
* The Dilophosaurus was an actual animal, but the way it was depicted in Jurassic Park, with a frill around its neck, was (likely) incorrect.
* The idea of the Dilophosaurus with a frill around its neck was first popularized by the movie Jurassic Park.
* The Dilophosaurus has been depicted with a frill around its neck in other media outside the Jurassic Park franchise.
* I would argue that the idea of the Dilophosaurus with a frill around its neck has extended far beyond the Jurassic Park movie(s) and is how many people, rightly or wrongly, consider the animal to have looked like.
* As such, I would argue that to use the Dilophosaurus with a frill around its neck, in general and in this fanart specifically, is not an infringement of copyright or trademark.
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I'd love to have some feedback!

Answer: No. As the image you are using is original, and have permission from the creator, there is no problem.


Title: [MI] Friend wants custody of her little brother

Question: [deleted]

Answer: Your friend has a snowball's chance in hell.


Title: Accidentally sexted a minor parents and school found out (minutes ago)

Question: They made me send $1100 and they keep calling me and I'm scared to death. I turned 18 this month so I'm screwed

Answer:
 99% sure that you gave $1100 to scammers, and they want more.
Answer #2: A school isn’t going to accept money for not reporting a case of sexual abuse. They are mandatory reporters and could go to jail for failure to report. Cancel the money right now, and then go onto google and search for sexting underage scam. Then look through this subreddit and look at the 2000 it’s been posted here, and then do the same for r/scams


Title: Tree fell on car.

Question: [Reno, NV] So the backstory.  Recently my apartment complex has been doing work to repair the parking lot and sidewalks. The trees around the complex had their roots grow out and cracks in the cement were all over the place. They started with the parking lot. After digging up and pouring a new lot it was time for new sidewalks. About two weeks ago they finished a section next to a tree that on the opposite side of the tree was the parking lot. Cut to today I woke up and was leaving for work. to my surprise the tree fell over on my car. We were taking pictures of as much as we could. From the bottom of the tree you could clearly tell that the wind had uprooted the tree. Here is the thing you can clearly see that all of the roots were cut away for the new concrete.  My question here is that. Can the apartment complex be held liable for the tree sence they cut all the roots away?

Answer:
 > Can the apartment complex be held liable for the tree sence they cut all the roots away?

Maybe. But the smart move is to make a claim with your insurance. That's why you pay for it. If the apartment complex can be held liable, your insurance company will file a subrogation action.


Title: Public Urination: class c misdemeanor

Question: I'm an 18 year old student in a nevada college. Last night I was at a party and it got copped out. I went outside and really had to pee. I started peeing behind a bush when a cop put his light on me. I moved behind a car and continued peeing. The cop grabbed me and say me down on the curve. I was compliant so he charged me with a class c misdemeanor of public urination. This is my only time getting in trouble with the law. I don't want this stupid mistake to be on my record and mess up my scholarships and any job opportunities. Is there anything I can do at the hearing so the judge will spare me from getting a criminal record? The fine is 138$ and I could just pay it and wouldn't have to go to court. Would it still be on my record? I also blew  a breathalyzer and it was .12% if that means anything.

Answer: Why did you blow a breathalyzer?


Title: 17 yr old transguy running from west virginia to pennsylvania.

Question:
my friend has run away from an abusive, violent home to avoid both the abuse and conversion therapy.

its illegal to run away in west virginia but he has made it over state lines (over 100 miles ON FOOT) in to pittsburgh. he has arrived at a shelter who informed him they have called the authorities but that he is not being detained or returned.

what are his rights, what is he entitled to and how can he procure an emancipation. thank you

Answer: IANIL but I have some experience on what happens when a child runs away from WV and leaves state because I know 2 children that ran from here to SC. Here's what happened with them: Since they were runaways,  the parents were responsible for getting their children from SC. CPS was immediately involved.  There's a time limit on parents picking the kids up. Since it is illegal,  he'll have to go to court for it and there's a possibility he'll be put in a juvenile home in WV. These juvenile homes are pretty well run here. Since he ran because of abuse, he may not be returned to his parents until the court hearing.


Title: [CA/BayArea] Cop told me to say something to get my citation thrown away at the court and I can't remember what it was.

Question: [deleted]

Answer:
 > Basically damage that 75% of the people wouldn't care about

Are you kidding me? In a 2017 BMW that's going be like $3000+ worth of damage, I'd bet.

> he told me to go to the courthouse and say something very specific and basically the citation will be removed (I don't want to use his exact words here)

There's about a 100% chance the cop was just lying to you to calm you down. Cops aren't lawyers. ~~Though if it's your first ticket ever, you might be able to get it deferred or negotiate it down to something other than speeding, like inattentive driving or something~~. Never mind, I was wrong about that last part in CA.


Title: Murder trial

Question: [deleted]

Answer: Your brother needs to listen to his lawyer.  Court-appointed lawyers are generally very effective.


Title: Do I commit crime if it's related to my family? I sold my mom's fur coat without her consent and without her knowing, I stole her credit card and used it, what crimes did I commit?

Question:
Topic:
Criminal Law

Answer:
 Theft.Answer #2: >what crimes did I commit?

Theft, to begin with. And, depending on the dollar amount, it can be elevated to grand theft.


Title: A ticket I can't afford

Question:
I'm a full time student and was given a ticket I can't afford and won't be available on the given court date to contest or ask for a reduction at the minimum. They told me I could have a lawyer show up but the lawyers in the area will end up costing me more or close to the fine and obviously can't  gaurantee anything. I was curious if anyone knew of any other options or am I just outta luck and gotta dirty up my credit.
Edit:San Luis Obispo, CA

Answer: You can request that the court move the hearing. They're generally amenable to something like that provided you ask far enough in advance.


Title: [FL] Sister was arrested, but it involved corrupt cops, potentially illegal car searches, and more fun. What can we do now?

Question:
A couple weeks ago, a girl my sister knew from rehab said she NEEDED to borrow my sister's car for an hour to do something. She begged and begged until my sister gave in. Of course, she never brought the car back. My sister attempted to report the car as stolen, but was told she could not after she told the cops she gave the girl her keys, even though this was days after they agreed on one hour. Jump forward a week, the car is finally towed. And my sister is able to retrieve it. Her wheels were all replaced by the shittiest tires imaginable, and there were three stolen SUV tires in her trunk. The battery was also replaced. So, my mom pays for everything to get replaced and we think the nightmare is over.

A few days later my sister is having an argument with her ex(?) boyfriend and she pulls over to finish the call. Eventually, a cop comes by. She is clearly distraught, which he interprets for intoxication and asks her to get out of the car. He searches the car and finds a purse filled with all sorts of drugs under the passenger seat, which my sister somehow missed. In the glove box, there was a stolen credit card, and obviously the stolen tires in the trunk (which happened to be concealing a police scanner). All of this, except the tires, was unknown to my sister. They search her purse, take all of her cash (wtf?), seize her car, and arrest her.

Today, she went to court and was sent to rehab. She tried to explain the stolen car scenario, but the prosecutor denied, saying it was a lie, I guess. My sister also claims that it also came out that the police, according to the judge, had been tracking all of her phone calls, pictures, and other phone activity for the past six months and had everything (why would the do this? Is this legal? All of today's proceedings were explained to me by my grandmother, so it's possible my sister is hiding something that happened 6 months ago, but I don't believe there is anything, so this really puzzles me.

Of course, you'll want to know if my sister was high or knew of the drugs in her car. In the past, when I've confronted her about whether she has relapsed, she has, to my knowledge, been honest, even when she's still using and trying to get clean. That may sound like she relapses a ton, but it's only really happened a few times. Also, one of the drugs they found was her drug of choice, so I highly doubt she would have let it sit there had she known it existed. It would either be in her, inside her house, or in the toilet. As for the court proceedings, I'm going to try and get a copy of the transcript once the court opens tomorrow.

My sister, obviously, has no money. My parents are going through a divorce and both JUST retired, so their finances are a mess. They already have a ton of legal expenses and can't really afford more. So, we can't really afford a lawyer.

Were the cops right to deny her the ability to report the stolen car?
Was the search of her car legal?
What can we do now to get her car back?
What the hell is up with the phone tracking?
Can we do anything about the police corruption (report it to a sheriff or something)?

edit: My mother tried to contact a criminal defense lawyer. His suggestion was offering the police money for the car back. Isn't this just bribery?

edit 2: Okay, calm down. I'm just trying to sort out all the facts here. I understand that no real corruption was involved. It is a simple misunderstanding.

Also, her "intent to deal" charges were lifted through a bargain that the public defender made. Does this mean we can retrieve the "evidence" (her cash) back?

