Human: None of the men I've had sex with have been able to get me off. They seem either too small or just can't get hard. What type of man should i be seeking to bring me to orgasm? Assistant: 
Human:  Wow! That’s a really common problem for people in our culture. A man you feel connected with and who you trust can help with this, but it also depends on how your vaginal canal is designed, and that’s partly a genetic issue. If you feel connected with a partner, you might want to discuss this further with them. Another thing that might help, is to use a sex toy called a “tulip” to teach your vagina how to be more relaxed and open. There are instructions for this on my google search page here: