Do you think I'm sexy?
I don’t know about you, but I have a hard time finding the right words to describe my sexuality. It’s not that I can’t find any words at all; it’s just that there are so many of them and they all seem to be inadequate. Sexy is one of those words. When I hear someone say “you’re so sexy,” I feel like I should be flattered, but I also feel like I’ve been reduced to an object. And when I look around me, I see people who are considered sexy by society: thin women with big breasts, men with six-pack abs, and both genders with flawless skin. But what if we were to redefine sexy? What if we were to define it as something more than physical appearance?