My main concern, which hasn't really been addressed, is getting the car back.

Topic:
Criminal Law

Answer:
 Here's what I see about this story right off the bat-

You don't have all the facts.

You're getting one side of the story, third hand, from a person who has clearly made poor decisions in the past.

I don't see any evidence of corruption, and no one here has enough information to say if the search was legal or not.

If you want to file a complaint against the police, you can.  If you want to contact a lawyer to see if you have grounds for a lawsuit, you can.

My guess is, though, that if you had all the facts, you might have a different opinion of what happened.


Title: Received a message about a Cease and Desist Letter

Question: So I run a website and it was created in 2014. Another website doing the same things (fantasy sports) launched in 2015. I've never used their site, never stolen content etc. Sometimes I'll receive an email, as our email is support@dailyrotohelp and I'm assuming this other sites is similar to this, and some users think we are them but I've never represented myself as the other website or slandered or anything of that nature. I then received a DM on Twitter (not the most reliable I get it) and they said they needed to talk, had my number and a different email address. Said if I don't stop they will send a cease and desist. Now, they won't tell me what it's about, but what am I looking at if they do send? Not sure it matters, but my website was made into an LLC last December. Basically, am I freaking out over nothing? Should I be worried? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Answer:
 >Now, they won't tell me what it's about, but what am I looking at if they do send?

You're looking at a legally-worthless letter that says, "Cut it out, or else."  Cease and desist letters aren't anything legally-special -- they're just normal letters that generally come from a lawyer's office telling you that if you don't stop doing X, Y, and/or Z, then they're going to take legal action, usually in the form of a lawsuit.  It's a heads-up giving you the opportunity to rectify before they sue, nothing more.

It could be that they're under the impression that you're somehow infringing a copyright or trademark of theirs.


Title: [South Carolina] general contractor ripped us off, best way to get money back?

Question:
Long story short, GC was hired to level floors, lay plywood and install wood floors. He quoted us $1000 and said it would take 2 days. It's been 6 days, he's been paid, and has not even finished leveling the floor and laying plywood never mind the actual installation! He has continually told us "it will be done today" and no progress has been made. We already paid them because he seemed hard up and were nice (though apparently stupid) people.

We were assured for what we til them would be the last time that plywood would be done by this morning. It's not.

I want them out of my house and I want my money back, by I haven't talked to them yet. What can I do to best ensure my money is refunded?

Answer:
 Send a certified letter demanding that he come back and finish the job within x days. Make it reasonable -- say, 10 days.

If he doesn't, file a lawsuit in small claims court. Expect to pay around $75 - $150. You may be able to recover these costs in the lawsuit.


Title: (Ohio) Suspended without pay - 2 days - Insubordination?

Question:
**I have a few questions here.**

I was just brought to the office where they handed me a 2 day suspension without pay.

The reason I was suspended was made up... My GSM said I told him to "fk off".

I DID hang up on my GM, but that was to prevent me saying something stupid.

Why would I say something stupid to the GSM, but not the GM?

So, they bullshitted their way into suspending me. **Can I request an investigation or something?**

Id like them to prove that these comments were made.

I do my work and keep to myself, I used an angry tone, which other coworkers have done with no disciplinary action.

Hell, one of the salesmen has directly cussed AT the managers.

Whenever it happens (its happened ~ 5 times) our gm says "well shes just passionate" and ignores the fact that she cusses at us, yells, even scream, and is constantly disrespectful.

**I also would like to know if there is a possibity of discrimination.**

Many times, salesmen are allowed to cuss, but if we do, its insubordination.

Also, on my suspension notice, it is dated dec 31. 2019. I received it today around 3pm after working ~ 1 1/2 hrs. **Should I go back in on Jan 3?** That is 2 days from the 31st.

In addition, **should I be getting paid for that 1 1/2 hr?** Nobody called or msged me saying not to come in.  I was driving out to a customer when they requested I come back to talk to my GM. I came back and they suspended me.

**Will that 1 1/2 hour show since they didn't warn me to not clock in?** I still worked.
Topic:
Employment Law

Answer:
 You can be disciplined for hanging up on your manager, up to and including termination. They don't have to offer evidence of anything.Answer #2: Yes, you should be paid for all hours worked.

No, you have no legal right to an investigation or due process for your suspension.

No, it is not illegal on its face to hold sales reps and support staff to different standards.


Title: (VA, USA) Asked to pay for electricity before lease starts

Question:
I signed a lease for an apartment, and my lease begins a week from today. The leasing agent called me this afternoon (Sunday) to ask me to establish an electric account first thing Monday morning as the current tentants have just moved out, and they have contractors coming in this week to make upgrades to the apartment and need power. The leasing agent (LA) made it sound like I HAD to do this immediately, but my roommates and I were hesitant since our lease doesn't start until a week from now, and we didn't feel comfortable paying for things like this until our lease begins. After we told LA we had reservations about paying for the electric for power tools and the AC in the summer heat, the LA begrudgingly said he could start the account and pay this week of electric.

I'm curious about the legality of this, more from a curiosity standpoint, about whether turning on electric a week before a lease begins would be the LA and the owners responsibilty, or is it the future tenant's responsibity. I didn't see anything referenced in our lease to this exact situation or online, so I'm turning here for advice!

Answer:
 If your lease commences on a particular date, your obligations under that lease also commence on that date. You are not obligated to pay for utilities until you actually occupy the property.

In short: no, that's not legal and good on you for pushing back on the issue.


Title: [Michigan, USA] Problem concerning "All Sales Final" transaction and our request for a refund.

Question:
Hey r/legaladvice, we are in a bit of a situation and were hoping you could provide some guidance.

My SO and I initially bought a groupon for laser hair removal sessions at a local day spa. We had been wanting to do this for awhile but the cost kept us away until the groupon came along about half a year ago. At first we purchased a package for 6 sessions each and we hoped that would be enough. After our first session we asked the technician (who is also the owner) if the groupon price would be honored if we needed additional treatments. Her response was "yes." After our 6 sessions were up and results were minimal we were advised to purchase a few more sessions. When we went to checkout the price was ridiculously higher than the agreed upon "groupon" price. She said that she had no recollection of the "groupon pricing" conversation and that it was far too low to offer again. Instead she offered a special deal that was only going during January. Put on the spot and still wanting results we reluctantly purchased 3 more sessions each for $800 total.

Fast forward about a month to our first treatment of the 3 additional sessions.

After much discussion between my SO and I, we decided that the $800 was just too much for 3 sessions considering 6 sessions barely yielded any results. This was largely due to the fact that we have our wedding coming up in a matter of months and are planning on moving after my graduation this semester. (I'm also a broke college student) We called the spa to cancel our appointment and see about a refund but only the receptionist was in that day. She said that she was sure something could be worked out and that she would make sure the owner contacted us. 24 hours later and still no contact, we decided to call again. We finally contacted the owner and she straight out told us that there was nothing she could do about the situation. She said that all sales are final and that it is stated on a sign at the checkout desk. I don't doubt that it was but we were never verbally informed of this policy. After arguing with her on the phone for 15 minutes we were getting no where. She offered to give us store credit towards other spa treatments or products but absolutely no possibility of a refund. When I asked why a refund wasn't possible she simply said "Because it's company policy and I can't just break it. If I do it for you I'll have to do it for everyone." I asked for a more in-depth reason other than the typical "because I said so" but she just kept repeating herself. Keep in mind she is the owner.

I could understand if we had pre-paid for a product or service that required supplies and labor before we used said purchase but that isn't the case at all. Our pre-payment simply required her to mark us down for 3 sessions and schedule the first one, that's it. We haven't received ANY goods or services for our $800. If she can transfer our payment towards any goods or services in the store then I'm sure she can refund it.

It seems unreasonable that a business can make a policy where no goods or services are transferred or used but we can't get a refund? We have considered contacting the BBB but we are both pretty uneducated when it comes to the legal process, especially with small claims/businesses. We are pretty confident that we can get a refund as long as we have some grounds to stand upon and bring them to her attention. We have made it very clear that we do not want the sessions or anything that she has to offer us, we just want our money back.

Thanks in advance for any advice or knowledge you can provide!

Answer:
 If the company policy is clearly stated (visually) that there are no refunds then they do not have to give you a refund. They also do not have to verbally tell you that there are no refunds. It just has to be posted. Your best bet is to try and sell someone the service that you purchased and get some of your money back.

Also, the BBB can do nothing. They are just a place to complain about a company. They have no authority what so ever.


Title: Landlord wants to deduct from deposit for professional cleaning of an already cleaned apartment (CA, USA)

Question:
This situation is slightly unusual as our original contract was with a different landlord (super nice guy) but he sold to place and the new guy who bought it is refusing to return our deposit. The new guy intends to live in the apartment himself and not rent it out, hence we had to move out.

