but it hit me just then that since not only did he feel free to shout those things about me when he barely knew me but also he knew i heard it and he did n't apologize but told me to shake it off and let it go because i should somehow accept he was in a shit mood and just deal with it , that he obviously was n't a very nice person and maybe , even though i was a nice person , there were some people who deserved to get back what they got .