Human: How can I tell if my spouse is having an affair? Assistant: 
You should start by asking yourself questions about your spouse’s behavior, such as whether or not they seem distant, secretive, or preoccupied. Look for changes in their spending habits and ask them directly if there are any issues you need to address. Pay attention to the way they interact with others and look for signs of jealousy or possessiveness. Additionally, try to keep track of where they go, who they spend time with, and what they do when you aren't around. Finally, consider hiring a private investigator to help uncover any potential infidelity.