We just moved out of the apartment and we spent an entire day cleaning it, bleaching things, and making sure everything is as spotless as possible by non professional cleaning standards. I want to emphasize that the place is super cleaned, no dirt or trash left, all easily reachable surfaces wiped down, and we have photos and video evidence.

However, the new guy without telling us beforehand went and hired professional cleaning services to clean things we couldn't possibly have access to such as spider webs that were 20ft up in the double height ceiling, or dust in air vents, dust behind the washing machine, dust on top of the fridge etc. He is taking the professional cleaning cost out of our deposit and refusing to give it back. He said we left the place uninhabitable.

To my understanding the deposit is for actual damages to the apartment like if we punched holes in the wall, destroyed the floors or left huge amounts of trash and dirt everywhere, not for dust in random hard to reach corners.

Do we have the legal right to get our deposit back?

Answer:
 You'll have to sue the landlord for the return of your deposit, and a Judge will decide by your pictures whether the place was properly cleaned.

Also, I would like to applaud you for taking the time to get photo documentation. It will help you out in court.


Title: Possible discrimination with would-be employer

Question:
Hello, Reddit.
I am a current student in a certificate coop program for a large chemical company based in my hometown. I have worked and gone to school full-time in order to turn my life around and fulfill my dream of a position in the hallowed halls of this place. Full disclosure, I am in a recovery program for opiate addicts and have been on the straight and narrow for several months now. My doctor has me on suboxone maintenance therapy, which has allowed me the freedom to become an honors student with a 4.0 gpa and a peer mentor for my college. I did very well at the interview and was told I was going to be hired. I went for the pre-employment physical and had to disclose the medication I am taking. I wasn't worried thinking that a legal prescription would be the end of the subject. After my physical I went home and many days later recieved a call from a medical officer who asked if I had a legitimate reason to be taking the meds. I repsonded that I have a RX and he said that even though I technically passed, they consider it a fail because they don't allow it. I got a letter today that said I will not be hired due to the safety concerns. From what I understood addiction is a protected disability and this is a violation of the ADA. I'm currently just trying to get a straight answer on whether I can get off of it and reapply but I can't get anyone with authority to say so on the phone or email. If it matters I live in TN. Is there anything I can do?
edit: added a word

Answer:
 The ADA only requires *reasonable* accommodation of a disability.  That isn't always possible.  Allowing an addict who's been in recovery for a very short period of time to work with or near dangerous chemicals may be one of those occasions.

Feel free to talk to a local attorney about it.


Title: Is there a way to fight a suspension under a zero tolerance policy?

Question: My stepson got suspended from school for fighting. The other kid was also suspended and the police were called on him (but not my stepson) My stepson did not hit him at all, he had started punching my stepson when he walked by. A group of students and 2 teachers all backed up my stepson but the principal said there was nothing he could do because the state of Florida has a zero tolerance policy for violence at school. The suspension means my stepson isn't allowed to be on the basketball team. Is what the principal said true? My husband is livid and wants to sue but I think this can be resolved without it coming to that.

Answer: So someone just punched your stepson and he will be punished for it? That can't be real!


Title: IL - I have surveillance video of a neighbor backing into my car

Question:
I live in a house in a residential neighborhood. I don't have a garage but I have a concrete parking pad on my property where I park my car. Today my across-the-alley neighbor caught up to me in my yard to hand me a DVD from his security camera showing his neighbor to the south backing his truck directly into my parked car while maneuvering to leave. He drove off without checking to see if there was damage, leaving a note, or knocking on my door to let me know.

The damage is very minimal — a couple scratches & a somewhat mangled license plate that my husband flattened out before I could get a picture of it — but there is damage on a nearly brand new car. Mostly I'm just pissed that he drove off without bothering to say anything. Accidents happen, but be neighborly about it.

Is there anything I can or should do in this situation?

Answer:
 Report the hit and run to the police.

Report the accident to your insurance company or sue the neighbor for your damages.Answer #2: This happened to my friend, near identical situation. He confronted the hit-and-runner with the video, and the hit-and-runner agreed to cover the cost to repair the car and then some (it was was an extra grand or so, if I recall) to avoid being reported to the police. All depends on if you know and like this neighbor, I guess.Answer #3: This isn't legal advice but make sure you buy the across-the-alley neighbour a crate of beer or something else - He didn't have to give you that DVD!Answer #4: If the hit was small enough (sounds like it might be due to minimal damage), your neighbor might not even know he bumped your car being he was in a truck.

You could attempt to speak to him about it first before you start calling the cops...


Title: Getting divorced and wondering what's my best move to avoid spousal support.

Question: [deleted]

Answer: Don't hate me, but you're probably going to have to pay her monthly for some time.


Title: [Connecticut] Got a blocked-number call from a 'licensed private investigator'. What are my rights and obligations?

Question:
He declined to give his name (by way of avoiding the question). Since he malformed my name, I said there was "no such person" here and hung up. (I was also telling him the truth when I said that I was having trouble understanding him to begin with.)

The number was blocked, so I have no idea where he was calling from (though I'm sure my telco can find out), but he had a strong Southern accent not typical of the Northeast.

Am I obliged to speak to an LPI, or even to acknowledge them if they call? How should I have handled this, and what should I do if it happens again?

Thank you.

Topic:
Other Civil Matters

Answer: You are under no obligation to speak with him.


Title: USA/ID 8 Months Since Being Injured On The Job And Have Gone No Where Do To Prejudice Doctors.

Question: [deleted]

Answer:
 > This specialist was so unprofessional. First he tries bring in a medical student into my first appointment with him. I told he i rather not have anyone in my appointment. He had her leave, good.

Why do you think this is unprofessional?


Title: Iowa - Calling the police on neighborhood kids

Question:
My wife and I have been having issues with the kids in our neighborhood shooting airsoft guns. We caught them shooting the metal flue cover on our house and discovered they cracked the siding in a few places. I brought it up the next day when I saw the parent and he said he'd talk with his kid. They now run around their yard shooting each other when the parent isn't home and our house unintentionally gets hit.

It's at the point where I feel the only option is to call the non-emergency police line and ask them come talk to all the kids that participate, not just the one that lives next door, to make this stop. I guess my question is, are there any other options I can consider before this and becoming "that neighbor?"

Answer:
 Let's be honest here: anything you do that will end up with them stopping will turn you into "that neighbor."

So no, I'd just call the non-emergency line and have some cops come down and talk with them and get them to stop. They'll listen.Answer #2: You’ve already tried talking to the parents. They are vandalizing your property. You should contact the police.


Title: "Groomed" throughout high school, finally filing a police report about it. Not sure what happens next?

Question:
Location: South FL

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Hi all, title says a lot.

I'm 19 now, but between ages 15-17 I was in a sexual relationship with the principal of my very small school.

For some background, I had a lot of psychological problems throughout high school (bipolar, severe anxiety, PTSD from sexual assault when I was a child) and during a two year period (when I was 14-16) was in and out of the psychiatric hospital a total of 5 times for attempted suicide and self harm. He knew of all of this as he quickly became a close family friend since the school was so small.

I plan to go to the police department and file a report but I don't really have any evidence as the text messages exchanged during that period have since been deleted. Can anything come of it without proper evidence? If anything happens with this, can he use my mental illness against me? I just don't want anything like that to happen to someone else, and I know that if he did this to me then he's likely doing it to others.

He still contacts me occasionally, and at one point told me we should get coffee "for old times sake". I don't have the text, it made me too sick to keep on my phone. I also blocked him on everything ever since disclosing what happened to my mom and my therapist.

Answer:
 The police can recover text messages. Your testimony is also evidence. You should definitely report this to the police.

I would discuss reporting with your therapist. Calling RAINN might also be helpful: https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotline

I'm sorry this happened to you. Answer #2: What phone do you have? It can help if you are able to recover the messages.Answer #3: You should report it to the police, and then take the report to the school board (or Board of Trustees, if it is a private school.

There is a very good chance he has done or is doing this to other children, and an investigation may help them in ways you cannot yet even imagine.

School boards take this very, very seriously (I am a Trustee at a large school). No one can make promises, but the overwhelming odds are that you will be met with a lot of people that want to help you work through something terrible.

I have seen this before (too often), and I am struck over and over by the bravery it takes to stand up to this man's horrid behavior. Please know that a lot of people you will never meet are standing shoulder to shoulder behind you.

There will come a day soon where he answers for his crimes, and seeing that won't make up for what he's done, but it's not a bad start on the road to healing.

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Title: Wouldn't requiring proof of vaccination be a HIPAA violation?

