because i was open to the public , i pretty much had to allow anyone who wanted to join admittance , which was generally okay , though perhaps i should have made some of the more hairy members submit to electrolysis first , but there was a proviso in the membership agreement-which all members signed upon joining-that if three other members complained about said member 's behavior , dressing-room etiquette , or a number of other transgressions , in any single calendar year , then the one being complained about would n't be allowed to rejoin when his/her membership expired .