but , well , i do n't know whyi mean , yes , i do knowknow why , i meansee , people all want the same thing , but they do n't know what it is , or they think it 's something elsethat 's what del saysand when someone like del comes along , well , people think they think but thenth-th-then people do n't always know grief or fatigue or too much life lived too soon overwhelmed the words .