Question: [removed]

Answer:
 No.

HIPAA applies to "covered providers" which are almost exclusively medical providers and insurance companies.

YOU can provide your health information to anyone  you want.

And (generally speaking) businesses can ask for that information as a condition for not wearing a mask in the store.

No violation there.


Title: Apartment neighbor issues

Question:
I live in a 3 level apartment complex in IL. My Apt is on the 2nd floor. The people who live above me are getting into fights and being crazy loud all day long. I moved in in Sep, sense then i have called the cops 3x times to deal with their noise. The 3rd time i called the cops they showed up as they normaly do. after 15 min cops left and i went about my day. a little bit later i had to run out to my car and the people above me stopped me in the hallway and asked if i called the cops. They were visibly anoyied. I said no and walked back into my apt.
I called my land lord and told him that i was stopped in the hallway and i have called the cops 3x sence i moved in.

I asked him if they have any other apts in other buildings, he said yes and told me it was a 3rd floor one. He also said that he is tired of dealing with the people cause they are always late on rent every month. he also said he does not want his tenats being harrased.

its been 1 week and i have not heard anything back yet about getting rid of them or allowing me to move.

If the land lord does not allow me to move and/or does not kick them out can I break the lease? Due to a section in the lease stateing  that if police are called for any issues that is a reason to be evicted.
should i get a FOIA from the police dept reguarding any visits to this complex? whould that help me out at all?
Topic:
Landlord Tenant Housing

Answer: You have no standing to force the LL to evict them as you are not a party to that lease. Generally a tenant can only break a lease for a habitability issue. Whether this rises to that I don't know, but I doubt it.Answer #2: This is not grounds to break your lease. You can, however, continue to call the police and complain to the landlord.


Title: If someone says "you do not want to make me an enemy" can that be considered a threat?

Question: Hypothetically, say you hired a business to complete a job. And then they did things that you later said you would be filing a complaint against them for. And what if their response to that was, " you do not want to make an enemy of me by doing that". Is that  something that could be considered a threat?  Would that be grounds for taking legal action?

Answer:
 Yes, that's pretty clearly a threat.

No, that would almost certainly not be grounds for legal action.

"Threats", with *no other qualifiers or conditions* is not something that's broadly illegal.  For example, the contractor in your hypothetical could be threatening to sue you, or threatening to tell other people in the industry not to take you on as a client.  Neither of those would be illegal.

Threats are illegal in specific circumstances.  For example, in [AZ under section 13-1202](https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/01202.htm), it outlines the specific conditions under which a threat qualifies as illegal, and whether it is a misdemeanor or felony.

Your contractor's vague "don't make an enemy out of me" does not fall under one of those specific circumstances; if they were in AZ, it's unlikely that the cops would take any action against them.


Title: Citation for a Controlled Substance in Vermont - How Much Have I Ruined My Life? [23 year old female]

Question: [deleted]

Answer:
 Don't be cheap about your legal defense.  This is a charge that could result in jail time: I believe you're looking at up to 1 year in prison and a $2000 fine.  The officer searched with your consent.

I think your clean record and your promising future are a point in your favor, but you need to have a lawyer who gives a damn about you, and that means one that is getting paid for it and will argue on your behalf.  You need to talk to a lawyer right away because you should really be looking for a plea of some kind that keeps your record clean, and that needs to be negotiated.  Answer #2: Did you give permission for the search?

Something like:

Officer: "Ma'am, do you mind if I search your bag?"

You: "No, go ahead"

EDIT: You likely are being charge with breaking the following:

>§ 4234. Depressant, stimulant, and narcotic drugs

>(a) Possession.

>(1) A person knowingly and unlawfully possessing a depressant, stimulant, or narcotic drug, other than heroin or cocaine, shall be imprisoned not more than one year or fined not more than $2,000.00, or both.

At most you are looking at a $2,000 fine and a year in jail. This is the maximum, and you will not get anywhere close to this.

You work for an investment firm, you are not going to qualify for a public defender.

Hire and attorney licensed in Vermont. Hope he can make a deal and hopefully end up with something like a $500 fine and some community service or a $1000 fine and no community service.


Title: When can my mother evict me?

Question: I am a 17 year old in missouri. Can my mother evict me? It is because i wasn't able to pay rent.

Answer: When you turn 18, your mother has to give you 30 days to move out if your rent is current or five days if you are behind on rent.


Title: Am I able to trademark an already existing name if the two fields of business have no overlap? (Utah, USA)

Question:
I have developed an [edge-lit numeric display for electronics hobbyists](https://hackaday.io/project/18633-lixie-an-led-alternative-to-the-nixie-tube) called the "Lixie", a short for "LED Nixie Tube".

There already exists [a company in Rhode Island named "Lixie"](http://www.lixiehammers.com), who has sold hammers, mallets and sledges since at least the 1980s when they trademarked the name.

Answer:
 You mean like, say Delta Airlines, Delta Power Tools and Delta Faucets?   Or SAS Airlines and SAS (the software company)?

Yes.  As long as the existing mark isn't "Famous" and your using the name isn't likely to confuse consumers, then there's no issue.


Title: [WV] Can a prenup prevent permanent, "standard of living" alimony payments in the event of a divorce?

Question:
I'm basically concerned that if I get married, and then divorced, I'll be on the hook for making alimony payments for the rest of my life.

What I'm wondering is if it's possible to create an agreement where neither party would be liable to pay any form of alimony for an extended or permanent basis.

Would such an agreement hold up in court?  Or would the judge decide that it's "unfair", and throw it out?

If context matters, my would-be spouse works and would not be a "stay at home" anything in our marriage. I just want an equal marriage with equal outcomes in the event of a divorce.

Answer: Sure get an attorney. Then your partner needs to get an attorney. Then attorneys get to meet. They handle your case. And if we are lucky they will fall in love. Then they have to get attorneys.


Title: My new coworker gets better hours because he is married and has kids

Question:
Canada (British Columbia)

Hello r/legaladvice,

Not here to complain about my job just want to know how to approach it.

I cover the Saturday shift at work which is fine by me, my coworker who covered the Sunday shift got fired for sleeping on the job.

My supervisor hires the husband of someone who works in the same office (but different department). I was already annoyed by this decision because he has little experience and the intern would have been a better choice. Anyway, I have more work experience so at least I get seniority, yay.

Then my supervisor tells me the new guy gets Mon - Fri and I have to cover both Sat and Sun. I told him I'll take either one of the weekend days but my supervisor already promised the new guy regular hours so that he can spend time with his family. Is this right? Should I be compensated with wage increase or something for this unfavorable schedule?

I work for a unionized government entity so my supervisor's decisions cannot be ratified with favoritism.

Thanks!

UPDATE: I talked my union rep, they managed to keep my original schedule, for now they put the rest of the crew on on-call emergency only rotation to cover Sundays.
Topic:
Labor Law

Answer:
 Talk to your union rep. This is what you pay dues for.

That having been said, this may not be against the contract. Answer #2: OP, it sounds like this new employee negotiated this schedule as a part of his initial employment negotiation. It was promised to him at the time he was hired. Make sure to mention this to your union rep when you complain, as it may complicate things depending on your contract.


Title: Can I fire my employee for being gay? different state lines in play

Question: [removed]

Answer:
 Don't put spaces before new lines or it formats as code.

> So I own a small business that has been blessed grown over the past few years.I live and started my business off in Montgomery county(Maryland), but have recently expanded over into Loudoun county (Virginia).Now here's the dilemma, I have a manager at one of my shops that I recently found out is gay.She has been working for about 1.5 years and is an average to maybe slightly above average manager.That being said her being homosexual and the lifestyle she pertains in goes against mine so I want to fire her.

> The catch is though my company is founded and mostly based in Maryland,but the specific chain she manages is in Virginia (literally about 5min from the Maryland Virginia border) and I also believe she is a resident of Virginia.So can I fire her without facing repercussions or will I have to go through extra legal scrutiny?

Virginia does not offer homosexuals any additional employment protections.  You're free to fire her without cause and pay unemployment.

You can expect a PR backlash if you go through with that, though.


Title: Sold a dirt bike on craigslist after saying that it had damage. Buyer is threatening me after seeing that it had a cracked frame.

Question: I had a dirt bike with engine damage and other miscellaneous problems. I listed in on craigslist for $500 and after selling it to the buyer they contacted me saying that it was illegal to sell a car or motorcycle with undisclosed damage in Iowa (residence state). I told them multiple times that it was damaged and that I had not had it checked out because I could not afford to. I am a minor in Iowa. Is there anything that they can do to me? Am I in danger of any kind of legal action.

Answer:
 Ignore them.  They can sue you (and your parents, most likely) but they might not win if you actually said it was damaged.

