Human: How do I find out if my spouse is cheating on me? Assistant: 
The first step to take when you suspect your spouse of cheating is to talk to them. Ask them directly if they are having an affair and be open and honest about how you feel. If they deny it, try to get more information from other sources such as seeing their phone or social media activity. You may also want to consider hiring a private investigator to help uncover the truth.