it 's all the same to me because while you 're making a fool of yourself , i get to go home to jonas and tate and make them dinner and watch tv and climb into bed with my old man and you do n't exist until you make your presence known and then you 're just a nuisance and a reason for tate and me to share a laugh because just like her , '' i jerked my head at hayley , `` in the end , you 're just a joke . ''