If they do sue you, gather up all the documentation you have that disclosed the damage and show up to court.Answer #2: Keep a copy of your listing for sale and any written correspondence with the buyer. Did you sign a bill of sale along with the transfer of title? You probably didn't do anything *illegal*, but without some kind of documentation of as-is condition or any written disclosure of existing damage you may have some exposure here. If he gets really grumpy you can offer to return his money and void the sale to end the issue. Or you can tell him all sales are final and stick to your guns, see what happens. Do not ignore any summons from the court, do ignore threats from buyer or attorney.


Title: Can someone get out of paying child support by getting on disability?

Question:
*Texas*

Ok so here's a little background so you all won't think we're evil.

My girlfriend gets child support from her ex husband. Back in February, his then girlfriend ran her car purposefully off the road and into a tree in an attempt to kill him. Over the course of their relationship she has threatened to kill herself and him multiple times. Last month he came to a "realization" that he still loves her even after her failed attempt to kill him and ended up getting married to her! Now he's about to start receiving disability and is basically telling my girlfriend that he's found a way to get out of his financial obligations to his children.

Can he do this? Any advice will help. Thank you in advance.

Answer: SSDI can be garnished for child support and/or alimony.


Title: I want to sue PayPal

Question:
(Copied in part from /r/bitcoin) I posted an ad on ebay selling btc, specifying the sender's address (mine). The buyer sent his btc address through ebay's messaging system, I sent the btc, got positive feedback, item marked as received, etc. Next thing I know paypal reversed the payment because the user said her account was hacked. They said seller protection does not cover digital goods because it is hard to trace if they were delivered.

Question 1: Having the blockchain transaction, do I have a case to sue them? if so,

Question 2: I offer a percentage of the gain to a lawyer who will do this. I can't afford one but I will give you a percentage to be agreed if we win.

http://www.reddit.com/r/Bitcoin/comments/31dgqx/i_want_to_sue_paypal/

The paypal account is from the US and the ebay account from South America

Answer:
 [The Seller Protection Program](https://www.paypal.com/us/webapps/helpcenter/helphub/article/?solutionId=FAQ2350&topicID=SECURITY_PROTECTIONS_US&m=TCI) clearly states that the item sold must be a physical item to qualify.

In fact, they state in a [second location](https://www.paypal.com/us/webapps/helpcenter/helphub/article/?solutionId=FAQ1156&topicID=SECURITY_PROTECTIONS_US&m=TCI) that intangible items are not covered.

You can try and sue, but the terms of use are clear.

Answer #2: Unfortunately, you got scammed.  It's just part of the cost of doing business.

When thieves use a stolen credit card to buy merchandise, the bank reverses the payment and the store has to take the loss.  That's just how it works.  You can sue the scammer (if you can find them) but not the intermediary.  Answer #3: Just FYI: PayPal's TOS specifically forbids the sale of virtual currencies.


Title: Emergency CO sensor went off in my apartment last night and I contacted the emergency hotline for the property. They were FAR from helpful and are refusing to cover the costs of testing.

Question:
I and my two roommates were experiencing severe headaches and also lightheadedness. Around midnight CO sensor went off and as it states above, I called the emergency hotline and they didnt offer any help whatsoever. They told us to sit outside.. that was the extent of their help. They didnt send anyone... they literally did nothing. So instead of sitting outside in the pouring rain I got the least expensive hotel room I could find and stayed their for the night. After work the next day I called our gas and electric provider and asked them to come and run some tests to make sure it was safe for me to come back back. Carbon monoxide does kill people after all.

They have refused to cover the cost of the hotel and also the cost of the testing. I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW THEY CAN DO THIS. A potentially deadly gas set off an emergency sensor and they are pretending nothing has happened. They alarm was flashing and actually said "Get to fresh air"

Can you guys give me some insight please?

Answer:
 A CO detector going off is a emergency. You call 911 first before calling anyone else.Answer #2: You should not have got a hotel.. you should have call 911 and the fire department would have come out and tested.  If needed the gas company would have come immediately.  It's unlikely they will reimburse you for the hotel as that was the wrong choice as a solution.Answer #3: You appear to be aware of this but for others who might be reading, do not spend ANY time in a building with carbon monoxide.  It has no odor and can kill you in minutes.

Whatever is generating the CO must be fixed (probably a furnace or water heater) before you can go back in.  At this point I would not trust your management company.  Buy your own CO detector and have it with you when you move back in.Answer #4: Next time it goes off get out of the apartment and call 911Answer #5: Short term, call the fire department if it happens again. These alarms *can* give false alarms (if the sensor is dirty, or the battery is old), but all alarms should be taken very seriously.

As a backup, there are very small, and very inexpensive carbon monoxide detectors you can get from the hardware store. They are made for RVs or cars, and look like a small plastic card with a brown dot. When exposed to CO, the brown dot changes color. They will not beep or alert you, but are a very good proof that there is carbon monoxide present: no risk of low batteries or mechanical issues. Grab a few of these, set them around, and check them regularly. Plus, they are permanently discolored once exposed, so you have a lasting proof that CO is present.


Title: I was an idiot and got married when I was 18, and it has haunted me ever since. (MA, USA)

Question:
**Okay, so this is likely going to be a long story no matter how I try to condense it, but here goes nothing:**

When I was a lonely and depressed 16 year old, I met a girl online through a social networking site. We became close friends, and for a while she was the only person that I felt comfortable talking openly with. Eventually I developed feelings for her. We maintained a long distance relationship for a while, as she was from another country. This grew to be unbearable for my idealistic and romantic mind, and I proposed that we get married so we could be together permanently. After going through a logistical nightmare of trying to orchestrate said-marriage while underaged, we finally tied the knot after I turned 18.

Even at that point, there were warning signs. She was severely depressed, frequently voiced suicidal thoughts, and on multiple occasions I had to wrestle sharp objects from her in order to prevent self harm. Furthermore, she was incredibly disrespectful to both myself and my family, in spite of the extraordinary lengths to which they went (and continue to go) for her. When we married, she voiced concern over her ability to remain committed. I should have taken these things more seriously, but I was hopelessly in love and very much an idealist.

I feel like I was living a lie for a great deal of this time. She would frequently vanish for days on end, claiming to be off with friends. She would make plans with me for holidays only to blow me off without warning. I lost the few friends I had at the time due to the extent to which she would trash talk me to them. Yet I continually excused these behaviors, as I knew she had been through a rough upbringing in her home country and that she had some serious mental issues. Things continued to escalate. My property would get broken in arguments, my family started buying in to her lies about me, and I was subjected to significant verbal abuse. At one point, she left for another state on a so-called "spiritual journey" with (unbeknownst to gullible me) another man. During this time she willingly lived homeless, and was first exposed to the wonderful world of dealing drugs. Eventually I learned that she had been cheating on me, and I ended the relationship after two years.

Our divorce was a drawn out affair, but was eventually signed off on mutually in the fall of 2014. Throughout all this time, my ex has remained in my family's home. Due to her immigration status, other living situations did not seem possible, and my family at that point had grown oddly attached to her. For a while, I humored the idea that we could remain friends. However, things only continued to spiral further and further out of control. She began dealing drugs using my family's car. She started allowing homeless people, complete strangers, to stay at my house. She would break into my room when I was not at home, and occasionally steal from me. My family is now aware of these things, but collectively we feel trapped. We can't simply kick her out, because that would result in her deportation. We can't come to a peaceful accord, because she is mentally unstable and extremely manipulative. I don't think she could even legally move out if we wanted to, since my family and I are her sponsors and she is registered at our address.

Now to cut to the present. She is about to go off to university, and has hit an obstacle with immigration. The USCIS wants proof that our marriage was legitimate, and has rejected everything that she has offered. What they want is a signed letter from myself, confirming the sincerity of our marriage.

 Morally I am torn on this one, but this is /rlegaladvice and not /rconfessions. What I want to know is what would the ramifications of submitting such a letter be? Would there be repercussions if I were not to comply with her request? What would likely happen to her? If I did agree to the letter, would it be possible to do so under contract as to ensure she would follow the fastest possible route towards an option that revoke my family's sponsorship of her (remarriage, obtaining citizenship, eventually leaving the country- whatever)?

If I did sign this letter for her, I would absolutely have conditions. Chief among these would be that she ceases dealing until she is no longer sponsored by me or my family. However, I feel like there are no ways to actually enforce this. If her dealing operations were exposed, would it reflect badly on me or my family? Obviously they do not condone them, but they also haven't reported them and at this point are knowledgeable of them (I suppose I should note that to my knowledge she deals primarily weed, although to me it seems like large quantities).

