`` thanks , '' i replied , tipping my head to the side then , to shift the mood and probably breaking all the rules of the game by doing something that would get me kicked out of the sisterhood , i shared , `` if i 'd have known you were spending the night i would have carved out some time to take a trip to the mall to buy a silky , sexy nightie that shouted , occasion , `` with this , i lifted up my hands and shook them then dropped them and continued , `` though it would be carefully selected so when you saw me in it you 'd think that was what i wore to bed every night when it is n't .