women who can pull off lookin ' beautiful bein ' barefoot in a kitchen wearin ' a t-shirt and glasses and no makeup with their hair pulled back in a ponytail while they decorate a cake that makes your mouth water just lookin ' at it , well , '' my eyes had gone to him and he smiled gently at me , `` do n't know a man alive or dead that i met in my sixty-eight years who would n't want that woman above all others in his kitchen . ''