I am honestly so overwhelmed by all of this. I've recently been accepted into a great school, and cannot wait to begin pulling my life back together, but I feel immensely burdened by the weight of this long extinguished relationship. My priority with regards to this situation is to protect my family. Somehow I don't hold ill will towards my ex. I just want her out of my life.

Any and all help would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

**TLDR: I done goofed, tied the knot, and have been kicking myself ever since. Now I need some serious help.**

**EDIT:** Thank you everyone for your responses. I've decided not to provide her with the letter, and as far as I am concerned she is on her own. Honestly if I were able I would have kicked her out long ago. It is my family that would be against such a decision, and unfortunately since I am not the homeowner they get the final say. Supposedly she will be leaving soon to embark on another self-imposed homeless adventure on the west coast. If she follows through with this plan, I think it will finally tip the scales against her in the eyes of my family, and they've spoken of not allowing her back in after that.

Answer:
 > We can't simply kick her out, because that would result in her deportation.

As an American citizen and taxpayer, I support any outcome which leads to this person being deported.Answer #2: None of your actions or your family's actions will result in her deportation. Her own actions will do that just fine. Kicking her out isn't on you-- she's made it so that not only is she unpleasant to live with, but actively hazardous.

Everything in your post is classic codependency and enabling. Get her out of your life, sign nothing, and seek a therapist.


Title: If someone underage has nudes and they get leaked, can the underage person be penalized for child pornography? (PA)

Question: This is purely hypothetical, and of course I'm asking for a friend.

Answer:
 > This is purely hypothetical, and of course I'm asking for a friend.

Legally speaking, neither of those statements makes any difference.

Yes, minors can and have gotten in trouble for nude photos of themselves.


Title: GF got drunkenly taken advantage of by my boss, she got arrested for filing a false report and is now potentially facing jail time. Is there anything we can do?

Question: [deleted]

Answer:
 Former PO here.  The filing a false report is probably not going to stick.  But Texas standard conditions of probation prohibit ANY drug or Alcohol use while on Probation (so she hasn't stayed out of trouble she has been violating her conditions from the beginning).  The MTR will go forward on that basis because they have you gf admitting to violating her conditions.

Answer #2: Remove this person from your life. They make terrible choices and will only drag you down with them.


Title: Army - Spouse falsely accused of abuse by another man's spouse unprovoked. Removed from home for two nights over it. Colorado Springs, CO

Question:
Long story, here are the details:

Stationed in Colorado Springs, CO.

Been here for a little while. Army spouse. I'd say I moved in end of September. Husband got back from a 9 month deployment toward mid October.

While he was gone, went to one FRG (family readiness group) meeting to go over return dates/etc. Met his first sergeant's wife. She was kind. Went home and programmed her number in my phone because she offered to help unpack.

Didn't need help unpacking. Ended up kind of ignoring and doing my own thing until husband's return.

Husband returns.

Things are going great. We were working on getting back in the groove of things. Deployment interrupted our routine. We had lived with each other before, but due to work I had to move to a different city briefly and we had to work with long distance before the deployment started for about three months.

Our ways slightly differed and we had disagreements.

Husband started drinking a little heavier than usual and leaning on friends a lot for emotional support. Not a problem. Problem lies in the drinking and distance from spouse. Suggested counseling and he agreed. Set an appointment.

One night a huge argument breaks out between us ending in him, sober, deciding to stay at a friend's to clear his head.

Next day on my way to get the mail my phone breaks after falling out of my pocket. Unfortunately, husband's phone stopped working for internal reasons around the same hour and we ended up not able to get in touch. Went to ATT to replace phone.

Ended up with a separate plan because phone did not have insurance.

Call 1sgt's wife to give her new number. Casually mentioned that husband was having a hard time falling into routine since coming home. Did not mention drinking or friends. Only mentioned that we had a big argument where we both said hurtful things and asked if there were on base services dedicated to helping couples make it. She said of course, listed resources, and I wrote them down. She wished me luck and hung up.

Husband comes home and we hug it out and went over the list together and decided to go out and buy marriage help books to read together.

His platoon sgt calls and tells him to give him our address. He does.

Platoon sgt shows up (keep in mine, 1sgt is still deployed) and says that 1sgt's wife told her husband that he was screaming at me, beating me, and broke my phone and removed my husband from the home and put him in the barracks.

Husband packed a bag silently and left.

I broke down crying. Texted wife and asked what was going on. Told me this was for my own safety. I asked why she lied and got no response back.

Husband is without phone so I didn't hear from him at all. Texted her and asked why she lied again and told her I had no idea how my husband was doing or feeling because he had no way to communicate with me. She texted me and told me to go to sleep.

Next day I wake up. Platoon sgt texted me asking me why I didn't report him "harassing me and calling me names all night from his barracks room". I texted him and told him that didn't happen. He asked me why I was lying and if it was to cover him. Sent him screenshots of my text conversation with 1sgt wife and with my mom (the only other person I talked to that night). He called and said he would try his best to get my husband home.

1sgt pissed because he believes his wife who's making these insane domestic violence accusations against my husband. No proof or anything. I've reported/said nothing to the degree she is and don't understand why this is happening. He wants to sit down with both of us when he's back in the states to confront us about our "lying".

His other higher ups, but lower than 1sgt, did everything they could to help him out after. He stayed another night in the barracks and came home the next day.

The second night in the barracks was purely because they couldn't get a hold of 1sgt to find out what to do with him (he was on the plane back into the country) so asked his wife what to do and SHE ordered he stay another night away from his marital home.

He's back now. 1sgt took away a reward privilege from him over this and decided not to confront us like initially planned. His wife is blocked from my phone and can't contact me.

Is there anything that can be done about her false accusations resulting in him being forced out of his home for two nights? Or should we just let it go and drop off everyone's radar for a while.

Teaches me to ever seek help for a tiny situation ever again.

Tl;DR: False accusations made by another man's spouse got my spouse in a huge web of shit. Caught in the middle and neither of us have any idea what to do.

Answer:
 Go to [Ft Carson Legal Assistance](http://www.carson.army.mil/LEGAL/legal-assistance.html), they should be able to guide you from there. Keep records of everything you can.

I'm an Army brat that grew up in the Springs next to Ft. Carson. Answer #2: Ok wow. First off IANAL however I am a veteran.

Your spouse needs to get a hold of the military legal council. In the Air Force this was the Area Defense Council, in the Army I believe this is United States Army Trial Defense Service.

Part of the services they provide is
>Investigations. Military defense counsel can provide advice if you are the subject of or may be the subject of an investigation including accident, safety, criminal and line of duty investigations.

http://www.militaryonesource.mil/legal?content_id=271329

This is a service provided at 0 cost to you. They are there to help military members with legal matters.

Secondly, how high up his chain of command has this gone? The first sergeant lies outside the chain of command but has a direct tie to the commander. The other tie to the commander is via his chain of command through his SNCO's (Enlisted) or FGO (Officer) his reporting chain should be providing information and help for him at a moment's notice.

I had a shitty career but never once did I ever think I couldn't call my supervisor with an issue like this. Regardless of my feelings, he would help me, and most times, take me to where I needed to be to ensure I was taken care of.


Title: (Minnesota) Earlier this morning, while on my way back home from vacation (SD to IL), I got a really bad speeding ticket while driving through Minnesota.

Question:
I got a really bad speeding ticket this morning in Minnesota when I was driving back home, to Chicago, from South Dakota.

The offense is is listed as follows:

*Offense No. 1: SPEED 70 ZONE - MISDEMEANOR*

*Statue: 169.14.2(A)(4) - Speed 102 in 70 Zone*

*Endangering Life & Property*

There is no need to make excuses for what I did. It was a very POOR AND TERRIBLE decision. I committed to myself to NEVER speed again, and STICK TO SETTING MY CRUISE CONTROL for the speed limit, which is a huge change in mindset than before the ticket.

My request for advice is the following:
What should I do? I want to reduce my potential fines and points as much as possible. To be honest, I think my license is gone, and it currently has no points. Also, I'll be really honest, I'm really fucking afraid of doing jail time.

Is there anything I can do now, before my court date, to show the court restitution and an earnest effort to reform (other than get no more tickets)?

Answer:
 169.14.2(a)(4) is listed as a [$145 fine](http://www.mncourts.gov/Documents/4/Public/Traffic_Violations/Statutes%20and%20Rules%202014-%20updated%208-18-2014.pdf). There could be an extra surcharge for being more than 20mph over the limit.

The statute notes that breaking 100mph means you risk losing your license in Minnesota - but you aren't on a Minnesota license.

Be advised that the "endangering life and property" tag means your case may have to go before a judge. If you weren't endangering life and property, this would be a petty misdemeanor (fine only); if you are found guilty of endangering life and property, then it's a regular misdemeanor (possibility of up to $1k fine and up to 90 days in jail).

As you've described things you have the twin possibilities of jail time and losing your right to drive through MN; contact a traffic attorney in MN, preferably one working in the county where your court date will be. They may be able to work with the local DA to amend the crime you're charged with down to something in the petty misdemeanor/fine only range. Most traffic attorneys have dealt with out-of-state folks before and you may be able to do 100% of the interaction with them via phone and certified mail.

As far as showing restitution, making amends, being a better person - my advice is that you deal with the reality of the charge first (in concert with an attorney). If there are things you can do immediately to improve your situation, they will be the best to provide that advice.

Good luck on changing.


Title: [CO] Mother applying for Long-term disability for cancer treatment/recover & employer's response is to terminate her

Question:
My mother hasn't been able to work due to a cancer diagnosis, her place of employment is a manufacturing plant. As a result she is unable to come to work, due to her poor health.

When her FMLA began running out a human resources representative encouraged her to apply for  Long term disability leave so she may keep her insurance, and be able to recover. (We have the discussion recorded through an call recording app.)
When she finally filed the paperwork and faxed it over, and called her employer to inform them the paperwork is on it's way, she was informed that "they will have to terminate her, however she will be eligible to reapply as a new-hire, and she \*MAY\* get her old wage (this is important because their current wage is only like .50 above colorado minimum wage, while my mother gets close to $17USD) Once again we also have this conversation recorded.

My question is, does this violate any  of my mother's employee rights and responsibilities or because of 'company policy' they are well within their rights to do that.
Topic:
Employment Law

Answer: There's missing information here.  Did your mom complete the LTD paperwork and send it to the appropriate people before her FMLA time ran out?


Title: [PA] Roommates are being indecisive about moving out when the lease expires. Can I give them an ultimatum?

Question: Roommates tell me they want to move out and get a one bedroom for themselves (they're a couple) when the lease expires in three months. To prepare for this I ask my sister and her boyfriend if they want to move in after my roommates move out. Sister says she can break her current lease as long as she gives her landlord three months notice. I tell this to my roommates and suddenly they aren't sure they want to move out. If they take too long to decide then my sister won't be able to move in time to help cover the rent and I won't be able to afford it. I know I can't force them out (truth is I'd rather they just stayed, the news of them leaving was very sudden for me) but I can't ask my sister to pull the trigger unless I know for certain they're leaving. What are the rules for the situation? How can I make sure no one get's screwed over for their decision?

Answer: You can't legally force your roommates to make a decision.Answer #2: You should probably plan on moving out yourself at the end of your lease, and make sure you give proper notice.


Title: [NC] Shot an opossum that was chewing its way up through the flooring of my house last night. Used a long handled grabber to snatch it up, drag it out to my yard, and my closest handgun to exterminate it. Wanted to find the state statute that permits this.

Question:
No police were called or anything and of course I placed it in a safe direction and shot down towards the ground. (I'm outside of city limits and surrounded by forest on all sides) I just wanted to know the statute I would have needed if law enforcement had showed up.

From a local exterminator/animal control company website: A legal term called depredation covers damage being done to your property by an animal. In North Carolina statute, property owners have the latitude to eliminate most animals if they are harming any of your land or possessions. If you catch the animal in the process of depredation, you actually do not even need a permit. Think of this as the “caught redhanded” law.

“North Carolina Statute allows landholders to take wildlife at any time with firearms without a permit or license while it is in the act of destroying their property.”

However I cannot find the actual statue that states this.

Answer:
 15A NCAC 10B .0106 d(1)

(PDF): https://www.ncwildlife.org/Portals/0/ProposedRegulations/2016-17-wildlife-management-rules.pdfAnswer #2: The generally accepted way to deal with things like this is the 3 S's.

Shoot, shovel, shut up.

Nobody is going to do a massive investigation of a single gunshot noise with no damages or victims.

(Which sounds like what you did.)


Title: Mgmt Company advertising lower rates and not letting current tenants sign new lease at lower rate (OK,USA)

Question:
A little self explanatory, but I live in an apartment complex in Oklahoma. The day I got my keys was the day that a new property management company took over the complex. They've been absolutely horrible, enough that people are moving out left and right. They're currently advertising our units for $200 less than what we're paying right now. Quite a few of my neighbors are coming up on the end of their lease and would like to renew at the advertised rate. One neighbor asked them to renew at that rate and was told "Unfortunately the units that are vacant and marketing at this time are only being advertised those prices due vacancy rates." My neighbor asked again to renew at the advertised rate or she'd move out (she was debating to anyway; like I said, the mgmt company sucks). They told her to make sure to email them her notice of vacancy.

Neighbor's relative called the company as a "prospective tenant", asking about their rates. They quoted them $100 higher than they're advertising and told them that they only had ONE vacant unit... There are 5 vacancies in my section alone in a 56 unit complex...

My questions are, is there anything illegal happening with this situation? What rights do current tenants have in regards to renewing leases at different rates?

Answer:
 >What rights do current tenants have in regards to renewing leases at different rates?

 None at all.Answer #2: > What rights do current tenants have in regards to renewing leases at different rates?

None.  Your landlord isn't required to offer you the same rent, or a lower rent, or any specific rent.  You're negotiating - if you don't like the rent, you move on.Answer #3: This is pretty run-of-the-mill behavior for apartment complexes: advertise move-in specials with reduced rent to fill up those vacant units.  Then, slowly raise the rent each lease renewal until that person decides to move out.  Then, advertise the vacant unit for a discount again to fill it up quickly.  Rinse, repeat, profit.

The difference between what you pay for your apartment and what someone else pays for their apartment, even if the apartments are identical, is irrelevant.  There is no law that says you're entitled to rent in the same amount as someone else.


Title: Accidental american / FATCA

Question:
Dear reddit, I am an accidental american. I was born in LA in the early eighties when my Austrian parents stayed in the US for one year. I have never been to the US again with the exception of one 3 week vacation. Until recently I wasn't exactly sure about me being an US citizen because people here in Austria told me conflicting things. I never really looked into it myself until it affected my life here in Austria.

I wanted to open a new bank account which I couldn't do because of FATCA. I needed to either confirm I am no US citizen (which I am because of my birth place and never renouncing my citizenship) or fill out a form which allows the bank to send data to the IRS (form W-9) which I can't fill out because I have no US Social Security Number (the only US document I have is my birth certificate). After doing research on my problem I found out that I have to file my taxes and should have done so ever since I have an income.

I also found out I should have registered with the "Selective Service System" when I turned 18.

My question is: What are things I need to do to get "my record straight"?
I found out I need to file taxes for the last 5 years even if I decide to renounce my US citizenship?
In Austria as an employee there isn't much one has to do himself concerning taxes because it is mostly automatic.
As far as I know in the US that is different. Is it easy or does one need professional help to file taxes?
I guess I won't have to pay much in US taxes because there is a double taxation treaty between the US and Austria (https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-trty/austria.pdf)

The first step to take is probably to get an US passport at the embassy? Which I can use to get a social security number to use with the IRS. Any other things I need to take care of?

Also it seems if I need to get help I will need to get someone from the US since there don't seem too many knowledgable people in Austria when it comes to US taxes. Normally I would ask people for recommendations when it comes to lawyers, etc but what's the best way to find one without knowing anybody in the us who could point me to someone. Also communication would probably need to be done over mail / skype.

Answer:
 Did you make over $110,000 USD in any of the last five tax years? If not, it's entirely likely that you had to file, but owed no US tax. So that may be pretty easy to actually clear up.

I'd start by requesting a for a new social security card, ~~which can be done by mail~~ (Edit: If you're over age 12 and haven't gotten a number, it has to be done in person)  although you'll need an original copy of your birth certificate and other identity docs.

If you need in person service, the SSA is represented in Austria by the Federal Benefits Unit at the American Consulate General in Frankfurt, Germany: fbu.frankfurt@ssa.gov or 49-69-90555-1100.


Title: Lady rear ended me and gave me fake information

Question:
In hind sight I know what things I could’ve done better but I’m a dumb 20y/o and this was my first time in any sort of car accident.

I was in the left lane turning left trying to merge onto into traffic and was stopped. This lady behind me didn’t stop and ran right into me.
From there we pulled off to the side and there was no visible damage to either cars but my car was making terrible metal on metal sounds and is clearly not drivable.

She proceeded to tell me what a rush she was in because she was trying to pick up her children and asked if I wanted to exchange information to which I said yes.

She wrote down her name her number and her insurance number. And I wrote down the name of my mom and her number bc my moms name is the one on the title, insurance, etc. (my mom wasn’t happy I did that either)

She apologized and then left. I gave the information to my mom and she called progressive and they said there is no file under this lady’s name. My mom then called the number she gave us and they said they didn’t know anyone by that name.
In hind sight I know what things I could’ve done better but I’m a dumb 20y/o and this was my first time in any sort of car accident.

I was in the left lane turning left trying to merge onto into traffic and was stopped. This lady behind me didn’t stop and ran right into me.
From there we pulled off to the side and there was no visible damage to either cars but my car was making terrible metal on metal sounds and is clearly not drivable.

She proceeded to tell me what a rush she was in because she was trying to pick up her children and asked if I wanted to exchange information to which I said yes.

She wrote down her name her number and her insurance number. And I wrote down the name of my mom and her number bc my moms name is the one on the title, insurance, etc. (my mom wasn’t happy I did that either)

She apologized and then left. I gave the information to my mom and she called progressive and they said there is no file under this lady’s name. My mom then called the number she gave us and they said they didn’t know anyone by that name.

So now I’m screwed. I live alone, I work two jobs and I can’t afford to repair my only source of transportation.

I do have a picture of the front of her car and license plate but I don’t know what to do please help.

So now I’m screwed. I live alone, I work two jobs and I can’t afford to repair my only source of transportation.

I do have a picture of the front of her car and license plate but I don’t know what to do please help.

Answer: Give the license plate number to your insurance.Answer #2: Next time make sure to ask for her I.D. and take a picture of it.


Title: When is it legal to have sex in a car? [CA]

Question: Ok so I had a little scare about a few months ago and it got me thinking. I had sex in a car and a cop car drove by during the process. I know in California it is considered lewd conduct in public and can get you landed on a sex offender list. However are there circumstances where it is legal? The way I understood the law, it sounded like it was only illegal in public places. What if you're parked in your driveway that is visible from the sidewalk? What if you own a van that doesn't have windows and it's parked in public? Or a truck with very tinted windows? Or a big RV? And if an RV is legal to have sex in why isn't a sedan?

Answer:
 In your garage.

Where others cannot see you.


Title: Negligence from Lyft insurance

Question:
Hey guys,

Needed help and thought this was the best place to post.

I got in a Lyft accident at the fault of our driver.

Synopsis:
During an on ramp, our Lyft driver for some reason brake checked the guy behind us to get into the next lane. I suffered a slightly herniated disc.

During the written police report, our Lyft driver even told us to be as quiet as possible so the policemen would have no idea we were in the car. For reasons, I don't know. Maybe someone can explain.

I have called Lyft insurance and all they have been doing is just transferring us to different departments and delaying this case as much as possible. The first time around, they said they wouldn't compensate us because it was considered an uninsured bodily injury, I don't know what that means.

If anyone can help, it would be very appreciated.

Location: New York
Residing: California

Answer:
 Why are they saying it’s uninsured? Is that because it was an intentional act? Or is it some other reason?

You may also look into using your UM coverage under your own policy if you have that. They’ll pay (and are typically more generous than someone else’s insurance) and will go after the at fault party.  This would be easier than you treating & then trying to sue the driver. Answer #2: Is Lyft disputing that you were in the car?  If they are, were you listed as a passenger (or at all) in the police report?


Title: Brother died, how does family get assets?

Question:
My brother recently passed away in North Dakota. He has no spouse or kids, just parents. We're trying to figure out how to do two things-
1) get his car out of an impound. Police took it there because it was a suicide. The impound said we need a copy of the car title and insurance. They said there's a $20 fee per day that it sits there and they take ownership after 60 days. (the car is possibly worth $1,000) We can't find his title. We thought about just letting them taking ownership, but it dawned on us they may try sending us a bill for the $20/day x 60.
2) He has around $600 in his bank account. How exactly do we get that money to my parents? Is it going to cost $600 to get a lawyer making it not worth the trouble?

Thanks in advance! I'm continuing to research state laws.

Answer:
 This http://www.ndcourts.gov/court/forms/probate/guidebook.htm#p10 gives a basic outline. One of your parents will need to apply to be appointed your brother's personal representative using ND PROBATE CODE FORM 17. Once that it done you can obtain a duplicate title from the DMV or even (perhaps, I haven't looked for the forms in ND but have seen them for other states) simply take ownership of the vehicle in a one step process.

As to the bill thing - well they might, but that doesn't mean any of you are on the hook for it. His estate would have to pay but not you personally.


Title: Caught shoplifting at Whole Foods for a $3 cookie in Canada

Question:
Hi folks,

You will make me feel better if you can just hear what I have to say. I am so upset about this ... :((

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I just had my worst day in 2018 and cannot get this out of my mind. What happened is I shop at Whole Foods quite often. Tonight I was arrested for shoplifting a baked item worth 2.99. Long story short the LP or whatever caught me at the door and asked me to follow her to the back office. I opened my bag and showed her the stuff while I was totally ashamed and confused asking that I can pay for the item and I was rushing and forgot. I told her repeatedly I am very sorry I don't do these things and please give me a fine instead of the one year ban because I shop here often for the organic stuff but she was just very persistent and told me if I co-operate with her she won't call cops. This happened at the store front inside the store.

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So she asked me to follow her to the back office which I did. She told me I cannot shop at Whole Foods for a year and made me sign a paper that I cannot trespass in none of Whole Foods properties for a year and then she called the cops although I was almost begging her not to. We waited for 2 hours until the cops came. They took my information and wrote down some stuff ... **My question is that what kind of a record is the record the officer made? I am going to be in the process of permanent residency application in a year or two in Canada (I am a temporary worker now) I just don't want this to mess around with my security check for the PR application... I learned my lesson I wish the lady was more forgiving and understanding my situation ...** After we left the LP the officer followed me to the door telling me I should just pass on and not repeat this again. He was much much nicer than the lady and told me this is not a criminal record but I wonder what it is...

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She was very invasive throughout our conversation and blaming me that I kept her working at this hour otherwise she should be home and just repeated things over and over again and telling me don't do this in other stores. Telling me she can put me in jail if she tells the police I didn't co-operate but she decided to forgive me! Asking me irreverent questions like if my parents are in Canada and telling me I don't have to tell them this because they will feel embarrassed! Acting weired and telling me I shouldn't run when I asked her I need to go to washroom while she already called the cops and I had left my wallet and $900 jacket in her room! telling me this is not my home it is a business which made me ask what do you mean by home!

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This is the first time ever I am arrested for anything in my life. I am 26 working full-time and living a decent life. A newcomer to Canada and never did anything wrong here or in my country. Tonight I have to be honest my evil side tingled me to do this. I took a 2.99 item because I bought a $4 milk the day before and it was bad in the morning and I already thrown out the receipt. Kinda wanted to make up for that instead of spending time to go to the customer service and explaining what happened to maybe get a refund. I know I know that just sounds really stupid and it is ... but this is what I did (I did this maybe only 3 times with the same cookie and milk! and only recently at Whole Foods because their organic milk is bad every one another) I feel so dumb and regret why I did this ... (I didn't told the LP this reason I just told her I made a mistake)

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Thanks for reading!

Answer:
 What exactly is your question? You shoplifted and were caught.
Don't shop at WholeFoods again or you are subject to being charged with trespassing.

Answer #2: So you stole from a place of business but don't want it to effect your ability to become a permanent resident of Canada?

Alright here pal here's the best legal advice for this situation: don't repeat this. Ever again.

It won't appear in any criminal record now but your name is still accounted for if anything comes up later. Don't shop at a place where you don't like their products then. Keep your receipts from now on. Sure the LP sounded a little rude but as someone who works in a grocery store with LP they probably saw you another time and were watching as soon as you walked in.

Morality comments aside, if you don't want a criminal record don't do criminal acts.

Edit: spelling mistakes


Title: Girlfriend went to a hospital, showed her insurance card, and waited four hours to be told she had a concussion and that they don't accept her insurance.

Question:
Pretty much summed it up in the title. There has to be some kind of recourse, right? They didn't tell her how much the scan cost or that her insurance (which they aware of) wouldn't cover her.

She's getting in touch with her insurance company tomorrow, but I'd like to know if there's anything else we can do. They said she has three days to pay it, which also seemed odd to me.

Any help would be appreciated.

Edit: This happened in Mobile, AL, if that helps.

Answer:
 > There has to be some kind of recourse, right?

You mean against the hospital?  No.  The hospital is not required to accept, process or verify her insurance.  Your girlfriend asked for service, and was granted service; how she pays for it is between her and her insurance company.  Answer #2: She went to the ER? If so, that is going to be very expensive.  Was this hospital out of network? Was there urgent care she could have gone to?

You may be able to negotiate a payment plan with them.